Shandong good people Nan Hongwei: He, support a home with great love!

The clean and tidy courtyard, enthusiastic and generous smiley face, positive and optimistic attitude ... From these appearances, no one can see the 61 -year -old Nan Hongwei's once suffering.

Nan Hongwei is the villagers of Chegou Village, Jufeng Town, Lanshan District, Rizhao City. He originally had a happy and happy family. One unfortunately fell, he kept away, and supported the wind and rain.

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Recently, the Shandong Provincial Civilization Office released a list of 124 "Shandong Good Man". Nan Hongwei was awarded the honorary title of "Shandong Good Man" filial piety.

Son and wife fell down

There is only one of his top beam pillars

Before 2014, the days of the Nan Hongwei family were bland and beautiful. Although his wife had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage around 2004, due to the timely treatment and no sequelae after healing, Nan Hongwei was a mud worker in the village. The child's life is not much affected. After graduating from university in 2007, the only son of his son found a job of engineering supervision, and soon married his wife and had a child, so that Nan Hongwei and his wife hugged his grandson. Nan Hongwei took out all savings and helped his son's family of three in the city.

The suffering was caught off guard. In 2014, Nan Hongwei's son suddenly fainted at the construction site. When Nan Hongwei rushed to the hospital, his son had entered the intensive care unit and was diagnosed with brain stem bleeding. After that, they had no fruit for medical treatment to seek medical treatment in Beijing and Shanghai.

The disaster is not alone. Because of the big blow, the wife has a severe severe cerebral hemorrhage, paralyzed in the bed, and cannot take care of himself. "At that time, there were two beds in a house, two paralyzed patients, the son was inserted with esophagus and ureter, and he could only eat liquid food for three meals a day. Here to your eyes and feed it one by one ... "Although it was too many years, it turned out that tears turned in Nan's grand eyes. At that time, the Nanjia was like a house. The four beams and eight pillars fell, leaving only Nan Hongwei a top beam pillar with the wind and rain.

Faced with huge daily medical expenses, the economic source cannot be broken. Nan Hongwei took care of the patient while working as a mud worker for more than nine hours a day.

After finishing work every day at noon, other guys dragged home with tiredness, and the family had prepared the ready -made hot rice. The same tired Nan Hongwei did not have such treatment. After returning home, he would wait for his wife and son. Observe his son's facial expression, help him suck sputum and oxygen, and replace his wife in dirty clothes and soak in a water basin. After a series of care, he cooks with a cold pot and cold stove.

The son could only eat liquid food, and he bought the soy milk machine to break the food; the wife's tongue didn't feel it, and the meal was easy to sip. He made a smooth and digestible rice food. Do the same meals. The patients are fed one by one. When he was busy, he hurriedly ate a few sips of meals. He couldn't care about his breath, so he had to rush to work.

Occasionally take care of his wife and children

The iron -tapping man never gives up

His difficulty, the left neighbor and right house looked at it, and from time to time, he reached out to help. Sometimes, when he was working in the village, he encountered the owner of the owner. Without waiting for him to open his mouth, the owner made two more bowls of rice. When anyone is free, he will go home to help him take a look at the patient and wash him for him. The hardest thing is at night. Every night, I will get up five or six times to help my son suck sputum. Even if you do it during the day, this program cannot be less, otherwise life is dangerous.

In order to better take care of the patient, Nan Hongwei bought a set of care beds from the Internet, and also bought a whole set of care equipment. He pondered himself and learned to use it. He also learned some simple physical therapy methods. Massage and loose muscles.

Plants patients are prone to sputum, and their lungs are prone to inflammation. Every year, he takes his son to the hospital for treatment several times every year. Each time he goes to the hospital, he will enter the severe care room and can come out in about half a month. The hospital was nearly 50 kilometers away from home. Nan Hongwei hurried back to the village after taking care of the hospital's affairs every day, because the wife who was paralyzed in the bed still needed him to take care of it. In this way, the daughter -in -law worked while taking care of the child, and Nan Hongwei returned more than 100 kilometers a day. Benbo was between two patients.

"As soon as I entered the hospital, it was 20,000 yuan in medical expenses. The doctors told me, give up, and then cure will not improve. But can I give up? He is my only child, and I have to change his breath to sell iron. As long as he can see him every day, I feel worth it. "When he said, the man who had passed the flower squeezed a few smiles, but it was difficult to hide his inner pain.

Despite this, the son of a long -term illness still did not leave him too much. Just after the Mid -Autumn Festival in 2017, his son left the world and his life was 33 years old. But Nan Hongwei did not have much time to stay in the pain of the elderly. His wife was still sick in bed, and his grandson was so young. He had to fight for the spirit to continue to support the family.

After the son died, he advised his daughter -in -law to remarry

Be a daughter -in -law's second maid family

After his son died, he thought that it was not easy for his daughter -in -law to maintain his livelihood with his young children, so he advised his daughter -in -law to take the building he bought to remarry. "Such a bitter day can have me alone. She is still young. I don't want her to bring her child to the burden of such a burden." After the daughter -in -law was married, Nan Hongwei consciously became her second maid's family, like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it like treating it. His daughter cares and take care of, and tries to help.

Nan Hongwei's income of dry mud workers in the surrounding villages is not stable. Sometimes there is no, and his wife must be hospitalized regularly every year.On weekdays, he saves every penny that he can save. Whenever his grandson came to see him, he took it out to put it in his child's pocket."The daughter -in -law is very good for our old couple. I take the child to see us every month. I can't help her. I earn some money to make children pay tuition and buy some school supplies.Sun Tzu, Nan Hongwei's smile stretched naturally on his face."Although my wife can't take care of myself, I can be with me every day. My grandson often comes to see me. The neighbors are very enthusiastic, and I am very satisfied." Nan Hongwei said that he must maintain a good mental state and maintain a healthy body.If he fell, the sky at home collapsed.

Time is gradually dispersing the haze of life, and the sadness of the family's heart is slowly diluted.Nowadays, Nan Hongwei's daily daily life is to work and take care of his wife. The mindset is like the words in a humble room: contentment.

Source: Civilization Sunlight

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