When you are too anxious, ask yourself these 3 questions

Author | Xu slowly source | Xu slowly psychological words ID | xumanman-kjxl

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When writing this comic, I remembered a paragraph of Fei Xiaotong in "China":

In sociology, there are two different natures of society:

One kind of society that does not have a specific purpose, just causes a society that grows together; the other is a society that combines a task.

The former is "organic unity", and the latter is "mechanical unity."

The "near" we have experienced from childhood to a big person, our loved ones, friends, and classmates are passively arranged together to become organic unity.

But it is precisely this kind of "no purpose". The relationship between each other is more sincere and friendly. Most of the inner energy is in a state of full.

It can be said that "nearby" sometimes plays the role of "restoring niches" invisibly.

On the contrary, with the development of science and technology, the pursuit of efficiency blindly, sometimes some distant sounds are just mechanical unity.

These relationships require our position, consistent interests, and consistent views in order to keep in touch.

And what this comic wants to express is exactly what you want to encourage everyone and try to find the former.

If you often feel the vacancies of physical and mental exhaustion, emotional anxiety, and value, you can try to feel "near".

Well, I should go out and walk around.

I hope that "watching" and "sharing" can be used to let more people find "near" with us.

Author | Scripts & Operation / Liang Tea, Illustration / Ziz, Preparatory / Chen Mao Mao, Luke, this comic comes from the public account [Xu slowly psychological speaking]. Xu slowly, a diligent psychological counselor, using comics + psychological knowledge to smooth out your anxiety. WeChat search "Xu slowly can follow.

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