Stay away from those who do not take you seriously
Author:Ask Zen Time:2022.09.11
Whenever it is worthwhile, why should you be wronged?
Author: Uncle Bei
Source: Uncle Bei has an appointment (ID: beishu2016)
Some people say that today's world is getting cooler and thinner, and the feelings between people are becoming cheaper and cheaper.
In fact, I think that it is not emotional that really cheap, but knowing that it is not paid to pay attention but not knowing how to stop.
You know, in the people who come and go, the person who takes you in your heart will cherish you, instead of not taking you seriously, the more you pay, but the humidity.
Many times, you think you can move the other person without reservation, but the result is just a person's unicorn.
Writer Liu Tong wrote such a sentence in the book:
"There are results in this world.
For a person who does not take you seriously, you pay more time and effort, and you are not interesting. For a person who does not take you seriously, you are tolerant of more sadness and grievances.
If you do n’t want to make your sincere sincerity into sadness, then you must stay away from those who do n’t take you seriously, and do n’t be stupidly drilling with yourself.
Not all encounters in the world can be treated gentle;
In the relationship, you are not you who can make a result.
This is the case between Zhang Youyi and Xu Zhimo.
Zhang Youyi always tried his best to be a virtuous wife. However, Xu Zhimo's attitude was always indifferent, disgusting, and impatient.
In order to have more exchanges with Xu Zhimo, Zhang Youyi deliberately invited family teachers for a year, but Xu Zhimo still ignored her. When she found that she was pregnant, Zhang Youyi told Xu Zhimo happily that she thought that the relationship between each other could ease, but the other party decided to inform her and beat the child.
After this incident, Zhang Youyi was completely disheartened. Only for many years, only the husband's coldness and dislikes were obtained without regrets. In the end, she decided to sign a divorce agreement.
After leaving Xu Zhimo, Zhang Youyi really realized Nirvana's rebirth, not only with a successful career, but also gained good love.
Many people have heard of the four words "timely stop loss", but few people can do it.
However, Zhang Youyi knew how to act, and also paid actions, staying away from the person who had not taken herself from the beginning to the end, and lived as everyone's envy.
Whenever it is worthwhile, why should you be wronged?
The enthusiasm of giving has no response, so don't have obsessions; carefully getting along with each other is still picky, don't bully yourself.
To understand that those who accompany you will never make you feel lonely and disappointed; only those who don't care about you will trample on your sincerity, turn a blind eye to you, and disappoint.
In this life, the past cannot be looked back. The years cannot be turned back. If you are unhappy, try to let go, and stay away from the people who do not take it seriously. Give yourself a chance to meet the beauty in the future.
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