Meet you 丨 from self -rescue to helping her to guard her "Children of the Stars" attentively

Li Ting is from Dongguan, Guangdong. She is the mother of two autistic children, and she is also the initiator of a child rehabilitation center of a loneliness spectrum. Autism is a congenital brain development disorder, which is mainly manifested in the damage to social skills and language communication skills. At the same time, it is accompanied by certain behavioral disorders and intelligent obstacles. Bed children are called "children of the stars".

As the mother of two autistic children, Li Ting took the child to rescue himself on the long road of rehabilitation treatment, and also passed the hope to other children and parents.

Self -rescue and help of the mother of autism children

Li Ting: This child inside, you can see that he is a very typical autism. He came in December the previous year. You can see that he was in class inside. He and his teacher had no language, and it was still very heartbroken.

Li Ting will come to the rehabilitation center every day to see the state of the children in class, so as to adjust the child's rehabilitation plan with the teacher after class. Some parents who accompanied their children to class will also chat with her after seeing her. Because Li Ting is also a mother of autism.

Li Ting: My younger son is less than one and a half years old, and I find that I have autism. He meets in the middle of the night every day and uses his head to hit the glass. The doctor told me that this child is a very typical autism and may not be able to take care of himself for life. In fact, when I heard this, I didn't admit it. I would feel that my child looked very smart, lively and cute. How could it be unable to take care of yourself for life.

Two months after the younger son's diagnosis, Li Ting's eldest son was also diagnosed with autism. Subsequently, she handed over the clothing factory that had been in operation for many years, and she ran around with two children. From Dongguan to Guangzhou, to Beijing, as long as you hear a good rehabilitation institution, you can run. On the long way to rehabilitation, Li Ting lost a lot, and accompanied the children's increasingly serious condition, family and economic pressure.

Li Ting: At that moment, I felt that there was no hope for life and I couldn't see it. In the middle of the night, when the child woke up, the person had collapsed to extremes. So I took the two of them to the top of the building, and my eldest son was afraid, and he looked at me and said, "Mom will die like this." Then he cried. At that moment, when the wind was blowing, I suddenly woke up. I just want God to give me two children, I want to take a look at what arrangements are.

Since then, Li Ting's mentality has begun to change and no longer has extreme thoughts. Before the age of 6, the golden treatment period of autism. In order to provide the child with the best treatment, Li Ting obeyed the doctor's arrangement and signed up for a rehabilitation institution that provided training for children and parents for autism and parents. During his studies in Beijing, Li Ting took get out of class during the day. After class, he quickly trained his son. After his son fell asleep, he taught the theoretical knowledge again. Finally, there was no effort, and the son's rehabilitation training suddenly leapt.

Li Ting: He (younger son) is relatively heavy, and he has no consciousness in some life items. But he suddenly met, so I made all the items that could be seen in the room, let him point out, he would know. At that moment, it really felt like this was the happiest time to be a mother. So at that moment, I knew that even if it was a typical typical autism, he was actually hopeful.

From pain to strong to help to help others

On his son's rehabilitation, Li Ting not only learned strongness, but also learned many autistic rehabilitation knowledge. The harvest gave her courage and strength, and opened another door for her life. Li Ting knows that the road to rehabilitation is not easy, and progress is slowly and repeated. During the process, there are too many difficulties that autism and parents need to face. In 2015, Li Ting took the original intention of self -rescue and help, and founded a recovery center of children's recovery children's rehabilitation education centers in Dongguan.

Li Ting: Most of our (we study in Beijing) is an excellent backbone teacher in various institutions across the country. In the process of our joint learning, I suddenly feel that why do n’t I cultivate myself like them, so that I can take care of my children, and I can also have a job to help others the same as me Children and parents come out. At the end of 2014, after Li Ting returned from Beijing, he immediately set out to start the rehabilitation center. At the end of June 2015, the Rehabilitation Center was formally established, becoming a private social welfare agency registered with the Dongguan Civil Affairs Bureau. Li Ting named the "Glory" to the rehabilitation center, symbolizing the tenacious personality and the indomitable spirit. There were only 3 teachers and 5 children in the initial "glory".

Li Ting: Our (teaching) director is also the first teacher at the time. She is like me, and she is also alone. There will be some teachers around Shilong (town). They have taken the initiative to find it. In fact, more teachers are introduced by parents.

Due to the nature of "glory", the biggest challenge is the funding issue. Since its establishment, Li Ting has endured huge economic pressure. The work intensity and debt crisis once caused her to suffer from neurasthenia and tinnitus.

Li Ting: The biggest difficulty is actually at the end of 2015. At that time, we had not paid for two months, and the rent was very tight. In addition, my child suddenly found out epilepsy. Often, the whole person could not support it.

After multiple resources, since 2016, the "Morning Glory" has been supported by a charity foundation in Shenzhen. This charity foundation reduced a lot of costs to the "glory" and actively introduced the support of caring people. With the joint efforts of everyone, "Morning Glory" has been supported to the present.

Internet public welfare practitioner Liu Hengjing: Provides her and the autistic rehabilitation institutions she and she created. More lovers support and so on.

Li Ting: We are not for profit. We must find a way to have hematopoietic function, because we cannot rely on the outside world forever. This (supported by the foundation) cost, we will continue to invest in the growth of the teacher. What is letting teachers learn now is that the CNABA (China Application Behavior Analysis Teacher) course is a Class C course.

Over the past 7 years, with the unremitting efforts of Li Ting, "Glory" has provided rehabilitation training services for nearly 600 special children. At the same time, Li Ting's two sons were also undergoing rehabilitation training. "Glory" not only helped other children and parents, but also helped Li Ting out of the shadow.

Li Ting: Actually, I feel that I am the biggest beneficiary, because it is the best healing for me. When I am engaged in this career, I will forget my own business, and I will feel that I am not personal.

Parents of general autism are one of the parents who resigned and were responsible for taking their children. Therefore, for parents, they often suffer from physical and mental torture, and even face risk of disconnection with society and family. Recently, Li Ting reflected this situation to the Women's Federation and Disabled Persons' Federation of Shilong Town, Dongguan. He hoped that government departments could help her and establish a parental training system for children with autism as soon as possible.

Li Ting: We will then hope to do the parents' schools, so that parents can learn together to support their children together. Maybe there are some parents who love to learn, he can also become a teacher later. He needs to open and go out.

The path of "Morning Glory" is leaving by Li Ting. Today, Li Ting's eldest son is already in the second year in ordinary schools, and her own life path has also changed. In November 2020, Li Ting came to Shenzhen International Public Welfare College to start a professional study journey of charity; in January 2022, she was appointed as a member of the Social Construction Committee of the Dongguan People's Congress. At present, Li Ting is preparing a proposal about the recovery of autism community and employment of aging patients.

Li Ting: Everything happened in life, you don't know the final direction. But if we take a positive attitude to look at this matter, I believe it must be a good thing. In fact, I personally advocate this one to the society. I hope more people can see this group.

"They make my life more depth and meaningful"

Orp doctrine is a congenital neurological disorder, and the specific pathogenesis is not clear. At present, there are about 10 million loneliness spectrum obstacles in my country, of which about 2 million are under 12 years old. The confirmation of every autistic child involves the huge investment of the entire family in emotion and economy.

In terms of the treatment intervention of autism, there are almost no effective biomedical methods at present. They can only rely on behavioral intervention to improve and make them adapt to social life. Then need more formal rehabilitation agencies or organizations to help children get out of their hearts and integrate into society.

In the past, Li Ting had been miserable for the children. Now, she is grateful to the child. She said, "This is a packaging gift. They completely changed my life and made my life more depth and meaningful." It was in the course of the establishment of the "glory" all the way, Li Ting really got out of the shadow of his personal and obtained the healing of the soul. On the road of recovery of the children, she met a group of like -minded parents and the more brave and stronger self. In order to prevent the dream of autism, Li Ting has created a loved glory home with his heart. Here, full of kind people and warm hands, they deeply guard the cherished "stars", they use love to light up the tomorrow of the children of autism. In addition to providing practical help for parents and children, Li Ting's self -built rehabilitation institutions are also appealing to the society that the rehabilitation cause of autism children requires more special education schools, more professional rehabilitation teachers, more standardized and sunny. Market environment. Parents' guardianship is a bear torch. The care of society is full of stars. I look forward to illuminating the children's inner world together.

Source: CCTV News Client

Edit: Bobenin

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