How to solve the problem of "intergenerational doting"?

During the summer vacation, many parents are busy working and have to let their children's grandparents, grandparents and grandparents help bring their children, that is, we often say "intergenerational raising", but it has also caused the problem of many elderly people's love and over -relocation. What should I do if "Discipline Love" appears? The editor prepared the following four suggestions for everyone.

1. Communicate with the elderly in time

As a young parent, when discovering that his parents love to indulge in their children, we must first understand the love of the elderly for the child, but we must avoid direct opposition and quarrel in front of the child. Carefully discuss communication with the elderly, explain the harm of doting children with the elderly, and discuss how to help children grow in better ways.

2. Take the initiative to bear the responsibility for raising

In addition to communicating with the elderly patiently, the child's parents must also take the initiative to take the responsibility of raising the child and not be a shopkeeper. Children's parents must personally participate in the process of raising their children. Only in this way can they find the problems of the child in time and take positive measures as soon as possible to adjust it as soon as possible.

3. Divide the responsibility in "Relief Raising"

After the child is born, the elderly must let the elderly know that they are the child's guardian, and they have the right to educate their children and criticize their children. The old man can care for and take care of the child together, but you cannot overemphasize the child when the parents criticize the child. If the child makes a mistake, you must let the child face up to his mistakes and correct the error.

4. Let your child feel that love is not a bottomless line, selfish

Children's growth requires love, but correct love is wisdom love. It is a rational, bottom line and boundary love, rather than the principle of no principles and indifference. Let children learn to share love.

Consensus condensing strength, the same educational concept, and naturally you can find a suitable method. In addition, parents need to spend more time with their children and pay attention to the development of good habits. The cultivation of bilingual ability is also an important part of the growth process of children. The young children are the best stage of language learning. Parents must grasp the golden period of learning bilingual. China International Language Capability Test (CEC) is the knowledge reserve and basic translation stage in the Chinese translation ability assessment system. It is open to the global young children. The test questions are based on Chinese elements. International spreading future talents in Chinese culture. In the second half of 2022, CEC1, 2, and 3 exams are in progress. For more details, please pay attention to the WeChat public account "CEC Young Children".

(Information Source: China Education News)

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