Postering the index finger speech is the kind with the lowest threshold

Author: Insight · ELM

Don't refer to others without the suffering of others.

01

Recently, I saw a post.

An uncle, a wet migrant worker, was holding two grilled sausages in his hand, with a happy smile on his face.

He said: "It is also a kind of beauty to buy grilled intestines under the rain."

Fireworks full of fireworks, accompanied by simple and enthusiastic text, should have made people feel warm.

But there were some helpless voices in the comment area:

"I feel bad for your wife, and the two grilled intestines are sent." "Wait for one day to buy the diamond ring, and then show love."

Open Uncle's personal homepage, you can see that he takes the family to work hard in the city.

Go to the construction site every day, and you can get off work in dark. The salary earned every month can only barely pay for daily spending.

The seemingly cheap grilled sausage is a luxury in him.

Although life is not wealthy, the uncle uses optimism and sincerity to feel every small luck in daily trivial:

Squat at the door of the construction site, feel a box of humble box lunch, and eat the northeast stew pot;

After working overtime, the family ate pig's head and also joked with each other "what to eat and make up";

He cordially called his wife "wife", called his son as "Xiaolang", and he was "apron dad".

Even though his life was not glorious, he still had a warm life and light.

In this world, if there is an umbrella, no one wants to drizzle.

But the person running in the rain also has the right to happiness.

Even if you can't understand, you should not blame at will.

As writer Zhou Guoping once said, "You can not applaud, but please don't interrupt."

Putting away the index finger speech, not disturbing the happiness of others is the most basic kindness of a person.

02

Some time ago, Director Dong of the Real Estate Research Center of Beijing Normal University made a suggestion on the public platform.

Farmers spend money to buy houses in the county seat, and usually drive to rural areas to plant land.

He said: "The public services in the county seat are completely different from the information, insights they can provide, and the environment of the countryside. This is very necessary for improving the personal quality of farmers."

This proposal was ridiculed.

Some netizens saw the blood: "You are using your own sense of superiority to stab the souls that bite your teeth for life."

Station B netizen@b b b, once shared the life of farmers who were in remote mountain villages and witnessed.

Don't say that buying a house in the county, most of them can only curl up in the break -out house.

The potatoes piled up on the ground were pecked by chickens and ducks.

In order to subsidize the family, even the five or six -year -old children had to carry the concrete bricks heavier than themselves.

They turned over the mountain all day, and they often just earned two dollars.

Some young people who went out to work worked hard for 10,000 a year, but sent 9,000 to the family.

In many people's eyes, 1,000 yuan is just a meal.

For them, it is a whole year.

The Ministry of Agriculture and Rural Affairs announced a set of data:

In 2021, the average annual disposable income of Chinese farmers was 18,931 yuan, which was equivalent to less than 1,600 yuan per month.

Faced with the wind knife cream in the world, they only had bare hands.

The phrase "buy a house and buy a car" only makes people feel that "why not eat meat" is mean.

There is no real feeling in the world.

If you can't understand the situation of others and put away your index finger speech, it is the greatest respect for people.

03

Some time ago, the topic of "Shanghai girls commute 6.5 hours a day" rushed on Weibo hot search.

Because it is too far away from the company, girls have to get up at 5:20 every day and go to the bus at 6 o'clock.

After taking a 1.5 -hour bus, you need to transfer 45 minutes of subway.

Go out of the subway station and run to the company's shuttle point in 10 minutes.

In this way, she can rush to the company's park around 8:50 and get a 9 o'clock card.

After a toss, it costs 3 hours and 15 minutes.

And for such a person who is desperately running for work, there are still people ridiculed:

"If you deserve to be poor for a lifetime, you don't know how to drive to work, or rent the house to the company.

Maybe spend more money every month, but you can save time to learn and charge from me. "

But in fact, even if girls drive, it takes nearly 2 hours to one way in the morning and evening.

Coupled with fuel costs, tolls and parking fees, an additional expenditure is 5,000 yuan per month.

If you rent a house near the company, the cost is even higher than driving.

And this is not a newly graduated young man who can bear it.

In this world, there are people living in high buildings, and some people are rusty.

There are always people upstairs who are accustomed to standing from their own perspective and criticizing others' lives.

Gao Xiaosong, who does not have to worry about work, said that college students are only for employment, do not know poetry and far away;

Wang Shi, who is not worried about money, said that young people just want to make money and do not use their energy to travel ...

There are also netizens who have recently accused them of "trampling dignity". Can you know that this is the only source of the carfare man?

They thought that they could not help others, and only exposed their pride that they lacked empathy.

Thinking of a word: "You stand on the ship's deck, I wander the sea, grab the wooden boards that may be sinking at any time, but you laugh and I don't know how to appreciate the beautiful starry sky."

Although poverty and ignorance are sad, it is more sad for the growth of wealth and knowledge, but it is greater. Putting away the index finger speech is to put away the arrogance of heights.

04

In this world, not everyone can live a calm body.

It is just that some people are suffering from poverty and are still willing to retain their inner goodness.

Scholars at Stanford University showed two pictures to people.

On the first picture, a person wearing a decent man was standing next to the fundraising box with a dollar in his hand.

People instinctively believe that this is a donation.

In the second picture, the donated person was replaced by a scavenger.

Someone in the crowd immediately shouted: No matter how poor you should go to the money in the donation box!

There is a sentence in "Round Table":

"While pursuing a better life, don't lose the patience to perceive the world. Otherwise, the more you have, you will become more narrow and extreme."

For three years of the epidemic, we have seen the poor tramp generous, and we have also seen the bright and beautiful merchants who have made great fortunes;

I have seen the takeaway brother to help send first -aid materials to run all night, and have seen the so -called high -quality students stealing the package of others.

This world is often not what you see.

Unknown the whole picture, don't easily extend your finger and blame the person who is not decent.

As you say something:

"Compared to those who struggle for life, we are not more noble, but we are more lucky." ▽

Nietzsche once said:

"When you stretch your index finger to others, don't forget that there are three fingers, pointing to yourself."

Gao Gao's accusing others of others will not show his superiority, but exposes the ignorance, arrogance and prejudice in the bones.

Human insights should not just go up, but also extend down.

Like a praise and encourage friends.

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