The table of Chinese people is the most affectionate

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Master Dharma:

The life of the Chinese, but three tables.

For the Chinese, eating is a top priority. The dining table is like our instantaneous testimony in our lives.

But in fact, the testimony of life is not only at the dining table. Just like Ye Shengtao's grandson Ye Yonghe, when he recalled his grandfather, he began to talk about the Baxian table at home. Grandpa's education on him, from the rules of admission, etiquette after meals to literacy writing, all on that eight immortal tables.

When the table is used to eat, it is the dining table; it is used to study, that is, the desk; the sitting of the hospitality is the tea table ...

Our big things and people seem to be around the table. Because of this, the Chinese table is the most affectionate.

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I remember that there was a holiday childhood, and the whole family rushed home from various places to pass the Mid -Autumn Festival. From the university in the north, my sister came from the city by the sea, and many elders from the uncle and aunt came from the units in the city.

The festival ceremony is often opened by a reunion meal.

The agreed time has long passed. I did not expect that my brother was blocked on the road. Everyone had waited for a long time and the vegetables were cold.

The younger brother wanted to "steal" two pieces of meat, and did not expect to be knocked off by his father. After a while, he yelled, "I'm hungry!" His mother quickly said a little in her ears, blaming him.

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Grandpa has always spoiled his younger brother, and finally spoke: "Everyone and wait!" A few big children were actually hungry, pretending to slowly pick up the chopsticks, and then quickly pinched the meat into their mouths. The adults also started to eat. Essence

My brother finally entered the door and apologized, but when he saw everyone was eating, he was relieved.

He sat down and suddenly saw that the tableware in front of Grandpa was still clean. The bottom of his eyes turned red, and he immediately returned. He just put down the bag and immediately set up a wine glass for himself.

Only when I saw that my brother was sitting down, he gave himself up again, and touched Grandpa's cup alone.

"People don't come together, can't move chopsticks." Become a childhood tender class: Grandpa's waiting is a tolerance for grandson, or love.

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By the way, I gave my brother a lesson: If you do n’t want to let you love you for a long time, you must remember to keep the time.

At the dining table, the elders teach us various rules: to love cleanliness, so wash your hands before meals; respect the elders, so don't move the chopsticks first, don't talk loudly ...

When eating, how to get dishes and how to pinch vegetables; don't be selfish, so you can't just keep your favorite dish; to be sensible, you must help wash the dishes and wipe the table after eating ...

As everyone knows, they do more than these. Mom always said that she loves chicken feet. Dad often clamps the big stick legs to us ... Gradually, we also understand the concern and understand the humility.

The rules of love have become the tenderness and habit of getting along.

Many people always feel that drinking tea is a matter of emphasis, but Liang Shiqiu said: "Everyone with Chinese people has tea. No one is expensive, and everyone has a divorce. Even people still have tea on the side of the road. "

Drinking tea is just a very angry thing, hiding the human feelings in the vulgar world.

Sichuan people should agree with this sentence. It is said that one tenth of their lives sat at the tea table.

Young tea guests are playing with their mobile phones. Although middle -aged tea guests are sitting, they have to look at children who are playing around the table from time to time.

The elderly tea guests were short in their parents, playing mahjong on the four tables, and tea made with bowls on hand. In the thoughts, holding the bottom of the bowl in one hand, holding the lid in one hand, holding it twice, and a sip.

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It is good to say that Chengdu's tea table is like a vulgar style today, but it is far worse than old.

The old teahouse was a decent place for guests. People at the tea table come and go, three teachings and nine streams.

The guest talks will inevitably have contradictions and skin. The tea table has become the best place to "evaluate". The so -called "four tables and four feet, let's talk about it."

The theory of the two parties, mediation in the middle. If the two parties do not have each, pay half of the tea money; if one party loses, it is necessary to confess the loss and pay the tea ...

Wang Zengqi said that his knowledge was soaked from the teahouse.

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This sentence is good. If you come to Chaozhou, you can almost see a set of kung fu tea sets. "Tea thin people's affection" of the hospitality of Chaoshan people, the human feelings in tea are concerned, because not everyone who comes to Chaozhou loves tea.

Therefore, the tea owner will understand how to control the thickness of the tea according to the guest's preferences, how to reduce the bitterness of a teal tea, and return to it.

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And if you come to Beijing, you can see the tea and people here very free. In addition to drinking tea shop while drinking tea, there are also "chess teahouses" that can play chess, "book teahouses" that listen to the drama, "Tea Restaurant" that drinks and talks about the sky, and drive in the "wild teahouse" in the wasteland ridge .. ....

Drinking tea in Beijing, the human feelings in tea are very casual. At different tea tables, they met with tea friends and met people with similar souls.

The tea table is a small society, with the richest people at the table.

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The study room is like where the spiritual world is realized, and the desk is the epitome of the study, or more like a magnifying glass. A person's cultivation, aesthetic and even temperament can be seen on the desk.

Many people want to have a quiet and elegant small study. The garden designer Xie Yan, just in the city, created a "mountain house" of the ancients to reproduce the life of the literati.

The most impressive is the study here. On the right is a desk, in front of the table is a simple Song -style window. Many appliances on the table have a sense of age, a red cricket box with fine decoration. A pair of bronze town paper, holding it in the hand, has a weight and is quiet.

He felt: "Although the ancients went far away from us, many of their lifestyles were still worthy of our fun."

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Being in mountains, reading books, writing, writing, painting, greenery in front of the window, sedative pen and ink, and calming people's hearts. "Books and paintings, one is the heart, the other is the discharge, and the event is finally written. The meaning is that it is not comparable to the computer typing."

Sitting at such a desk, like sitting in an artistic conception. It is too difficult to have such a desk, but it is not difficult to create the artistic conception.

Thinking of Liu Yuxi, there is only one bad room, but "the moss marks are green, and the grass is green into the curtain" but makes the room a little more elegant.

So today, many people who love books will put some small flowers and grass on the desk, as if bringing a little tranquility in the mountains. More particular people will set up a pot of "Qili Xiang" on the desk, and it is called "Yuncao" in ancient times. Because the ancients often used it to help the book to prevent insects, it was also called "Yun Window" and "Yun Pavilion".

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The writer Xiao Qian's desk is not particular about it. Although it is messy, it is still his "home".

He is also very envious of his friends in the window, clean and clean desks. But I still hope that the desk should be "real" and "it gets live." After all, we must continue to write and compile millions of words here.

As an editorial, his desk has always been in order. The address of the essays, letters, and contacts is clearly divided into good categories, and in many boxes around the desk -most of them are modified with coffee boxes with glass paper in the middle.

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Thinking of it when we were young, our desk had to be so "practical", and we couldn't put too many things, otherwise my mother was worried and did not concentrate on reading. You can't be too small, otherwise you can't put on the book, you can't afford so much expectations and pressure.

When you grow up, you can finally decide how the desk looks like.

When I was tired on the desk, I put on the book, put the play to play, and water the small potted plants. With leisure, a little more good temperament.

Liang Shiqiu once heard someone telling a joke: a Chinese exaggerate the greatness of China to foreigners, and the diameter of the round dining table can be larger than one foot. Foreigners asked, "How long is your chopsticks?"

"Six, seven feet long."

"How can such a long chopsticks be pinched into my mouth?"

"We are the most courteous to eat with chopsticks for people sitting on the opposite side."

The gifts on the table are indeed exaggerated, but the love on the Chinese table is never exaggerated. Whether it is a table or a table of night talks, or sitting alone, there are different feelings.

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Thinking of an American architect, "Wood is the most humane."

The wooden table is also the most commonly contact table of the Chinese. When the affectionate wood, it becomes a table; the table is full of affectionate meals, and the flowers and plants are carefully taken care of; sitting around the table, it becomes the most "affectionate" table.

Some people see education at the dining table, some people see aesthetics on the desk, and some people see the secular style from the tea table ...

What is your table like? What is hidden on the table?

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· To my dear object, the people ·

There is no victory,

Taoism is natural,

The romance of the Chinese.

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