Women ran the blind husband with a head rope for 30 years: once the village's only flower, she said that "lover is not love for money"

Jimu Journalist Yu Yuan Zhao Delong

Many years later, recalling the days of the production team, Lou Dexin still remembered that his wife Lou Shunguang's appearance of the year. At that time, the two worked in a production team during the day and studied and singing in the troupe in the evening. He was the leader of the troupe and his wife was Huadan.

Before getting married, Lou De's new vision was not good. There was no longer except for a bit of small fields in the family. Lou Shunguang ignored his family's opposition and said, "I am a lover, not love for money."

For nearly 50 years of marriage, the guy of Fenghua Zhengmao was already full of gray hair, and Huadan on the stage had already become a grandma. Lou Dexin has encountered blindness and stroke, and Lou Shunguang has never been abandoned.

Today, 72 -year -old Lou Dexin runs 4 kilometers with his wife Lou Shunguang every day. A head rope, connecting the couple, this run is nearly 30 years. 50 years of marriage, 30 years long -run, this fairy -like love story is a good story in the local area.

Two people run together (picture source: video screenshot)

Black -headed rope holding the husband and wife heart

In the Mid -Autumn Festival, on the village road in Dongyang City, Zhejiang, a lively scene. Hengtang Village is facing the east, and a row of bungalows will extend along the directions of the road. At a glance, many villagers on the roadside are making their own moon cakes.

This village road is where Lou Dexin and Lou Shunguang have ran for 30 years. Loujia is only less than 200 meters away from the local Luoping Primary School. A small courtyard courtyard with a small courtyard is covered with a red glazed tile on the cement fence. The door is half -covered. Essence

Door of the house

Entering the building, a red rope is caught in the eyes. The rope is tied to the column, and the quarrel paper and the brush card are hung on the column: Please wear a mask into the inside. This is both the Benchen Cilayer and the home of Lou De's new husband and wife. In August, due to the immortal epidemic in Yiwu, Dongyang was also affected. Entering the village clinic room, the body temperature and measuring body temperature have become daily.

Interior

The home is the starting point of running. The destination is Luocheng Pingqi, 2 kilometers away, and the locals call it "Houshan". Along the village road, his wife Lou Shunguang used a black -headed rope to hold her husband Lou Dexin's hand for nearly 30 years.

When Lou De was young, he suffered from blindness after eye illness, and every step he took was "like the abyss." Under the leadership of his wife, the two mastered each other's rhythm. Good words.

Running is usually in the early morning. The two climbed up at 4 am. After washing, they took the radio and the key to the house and started running. The two always ran back and forth in one breath, almost stopping, about 4 kilometers away, less than half an hour in total.

Lou Shunguang is 68 years old, and Lou De is older and 72 years old. Lou Dexin was wearing sunglasses. Although his head was white, he stepped up but his pace was light. "Lou Dexin said.

"He was swollen, and he couldn't even run a hundred steps at first." Lou Shunguang said that when he tried to run, the husband had fallen many times, and the sneakers also worn a lot of pairs, but they were never discouraged. Running down is like addictive, and it is uncomfortable not to run a day.

Nowadays, running has become a top priority in the life of the two. After running home for breakfast, Lou Dexin will also bear the housework at home. "Although he can't see his eyes, he has always been my leaning." Lou Shunguang Say.

The only Huadan in the village

Hentang Village, located in the middle of Dongyang City, is about 10 kilometers from the urban area. According to the villagers, and the dangcun was built during the Yongle period of the Ming Dynasty, the ancestor of the Muchi Village was the surname of the building.

Hetangcun Village

"Hetang Village is a large village, and the village is mostly surnamed." A villager named Li in the village introduced that he moved into Hetangcun from other places, and now it has been more than 30 years.

Lou Dexin and Lou Shunguang were both from the 1950s in the 1950s. "After adults, we work in a production team." Lou Dexin said that in addition to the production team, the village also organized a drama to sing a drama. He was the leader of the drama. Wu opera, commonly known as "Jinhua Opera", one of the local opera dramas in Zhejiang Province. Because Jinhua was known as Wuzhou in ancient times, it was named Wu opera in 1950.

"My uncle's cousin is unclear, and there is no big thing to go to the door ..." This is a singing lyric in the red light. Recalling the days of the troupe, Lou Shunguang is still vivid. Let her be Huadan again. In the drama, the two gradually became emotional in the day and night.

When asked who chased, Lou Shunguang laughed and took a heavy shot on Lou Dexing's shoulder, "You say!"

Lou Dexin smiled, his fingers curled up, knocking on the table with your fingers, as if crossing the 1970s, "at that time the villagers intended to match us. She was the only Huadan in the village. It was not easy to cultivate a flower in the village. She married. "

The two worked together during the day and sang a drama together at night. Getting along the day and night, and the people around them intended to match, the relationship between the two also had subtle changes.

"In addition to singing a model show, we also performed the three dozen bone essence of the drama." Lou Shunguang recalled that at the time, it was performed in a primary school playground. The wife performed white bone essence. The drama was very sensational. Tens of thousands of people in the county rushed to the scene to watch drama.

Lou Dexin said that at that time, everyone performed a model show. In order to fight for the play of the three -do white bone essence, he wrote a letter to his superiors. At that time, the masses were very enthusiastic, and everyone performed as expected, and the results were really sensational. In the cooperation again and again, the hearts of the two young people get closer and closer.

Lou Dexin's instrument

"Lover is not love for money"

As the relationship gradually heated up, the lifelong event of the two also gradually put on the agenda. At that time, the two had no house. In addition, there was a problem with the new eyes of Lou De. His myopia was as high as more than 1,000 degrees. The family who started building Shunguang at the beginning did not agree with the family.

According to Lou Shunguang's brother Lou Shui, when the mother's family knew the relationship between the two, she was very uncomfortable. "Lou De's new eyes are not good. We are all worried that the younger sister will be too bad after marrying."

"I am the one who loves him, not his wealth." Lou Shunguang said that during the contact of the two, she had already perceive Lou Dexin's sincerity, and she was the same, and she had already identified in her heart. Lou Dexin.

In 1969, Lou Dexin participated in the professional medical training organized by the county and became the "barefoot doctor" in the village. Under his persistence, the masses slowly began to trust him to find him to see a doctor. Essence

In 1973, Lou Dexin and Lou Shunguang moved into the palace of marriage under the witness and blessing of relatives and friends of both parties. At that time, Lou Dexin was 23 years old, and Lou Shunguang was 4 years younger than him. In the days after marriage, Lou Dexin saw the pulse for surrounding residents, and Lou Shiguang helped get off. Later, Lou Dexin became a village doctor in the village.

Hengtang villager Lou Yancai (pseudonym) said that he had also found Lou Dexin to see a doctor. "Dexin medicine is very good, and he will take the pulse." Lou Yancai said, using his hand to scratch the pulse movement.

"We used to see a doctor before, and we all went up the mountain to dig herbal medicine." Lou Shunguang said that the herbs on the mountain are good and cheap, and now they rarely go up the mountain.

After the marriage, the two children were born one after another, and Lou Dexin also bought the courtyard of the village clinic. The small courtyard sits on the east dynasty and west, three rooms in the south: a pharmacy, a treatment room, and a miscellaneous room; the "Chengdong Street and the Temple of the Temple" of the pharmacy door, the east room is kitchen and dining room, north room room, room in the north room It is a bedroom and living room. The family lived a bland and happy life in this courtyard.

Loujiayuan

In the summer of 1993, a sudden occurred, and the happy little days of the husband and wife seemed to stop abruptly. That year, Lou Dexin was 43 years old. Because of his excessive eyes, the retina dropped off, and surgery was urgent. Before the operation, Lou De's new eyes filled with silicon oil, which needed to stay in bed to avoid strenuous exercise. But for more than ten days before the operation, two children in the village accidentally drowned, and the villagers ran to his house with their children.

Lou Shunguang recalled that her husband was lying on the bed and heard someone shouting for life, so he quickly got up and gave the child an artificial breath for the first time. After the child's life signs were stable, he was relieved.

"The two children were rescued smoothly, and now they have married their wives and children." Lou Dexin said, but that year, because of excessive force on the face, he caused the retina to be more fragile. Destiny invalid. The double strikes that came in succession made his physical condition more serious. After the eyes were bleeding, he was completely blind.

The blindness brought a lot of psychological pressure to Lou Dexin. Lou Shunguang recalled that for a long time after her husband was blind, he was always depressed, and his body became very weak because of hormone therapy.

The stroke has been cured twice

On the evening of September 6, 2022, there were not many pedestrians on the village road. Although it was night, many people in the Loujiayuan still came to the consultation. There was a family of three, her mother was holding the child in her arms, and Lou Dexin said a few words, and Lou Shiguang had brought medicines for the child.

After finishing the work, Lou Dexin, who was cool in the living room, recalled the situation when he was blind, and his heart was very calm. Lou Dexin said that at that time, for the treatment of eyes, he injected hormones, causing his body to be fat and puffy with his feet, and the whole person did not want to move at all.

Lou Shunguang recalled that her husband's body was getting worse at that time. She knew that her husband was uncomfortable, and she knew that she was her husband's reliance at this time. She patiently persuaded her husband and raised her young children. Later, her husband proposed to go out for running. Of course, she supported it. In order to facilitate the lead, she came up with a way to hold her husband with a head rope. "I did not expect that this run is nearly 30 years."

Around 2009, Lou Dexin had two strokes, but both recovered quickly. "The stroke is estimated to be related to me." Lou Dexin said that he had never been stained from childhood, and he thought that he recovered quickly after stroke, because the two of them insisted on running all year round and had good physical fitness.

Since the stroke, Lou Dexin has rarely touched the instrument, unless there are customers at home, or enthusiasts come to ask for advice. Nowadays, the village health club is not as busy as before. Both children have settled their homes in Shanghai and Hangzhou respectively. They have two grandsons. The husband and wife are not too trivial during the day.

In the evening, the Hetang Village was very quiet, the breeze was gently, and the potted plants on the ground flew with the wind, and the weak starlight spilled in the courtyard quiet and peaceful. In the southwest corner of the living room, Lou Dexin's instrument is placed, including Suona, Erhu, and Flute. There are two trophy in the northeast corner of the living room. The two couples recalled the past, watching the instruments in the room, as if they had been accompanied and applauded for themselves.

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