After the death of his wife, the son -in -law came to serve his mother -in -law for 12 years

Jimu Journalist Liang Chuansong

Correspondent Ni Shenglin

As the saying goes: "A son -in -law half a child", and in the eyes of Zhang Guizhou, Zhang Guizheng, Zhang Guizheng, Bai Guiwan, Bishan Village, Yangxin County, Huangshi City, Hubei Province, her son -in -law Yuan Guanzheng was better than a relative. In the 12 years of his daughter's death, the son -in -law Yuan Guanzheng did not abandon this stormy family. One person supported the family and served himself as a "burden" that was inconvenient to move. He used his own words and deeds to perfectly interpret the traditional Chinese filial piety. "The most beautiful coming son -in -law."

Love each other loves each other, husband and wife carry the burden of the family

"Although it is a bit bitter, it can earn some income for a day." On September 4, in a marble factory processing workshop not far from Yangxincheng District, Yuan Guan, 66, was operating a marble cutting equipment. While introducing, after getting up early every day, he rushed here to work. After work in the afternoon, he rushed back to his home 5 kilometers away to make dinner for 90 -year -old mother -in -law Zhang Guiqi.

In 1956, Yuan Guanzheng was born in Jiumen Yuan Bay, Gakeng Village, Gakeng Town, Tongning City, Xianning City. Due to the construction of a Fushui Reservoir, only Yuan Guanzheng immigrated to Fushui, Floating Tu, Wooden Port, Comprehensive and other places in Yangxin County with his parents. live. In his impression, his parents kept moving since he remembered himself.

Speaking of son -in -law Zhang Guiqi, the elderly praise

"At the age of school, I almost spent the relocation, so I haven't read the book." Yuan Guanzheng told Jimu Journalists that although the family moved to Yangxin County, the closer to Yangxin County, but because of the frequent relocation, he had from the time of relocation. Haven't entered the school door.

In adulthood, because there was no culture, it was encountered by the Yangxin County Highway Bureau to recruit temporary road farming workers. Yuan Guanzheng had to carry iron crickets every day on the highway to maintain the road with a group of people similar to people. That is, at that time, Yuan Guanzheng met Huang Yuzhen, his wife who worked together.

Like Yuan Guanzheng's family, Huang Yuzhen's parents born in 1963 also immigrated to Yangxin County from Da Metallurgical Niu Town, tens of kilometers away, and finally settled in Lijiawan, Bishan Village, Taoang Town. Because his father died prematurely, 17 -year -old Huang Yuzhen dropped out of school early to take care of 4 minors.

The suffering family made Huang Yuzhen prematurely provoked the burden of life. Seeing the thin Huang Yuzhen worked as much as other men in order to make money, Yuan Guanzheng always helped her complete her to complete herself after completing her task. Task. For a long time, the two young people have love with each other. In 1985, under the control of the parents of both parties, Yuan Guanzheng went to Huang Yuzhen's house to "pour the door" as a son -in -law, and became the only male labor and family of the Huang family. pillar.

Smart Yuan Guanzheng and his wife, with their flexible minds and hard -working hands, diligently carry out the burden of the family of 7 people, so that the sisters can continue to school.

In order to make more money, Yuan Guanzheng, who was unknown, learned to drive the driving technology of the "Shenniu 25" tractor for the road -breeding class, dragging the road for the road -breeding class, and his wife did some zero jobs in the road raising class while busy. Six years after marriage, the couple liked to add 2 women and 1 son. Mother -in -law Zhang Guiqi helped to do housework and bring children at home. Although the husband and wife were tired, the family lived and lived together.

"Although I do n’t know the word, I have a lot of craftsmanship. At that time, the driver’ s license and blasting certificate were very difficult to take the test. I would have passed as soon as I took the test. "Yuan Guanzheng said proudly that with his and his wife's handling, the four sisters married one after another. Essence

If you lose your wife, your son -in -law will never give up

Two years ago, Yuan Guanzheng's 2 -year -old son accidentally fell into the lime pool next to the house and drowned. The sudden blow allowed Huang Yuzhen to wash his face with tears all day long, his spirit was stunned, and his health was deteriorating. In 1997, he was diagnosed with cherished anemia by the hospital.

In order to cure his wife, Yuan Guanzheng borrowed money while taking his wife to ask the medicine and asked the medicine. "I can borrow it by my relatives and friends, and I have borrowed it all over, and some relatives were borrowed several times by me." Yuan Guanzheng said.

Although Yuan Guanzheng was in order to cure his wife's debt, he still failed to keep his wife's life. In 2010, Huang Yuzhen left her husband and two daughters and left the world.

"The only son is gone, the wife is gone, and the two daughters are married again. We all believe that Yuan Guanzheng is leaving the family." Wan Yunsong in the same village introduced that Yuan Guanzheng came to the Huang family and had always worked like a ox. Ruofee, a few days after a few days.

Yuan Guanzheng and mother -in -law Zhang Guiqi

"The old man accepted me that year, and he should be sent to her elderly care." Yuan Guanzheng said that although his wife was gone, his husband and wife lived together for more than 20 years. He had long regarded his mother -in -law Zhang Guiqi as his biological mother.

In this way, the diet of Zhang Guiqi was almost borne by Yuan Guanzheng. In order to earn money to support his family, Yuan Guan was working in Wenzhou to work. He was worried that his mother -in -law was alone at home, and even lived in a place where the elderly received the old man for half a year.

"Although the mother -in -law still has four other daughters, they all have their own family, and they are not rich in their lives. I can't find trouble for them. Anyway, I am alone, and I have no problem taking care of the elderly." made.

"I dragged Guanzheng. When the daughter died, he was only in his 50s." Zhang Guiqi sighed. After the daughter's death, the family advised Yuan Guanzheng to "continue a room", but he always shoved away, but he always said that Don't worry about the elderly.

Yuan Guanzheng said, "Find another, I have thought about it, but who wants to come and take care of the elderly?" Careful care, the mother -in -law praised the son -in -law than the child

The death of his wife Huang Yuzhen was Yuan Guanzheng and his mother -in -law Zhang Guiqi most. The old man often wiped tears secretly.

"I know that my mother -in -law is sad, and she is worried about her in the future." Yuan Guanzheng said. Considering that he wanted to take care of his mother -in -law, he resigned from the high salary of working in Wenzhou, returned to a marble processing in Shuanggang around Taoang, and found a slightly lower work. When the mother -in -law was in good condition, he lived in the place where he was working. When the mother -in -law's physical condition was almost almost almost, he made a little more breakfast and let the mother -in -law eat hot at noon. Floor the life of the mother -in -law.

Yuan Guan is processing marble

"Such a son -in -law is really hard to find, and the mother -in -law is better to take care of his mother -in -law than his biological son." The elderly neighbor Jia Qiuyuan told reporters.

On December 19, 2015, the elderly Zhang Guiqi fell at home and was hospitalized for more than 3 months in a left -footed fracture. Yuan Guanzheng was always waiting in the hospital and accompanied by his mother -in -law. Feed the elderly with a spoon to eat the elderly, to urinate for the mother -in -law, and help the mother -in -law to wash, comb their hair, and wipe the body. Even the Spring Festival was spent by Yuan Guan in the hospital with her mother -in -law.

After being discharged from the hospital, in order to facilitate his mother -in -law to go to the hospital for review, Yuan Guanzheng rented a house in a place closer to the hospital. It was not until the doctor said that he did not need to review again, and Yuan Guanzheng retreated the rent.

In 2014, in order to reduce the pressure of Yuan Guanzheng's life, the two village committees applied for a special support for Zhang Guiqi.

Now, under Yuan Guan's care, Zhang Guilin's chess old man can go down with a stick when his body is good. This year, he continued to be high temperature. Yuan Lihua, the granddaughter who was working in Wenzhou, was worried that his grandmother could not stand the high temperature. He brought back a air conditioner from Wenzhou and installed it in the old man's room. The daughter who lives near Luojiawan is afraid that the elderly will be alone at home, and they often come back to visit the elderly.

"I was worried that the old man would fall at night, and I had to move in bed to sleep." In the interview, Yuan Guanzheng told reporters that the old man was inconvenient to move. At night, he always took a bamboo bed beside his mother -in -law's bed to facilitate Zhang Guiqi.

"I said my life was suffering. Everyone in the Wanzi said that I was not hard -working. I found a son -in -law who was even more filial than my son." Zhang Guiqi said to Jimu Journalist.

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