Jane wedding does not reduce the harmony of the harvest of sowing civilization —— The West Coast New Area of Qingdao Province in Shandong Province initially achieved results

△ "China Women's Daily" report

"Looking at the sketch, I remembered those things in my daughter's house. If someone explained it, I would not be awkward with them ..." On the evening of August 13th, on the evening of August 13th, Yang, Zhuhai Street, West Coast New District, Qingdao, Shandong Jiazhuang Village, Sister Yang Chunlan, who had just watched the performance, couldn't help crying.

The one who touched Sister Yang is a family scenario drama "Egg Egg Wave" written by the West Coast New District Women's Federation. It tells the mother -in -law to help her daughter look at the child. People finally reconcile.

"We hope 'people around us play things around, educate people around them' to solve the 'chaos' in the lives of the people, promote the main theme, and promote the new style of civilization." According to media reporters, with the help of Huangdao District (West Coast New Area) selected for the second batch of national wedding customs reform experimental zones, the Women's Federation of the New District will continue to expand the connotation and extension of marriage custom reform in the concept of "full cycle of marriage and family life". Counseling, family education and other aspects have continued to make efforts, and in this marriage and custom reform test, Tanaka "sowing civilization and harmony in harmony".

On Qixi Festival, Jiaoan Street organized young people to carry out a pre -marital cutting event, advocating that simple marriage did not reduce love.

Innovative civilization marriage custom etiquette is the focus

Xu Yuanyuan, who lives in Chenjiazhuang, Chenjiazhuang, Jiaoan Street, is a quasi -second mother. She recalled the collective wedding hosted by the Jiaoan Street Women's Federation on the eve of the National Day in 2019. "The wedding is simple and warm. The" Happy Family "model representative was invited to send blessings to the new people.

After the wedding, Xu Yuanyuan's couple calculated a account. Compared with the traditional wedding, they saved nearly 100,000 yuan. "This does not include the" invisible debt 'that may be owed by traditional weddings. This is simple and warm. Wedding, let us have a new family 'easy to play'. "

Money pressure brought by traditional weddings is not a fresh topic that has only been available in recent years. In fact, according to the "Qingdao Youth Marriage Relations Report" issued by the Qingdao City Statistics Bureau, rural youth wedding costs include setting up independent wedding rooms, colorful gifts, wedding banquets, household cars and purchasing gold and silver jewelry, etc. More than 10,000 yuan. In terms of colorful gifts, 19.1%among the rural youths surveyed by Qingdao City, 19.1%determine the colorful ceremony at the price of "agreed", generally 100,000 to 130,000 yuan.

The report also mentioned that "rural marriage customs show the characteristics of traditional marriage customs and modern marriage concepts, rural wedding customs and urban marriage concepts, and integration and weight." Often it is a family savings that have been reduced for nearly ten years. Many families have a heavy loan or loan burden on their children's marriage. "

Qingdao folklore research experts introduced: "The West Coast New Area is a new district with a relatively fast process of urbanization. The population flow is large and the population composition is relatively complicated. Foreign personnel, local personnel, urban personnel, and rural personnel live here, which means life means life. There will be some differences in the concept of habits and cultural concepts, which also include the differences in marriage customs. "

The relevant staff of the West Coast New District said: "In addition to the gifts, there are many family contradictions caused by different habits. These are the key directions we explore the reform of marriage customs." In the "Implementation Plan for Wedding Reform of the West Coast New Area", the reporter saw it. , Innovate the marriage and family counseling, innovate a new era of civilized marriage custom etiquette, civilized wedding customs, cultural mission guidance, and promotion of good family style and family education.

"We divide marriage into four stages: love period, nesting period (new marriage period), expansion period (birth period), and marriage crisis." Zhang Zonglan told reporters, "For different needs at each stage, we hope to provide more more than more needs. Precise service. "

Resource sharing, enrich the content of marriage and love education

"Usually I am busy at work, and the circle of friends is relatively narrow. Thank you very much for the friendship and friendship activities held by the street to create a good dating platform for us. Now we have received a certificate." Xiao Wang, who lives in Changjiang Road, told reporters Today, their young couples have also become the "students" of the Happy University of Changjiang Road. They usually participate in the compulsory courses of intimate relationships carried out in the school, and also "take" some practical courses such as handicrafts and storage.

What Xiao Wang said is one of the important contents of the "1314" model of the Wedding Customs Reform of Changjiang Road Street. Relying on social resources, the street sets up the "1" Changjiang Road Happy University in the form of free voluntary registration to carry out the "3" hall. Cultivation of courses for marriage and love, that is, compulsory courses for intimate relationships, compulsory courses for parent -child relationships, psychological courses of marriage and psychology, create a "1" wedding network red card, carry out "4" happy events, that is, love to meet the friendship activities, Ai Shangjian publicity Activities, Ai Xiang followed the collective wedding activities and the creation of Aiyong family in civilized families.

Zhang Xin, a staff member of the Changjiang Road Street, told reporters that more and more people participating in courses in marriage and love are currently actively participating. "The citizens' emphasis on marriage and family relationships is getting higher and higher. Students can release certain psychological pressure through corresponding courses to face marriage and life with a more positive, upward and sunny mentality. The original intention. Zhang Xin said.

"Actually, the people involved in the reform of marriage customs are widely involved, and the power of a certain department alone is difficult to achieve good results." Relevant staff of the Women's Federation of the New District told reporters, "Actively explore the team of lawyers, psychological counseling teams, and volunteers of the shakes. The professional advantages and practical experience of social resources such as the team can better promote the implementation of the marriage custom reform. "The reporter learned that as early as 2020, the Marriage Registration Office of the Civil Affairs Bureau of the West Coast New District will unite the Qingdao Chunyu Public Welfare Volunteer Service Team, In the New District Runze Social Work Service Center, the "Marriage Customs Reform and Propaganda, the Frequent Marriage Law and the Community" in Burry Town will be released. On the same day, more than 600 "Civilized Marriage Customs Initiative" was issued, and more than 50 people were answered for the marriage registration and consultation of the masses.

Online and offline marriage and family counseling accurate and powerful

Today, newcomers who apply for marriage registration on the West Coast New District Civil Affairs Bureau will watch the "new family, new character and new growth" marriage courses, a total of 21 sections.

Newlywed couple watching marriage and family promotional videos

The reporter learned that the Women's Federation of the New District also provides online and offline counseling to families in need and provides more accurate services. Next, the marriage and family counseling center is established, and five marriage and family tutoring rooms are set up under the United District Court to form a marriage and family counseling work circle with the "marriage and family counseling center" as the core and "marriage and family counseling room". In more than 1,000 places such as women's micro -family, fashion classrooms, and parent school, they have carried out a linked, differentiated, and diverse marriage tutoring lecture. On the line, the Civil Affairs Bureau of the New District has established a live wedding family live broadcast room at the Eastern and West Marriage Registration Office, and established a newlywed family, including WeChat groups including in -laws and father -in -law, focusing on "new families and new characters". The WeChat course lecture solves the problems such as "how to do a good job of role transformation, build a happy marriage relationship, handle the relationship between mother -in -law and mother -in -law, bred healthy babies, and how to be a good mother -in -law, and the physical and mental maintenance of women's menstrual periods."

Novice parents training project-the opening ceremony of family education training for infants and young children in the age of 0-3

At the same time, in the 6 major hospitals, 23 towns, and street health centers in the district, they issued the "Notice on the Implementation of the" Novice Parenting Cultivation Project "and set up parental growth learning groups to establish" pregnancy, maternal, 0-3 years old "Infant family growth live room", focusing on the WeChat courses for pregnancy, maternal, 0 to 3 -year -old infant families.

"At present, there are more and more people participating in online courses, and many people will ask teachers to ask questions separately after class." Relevant personnel told reporters, "This also proves that everyone is not a need for marriage and family counseling, but because of her face hinders Or traditional concepts, sorry to speak. Adopting more online methods can let them relieve their concerns and get help and guidance. "

Zhang Zonglan introduced that in the next step, the Women's Federation of the New District will unite more professional social resources to grasp the key issues of marriage and family for different people, develop corresponding courses, and provide more accurate services for key nodes in the family life cycle. In addition, it is also planned to form a marriage and family counseling service talent pool and expert bank, strengthen the team of professional marriage and family guidance service personnel, increase support for marriage and family guidance service agencies, enhance the value and professional satisfaction of public welfare marriage service personnel and the professional satisfaction Spend.

Laiyuan: Chinese Women's Daily/Chinese Women's Daily All Media Reporter Yao Jian/Wang Danqing

Information support: Qingdao Women's Federation

Editor: Zhai Jiajia

School pair: Liu Shuang Shuang

Trial: Liu Min

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