Today, I try to understand him ...
Author:Look at the think tank Time:2022.06.19
For some people, the father may be a pair of generous hands that often protect them; but for many people, the father may be a somber smoke that is hidden. How complicated the image of "father" is, how difficult the father's love is. So how do you understand your father? On Father's Day, you might as well look at their description of the stories with his father, and try to find the answer from it.
This article is reproduced from the WeChat public account "China News Network". The original first was released on June 19, 2022. The original title was "Father", which did not represent the viewing think tank view.
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Strict and rustic: Mo Yan and his father
The father in Mo Yan's memories can be respectful, even a bit terrible. What extent? The children who played together shouted, "Your dad is here!" He was frightened and his limbs were stiff, his head was blank, and he could slow down for a while. Not only him, his brother and sister, and even the aunt's generation were afraid of. When he heard his father cough from a distance, he immediately shouted, and when he left, he slowly became lively.
Mo Yan's father. Picture source: Xinhuanet
He had been beaten by his father because he stole a radish when he was working, and he played his important work "Transparent Carrot".
After Mo Yan won the prize, when some people asked his identity after winning his identity, his father replied on his behalf: "He is not awarded, and he is the son of farmers." When someone generously donated the villa to him, his father refused on his behalf: "None If you do not accept Lu, do not work if you do not work. "
My father once said: "Before winning the prize, you can sit on equity with others; after winning, you should be half shorter than others."
His father not only asked Mo Yan like this, he also asked himself. Mo Yan said that he wanted to treat these two words as the motto of the second half of his life.
Father Love Ru Shan (Mo Yanshu) Source: Mo Yan WeChat public account
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Transparent and wise: Yang Yan and his father
When Mr. Yang Yan recalled his father, the first thing he mentioned was his harshness: his father was solemn, and the child was afraid of him, although he never scolded.
And Qian Yanshu described: "Dad is‘ looking at it, that is, it ’s warm’. ”
The photo of Mr. Qian Yanshu and Mr. Yang Yan.
When the university was divided into literature and science, Yang Yan had carefully thought about what he should learn. She believes that the so -called "should" refers to the most beneficial to others, and she does not live for a lifetime. The teacher at the time also suggested that she choose science.
My father said, nothing should be, what you like the most, you can learn what. What I like is the closer of sex, that is, the most suitable for myself.
She is halfway or not, but she is afraid that her father is indulging, but in the end, she still chooses the liberal arts in the event: "I can neither be a doctor to cure diseases and save people, nor is it worthy of being a politician to govern the country and the people. , Taking my strength. "
Although in the end, Mr. Yang Yan said that he was "unintentional", but the text was full of regrets. At the beginning of the wind, it may be the father's phrase "near".
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"Cloudy" and perseverance: Zhu Ziqing and his father
The most well -known "father stalk" in literary works should be Zhu Ziqing's "buy an orange".
This description is really vivid: "He climbed the top with both hands, and his feet shrank upwards; his obese body leaned to the left, showing his efforts ... On the ground, climb down slowly, and pick up the oranges and go. "
But if you want to understand his father, you need to pay attention to the creative background of the story.
Guobo wax museum once reproduced the scene in Zhu Ziqing's famous masterpiece "Back". Picture source: Beijing Evening News
Zhu Ziqing's father and teenager went out to make a living, supported him alone, and did many major things. The story of "Back" coincides with his father and unloading. Seeing the messy courtyard, Zhu Ziqing was in trouble, but his father said, "This is the case, don't be sad.
When he gave him the platform, his father was busy asking the tea room to take care of and ran to buy oranges.
Zhu Ziqing's unforgettable back is the back of his father's "clumsy", but behind Zhu Ziqing, a huge figure in the pillar of the pillar, have you noticed?
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Contradiction and "hostile": San Mao and father
Writer San Mao once described his father like "half of his life."
One morning, she found that her father wrote a letter after reading the article he posted.
This sentence defeated Sanmao's inner line of defense, because waiting for this sentence, she "waited for a lifetime".
The photo of the Sanmao family. Source: Lu Yu has a video screenshot
His father does not know how to scold his children, but he will express his emotions with sighing. She chose to go to school, and her father sighed; she cried while practicing the piano, and her father sighed ... These shadows formed in Sanmao's heart. "You are a sad child, you are guilty."
So she resisted. Speaking in front of the family, leaving the seat early at a meeting of relatives and friends.
She also asked her father's leaving instead: "My rudeness, do you think there is no pain inside?" For her, the sadness of her life is not to earn the world, but to be appreciated by my father.
Fortunately, my father did not live up to her waiting, and gave this evaluation as a reply: "Although I have a heartache her burning, I agree."
Sanmao portrait displayed in Sanmao's former residence in Chongqing. Photo by Chen Xin
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Awakening and reconciliation: Mai family and father
The break from the Mai family and his father originated from two slaps.
The Mai family was often bullied by other children from an early age. At the age of 12, because his classmates insulting his father and fighting with them, he lost to the three and was swollen. After his father knew, he slapped his two large slaps in the face of his classmates and parents.
His heart was hurt, and he didn't shout "Dad" for 20 years.
In 2004, his father suffered from Alzheimer's disease, and the long cold war ended with his father's forgotten. As the years began to be erased in his father's heart, the Mai family suddenly realized his mistakes. He wanted to apologize to his father and settle with his father. But my father is rare to sober.
After receiving the news of his father's serious illness, he rushed back, but the time of submission was approaching. He thought that his father would not leave, so he wanted to go back to the manuscript. As a result, he received a call when he arrived at home.
The last thousand words of the manuscript, the Mai family wrote the body of the father in the Lingtang. Three years after that, except for a letter to my father, Mai's family did not write anything.
Later, he created "Sea of Life" and tried to understand his father and everything about the past. At the end of the article, "I" finally reconciled with the past.
The Mai family and "Sea of Life". Picture source: China News Weekly Photography/Wang Gang
On the eve of Father's Day this year, Mo Yan posted a poem he wrote in his public account, "I am the son of filial piety". It wrote: "I used to describe a slap in 800 words. Your palm is like an ancient magic weapon, but also a fearful little beast ..."
Strict, becoming "authority", this is father; fear, not "frank", this is also father. The so -called fatherly love is like a mountain, because it "looks into the mountain side into a peak" is an extremely complicated collection.
Between everyone and his father, there will be warm, friction, and even some insurmountable communication barriers. Perhaps we should not ask for each relationship with each other, but the father and son/father and daughter should at least try to understand what kind of person he is.
After all, if you don't know what he comes, you can't taste the sweetness of this love.
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