Late Reading | Speaking is the size of being a man

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Talking is ability, understanding and retreating is the ability

A writer said: "Talking people can let others come out of the frame, and those who do not speak often put on the framework for others."

Those who have good thoughts never need to define others.

What kind of attitude a person speaks often represents him like that.

Speaking is the size of being a person.

The soft tongue can pick a person's bones. Language is sometimes more hurt than violence.

The so -called words are the voices, and those behaviors that only show their emotions and disregard the feelings of others, their essence is selfish.

The charm of language is not to fight everywhere when speaking.

Language is like a person's label. People who speak in a proper speech, know how to think for others, will enjoy love with others. When the other party is sad, it will give time encouragement and praise.

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Words are temperature, and you should be cautious when you open your mouth

In a way of speaking, he hides his attitude and cultivation.

I don't know if you have met like such people. They can't talk about it. They say what whatever they want, and do whatever they want.

So many times inadvertently made the people around them unhappy, but they didn't notice it at all.

However, people who have a cultivation will think about what to say before speaking, which will make the other party unhappy, and what words are appropriate.

If a person's words are shot to others like an ice knife, they vent their emotions ragingly. Even if they are expressing their concern, it is difficult for the people around them to feel tender.

"Good words with others, warming up fabric; hurting people with words, deep than those of spear halberds."

It can be better for a few days in the body, but how long does it take to heal the trauma of the mind? If you do, understand one more point between people and one less blame.

Ask yourself: Since the heart of tofu, why bother?

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Those who have good thoughts, know how to respect others

A person's mouth is a person's spiritual portal.

The soft, gentle and kind people can't bear to speak coldly.

A person's words can really redeem a injured heart.

Good words and evil words, redemption or damage are often only between one thought.

Those who are kind and soft -speaking are other people in their hearts.

It is their most basic cultivation for others.

The so -called, good words, three winter warm.

People who are kind in their hearts are not that he has more skills, but will set up the feelings of taking care of others, and use language to make people like spring breeze, giving people strength and courage.

Rather than treating your heart straight as an excuse, it is better to give people and beautiful color.

I would rather shut up, and not bullshit in words.

Leaving face to others is also for yourself. There is virtue in your mouth, and there is goodness in your heart.

Photography 丨 West Mountain Watch

Source 丨 Xinhua News Agency, the article is deleted and modified

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