"I support young people for a few years old", Professor Fudan exploded again, and millions of young people sought after: Speaking of the heart of heart

Liang Yongan, a professor at Fudan University, is also an online video UP master.

Last year, he began to share observations and insights on the work of contemporary young people on the Internet, and obtained over 1 million young people to watch, praised "the hearts of young people."

What time do we work today?

What kind of work dilemma is facing contemporary young people?

In the face of the status quo, what are the solutions?

Regarding these issues, Liang Yongan said:

"I support young people to graduate for a few years."

"Young people must enhance the ability to change the boss."

"After a few years of work, you have a small savings, and you must actively‘ lie down ’.”

"Valuable people add a new thing to the world."

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In August 2022, Liang Yongan talked to us about the work of this era and the distress and choices of young people.

Contemporary young man

What kind of work is sleepy?

Liang Yongan at work

In August, Shanghai was hot.

On the 19th floor of a building on the street, Liang Yongan began a whole day of work: recording literature courses.

He always surrounded the young people, and he went to the script, test wheat, and discussed his appearance. Suddenly, several young people mentioned his discussion about the work of young people in the past year.

"Teacher Liang said so well, I really understand us so much."

To say that age, Liang Yongan and the current young people have actually separated for several generations, but he has a close relationship with young people and understands each other.

This is related to him as a teacher. After all, standing in the lecture hall, he is always facing a 20 -year -old student, but the more relevant is his professional identity -literary person.

"I have done literature all my life, and the meaning of literature is to see the whole world and observe the humanistic life."

He focused on observation on young people, with young people, see how the tide of the times affects generations, pushes them to the waves, and roll back to their tired bodies.

Why do young people feel so depressed and distressed?

Liang Yongan felt that it was not a simple problem of making money.

"It's not because of less money, it's too superficial."

The suffering is that today, young people can see endless life possibilities, but because they keep working overtime, they can only look at their lives alive, but they can't start their own lives.

"I want to get rid of the moment, but I was severely suppressed by the moment. It was only one step away from the life I longed for, but there was no courage to cross, so it was full of suffocation."

He proposed his own observation and solutions, such as "old -fashioned" and actively "lying down". He also encouraged young people to enhance the ability to change the boss and have the courage to see longer.

The following is a selection of interviews with Liang Yongan.

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A: Liang Yongan

Q: In the past two years, it is difficult to find a job. What are the young people around you, including your student situation?

A: About 5 years ago, my graduate student went to the cultural museum in a district in Shanghai to apply for.

"We can't let your master's degree here, we generally recruit college students and undergraduates."

However, he said that now he has to apply for graduate students. This competitiveness means that the screening channel is even narrower.

I remember that our students from Fudan University have been nervous from looking for a job 3 years ago. This year is particularly nervous.

But this is also a trend. It is the turn of this group of people who are nervous, and it is not necessarily in the future. The number of young people in the latter is actually not enough.

Q: Young people feel that their work is boring and worthless. Why?

A: A young man thinks that work is worthless, it is normal, because he is unwilling.

You see that modern society is driven by urbanization. What does urbanization mean?

It means that there will be a large number of cultural production outside the work, drama, movies, music, literature, and various gatherings in cafes, bars, young people see very wide life and endless possibilities.

Therefore, if you stay in the office for an hour, you will lose an hour's rich and surging life, and you will definitely feel that work is not interesting.

Q: What kind of person can find a good job?

A: This is the idea of ​​many people now, that is, we work hard. Since childhood, he must find a good job after graduating from elementary school, middle school, university, and even graduate students.

Seamlessly connects in the middle, it is uniform.

In this process, it is constantly encouraged by various reward and punishment mechanisms. You perform well, give you little red flowers, and give you "three good". The same is true for work. It is constantly determined by various coordinates of the outside and loses the consciousness of life.

The valuable person is that he is in this world, and he can work a little new thing to the world, instead of saying that in the existing order of this world, to be the best.

today,

What kind of background do we work?

Q: What do you think young people in big cities work under the background of today?

A: We used to have a PhD in philosophy from Fudan University. He worked hard to write doctoral dissertations and stayed up late. As a result, he was staying up late that day, saying that he wrote a low head and died in the book case.

Today, these hard -working young people are in a very high -pressure state. In the entire society, all walks of performance and performance is a core.

The humanistic care of society is really not enough.

Because Chinese society is a post -to -society, it is a catch -up, it must be several times faster than others.

In 1978, China's urbanization realized 19%; data in 2021 reached 64%. You can see a problem here, that is, the movement and struggle of hundreds of millions of people from hometown. To a large extent, people have become a human resources. The consumption is very large, and the payment is overwhelming.

It is really tired ... This tired, for example, housing prices, we have a traditional heart, and we have to have our own house to be at ease. We do not have a perfect rental system.

Young people are indeed overdrawn at the moment, and the phenomenon of overdraft is not only reflected in the labor of people. The tangible time is the time you check in in the office building. The invisible is that your entire lifestyle has been around.

Small city life

Q: We have observed that more and more young people choose to return to their hometown and live in small cities on the third- and fourth lines. Do you have said that "return home" is actually a huge danger?

A: The pressure of young people in big cities is indeed too great, as if they can't survive.

You, like a student I graduated last year, worked in Huangpu District, the center of Shanghai. A small room rent was 6,000 yuan a month.

So why do young people go back?

I think yes, he still has a kind of traditional morality in his heart, and he is unwilling to consume his parents again.

Life in Xiaocheng is very soft, it is not difficult to find a job. It is very loose to get off work. You can go home at noon to sleep for a noon. It was trapped at 8 o'clock in the evening. If this time is still in the big city, it is still working overtime in the office.

But in large cities, it is all the air in the air, and there is still a sense of creativity. The small town is not necessarily. The life cycle of small town is in human feelings, and there are no seeing the west everywhere. Any choice you make has a vision of the environment, which is very different from the stranger society in big cities.

So, can you love a small city for a long time? If you do n’t love, there is a huge danger in it, that is, the comparison of the traditional society —

You still have to find ways to earn more money, buy better cars and better houses, and unknowingly fall into the traditional pyramid society.

I have seen many young people who have been back to stay for two or three years. Wow, that kind of crescents, right? I have to come out again.

Facing the status quo,

What are the solutions for young people?

Q: Have you ever said, how many years do you support young people to graduate?

A: "Old" should be understood from several aspects.

I often tell my parents that in fact, after graduating from your child, don't be busy let him find a so -called ideal job and give him an opportunity to explore.

In foreign countries, the "old" in this sense is actually Gap Year (interval), and the earliest emerges in the UK. This concept is not to say that we are begging for ease, nor is we want to obtain it, but to get a span and find our true interest, so I support young people for a few years after graduation.

However, we must also realize a problem here. "Old" varies from person to person.

A student comes from the countryside. For him to go to school, even the entire family is working hard. At this time, he does not advocate "old -fashioned".

Because he is going to make money, this is a ethical choice. There is a sense of morality in it. There is also a kind of warmth in the heart, which is a kind of return to his parents, right?

Q: You mentioned before that young people do not want to be a pulling donkey, should they lie down?

A: Because we are going to buy a house now, we make money and become a very similar and narrow goal.

But in fact, in the real young age, what should be obtained is a kind of understanding of the world and the experience of life. This is a process of continuous trial and error and exploration.

Now our young people are not enough to live, and there are several types of living laws, but you have to understand:

In this world, money is not necessarily decisive.

I saw the local horses in Gaoligong Mountain, Yunnan. They didn't have much money and sang all day.

Seeing Olechun people in Hulunbuir, Northeast, they also have reindeer and live a very simple life. The pointed bark -shaped bark on the birch bark can be poured into the rain when it rains, but they feel very happy. They sleep every night, and they can't sleep when they can't see the stars.

After a few years of work, you have a little savings. If you buy a house, it is not enough, and it is not enough to buy a kitchen. But if you lie flat and carry your backpack to see what the living method you have, then what kind of life you like in your heart will have a experience.

The active lying on the spirit is not in the "Surgery" written by Obolomov, just sleeping at home all day, it is meaningless.

What we said lying flat, seemed to be a walking person, a person who did not do business.

But in fact, it is because this kind of unreasonable business determines that it can be done in a very quality business later.

Q: This year, the 00 generation will enter the workplace. What suggestions do you have?

A: I still feel quite touched.

When I enrolled in Xinjiang 5 years ago, I saw 00; when I went 4 years ago, I looked at it after 00.

The first batch of people, now graduating from undergraduate starting to work. You see, Liang Qichao wrote "Facing China in the Face of the Face" in 1900. After 00, it is a new century.

The first job is definitely experimental. I think the generation after 00 is the most important thing to work with what kind of person to work with.

Whether it is state -owned enterprises or private enterprises, the levels of bosses are uneven, and they must enhance their ability to change the boss. You can't because you are barely staying here because of income, you have to lose money. A good boss cares about your growth. You work with him, not only a labor force, but also a living young man. He should look at his employees according to the development of a person.

Q: Today, the conflict between generations is even more significant. Parents hope that their children will take public examination editors, and the competition is becoming more intense. What do you think?

A: Parents want their children to test civil servants and take a public institution. In the final analysis, they hope that their children will be safe and live a certain life.

This is of course a parent's perspective, but parents are not at this perspective to others.

The children next door, he goes to challenge the world, goes forward to life and death, they will feel this good. They also know that society needs this kind of explorer, but this is not the case for their children, and he is looking forward to peace.

But there is a danger in it. Parents are looking forward to the steps of the twenties to 50, avoiding those difficulties in the middle, but also losing their own lives. This is a pity.

You live in this world, and you live in a stable loop, but your life has not been opened at all.

As a young man, can you accept it? If you look at the insurance coefficient, don't be born, it is the safest, otherwise why come to the world?

So I think that young people should fully appreciate the concerns of parents' lifetime, but at the same time, they have to take their own way.

Q: Finally, what else do you want to say about young people working in our time?

A: When I was in college, the whole school was only 50 international students at that time. I had a particularly good friend in it, a Canadian. He said that his ideal life was to earn money before the age of 35 and play in the second half of his life.

At that time, I still felt that from the concept of our Chinese people, we must struggle for the country for a lifetime. How can I stop at the age of 35? Later, I thought it was the case. You work for life, not in turn.

Today, young people have the courage to see a little farther.

What are you saying that a person comes to this world, what is a good life?

In fact, it's not a job.

You have to explore the life you want according to your inner likes.

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