You get old and numb, you never dare to quarrel

Author:Xindi Time:2022.08.31

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Last weekend attended the wedding of my girlfriend, I suddenly remembered that when we were four or five years old, I was in kindergarten. I had the first time to queue up, and the pigtails were scattered.

Both were invited by the teachers and made a class in the classroom. The next day, I brought her a bag simply and played together again.

Suddenly I was envious of myself at that time, and dare to fight well.

Unlike now, when you talk to you, you can turn around and turn around in your mind again and again, afraid of Tang Tu, embarrassment, and offending people. Finally, he simply said nothing.

We grew into envy adults when we were young, but also became an adult when we were envious.

When we were young, we had light on our body, but always grew up a little bit and dissipated. Fortunately, we grew up, but some people still live in "childhood".

What moment we did a collection before, you saw something on your children, what you have lost-- what you have lost-- what you have lost-

The 18 stories let us see that those sincere, kind, romantic, enthusiastic, and naive light are still on them.

@leaf

As an internship teacher in kindergarten, a child was called Yao Yao. When he had lunch, he was sleepy.

I woke her gently, she was not awake yet, and her eyes turned: "The rice hypnotized me, it said it is night."

@ @

When the nephew saw his mother washing ginger, he said carefully, "Mom, you can't hold its hand, it will hurt."

@周周周

Two little boys made trouble on the fitness equipment downstairs.

"What does that mean?"

"Returning to the old child is that I can play with you when I get old ~"

@辛

The colleague said that her son asked her day: "Is the jellyfish the mother of the water?"

She felt funny, but did not expect to check it. The ancients were really named! The transparent jellyfish bred water.

Do you find no. Children observe the world and think about the world are from a completely different perspective from us. In their eyes, there are filters that have not been wiped out by the real world, called romance.

Growing up is pragmatic, pursuing efficiency, value, and significance; growing up is also a regret, about the romance and imagination of loss.

@corrine

The children in the class said, "Teacher Wang, there are many people in the world, some people like you, and some people don't like you.

Just like some people like me, some people don't like me, but I like you. "

Go to the sewing shop, the child of the boss's house, invite me to see the little quail he raised.

Me: "This is a little quail, I haven't seen it yet!"

He said, "Sister, I still have many other toys. If you like it, you can give it to you."

Adults' love is to pay and calculate.

The child's love is, what else can I give you.

@观

One day I asked my daughter what to do if someone doesn't like you -I want to teach her to face setbacks.

The daughter said:

"How can this person have something wrong with this person? Why don't I like me so cute?"

@gourd

My child likes to catch and seek. Once he hid in the quilt, I touched the quilt and said, "What is this?"

He giggled immediately: "It's a mother’s baby ~"

At that moment, he was really determined, and he was 100 % believed in my love, so that I was stunned.

I have experienced left -behind, childhood lost mother, and many stepmothers. I was used to sending people under fences. It is difficult to believe that I would really be loved.

At that moment, it seemed to wake up in the body. I think I love him and him to love me, and I am also firmly loved and deeply loved.

@ @昒

It is difficult for adults to be solved for a long time, but children can.

@Thirty-three

For several years, I still remember where Chen Xiaochun took Jasper to go to his father. There was a scene of Chen Xiaochun who was angry and yelled. Jasper picked up the speaker and said, "Can you start angery now?"

I admit that I was shocked at that moment. Refusing to be abducted and bullyed by the outside world, how many adults cannot do.

@好好 is so delicious

A mother was anxiously urging the boss to go to the boss, and the child would have an extra -curricular class for a while.

The chubby little boy next to him shook his head and said to his mother: Beautiful-Music-Need-Wait-Well-Oh ~

He is really amazing, there is a sense of peace that will not be abducted by anxiety.

@ @

After finishing his mouth with my son, he ran in for 10 minutes.

I almost didn't hold my tears.

I was like this when I was young, but it seemed that the growing, the more I lost my head in time, and said the ability to "sorry" sincerely.

@空空空

The hot explosion, passing by the square to hear.

Many children stood under the water column of the fountain and played with umbrellas, and a fat boy ran around in the water in the water.

I really envy, I run into the fountain in big pants now, and others have to treat me as a fool.

"Crazy" this purest happiness form can only be the privilege of children.

@Echo

I ate chicken with my friends before, and once entered the finals, there was one enemy left on the field.

After we eliminated him, he heard the voice of a child in all McIrladites, and was excited: "Yeah! I am the second place!" Suddenly I touched it, and at that moment he thought "Ye I second" instead of "唉唉Almost ".

When we grow up, we have long confused about happiness and satisfaction, and simply want to win. What do we want?

@ @小

Yesterday, a few repeated blind boxes were given to the little cousin. She was happy to circle with a few dolls, took the name, and placed the most conspicuous position in the Bogu frame at home.

Such happiness, I haven't felt it for a long time.

The happy threshold is getting higher and higher. When I was a kid, I bought a small toy and bought a bag of fried chicken willow at the school door.

But now I feel that the roadside stalls are dirty, and the TV cannot be doubled. Not to mention the 5 -dollar ball, that is, 5,000 bags are also fresh for the most fresh afternoon.

@ @

There are people cutting into the line, and many people have seen it, and we are too lazy to say something.

The child suddenly said: The teacher said that he should not be cut in.

I don't know what everyone thinks at that moment. Anyway, I am ashamed. I have lost the courage to point out wrong.

Adults teach children to be clear, and adults advise themselves to be better than less.

The daughter is two years old and is not wet. I told her over and over again, "Don't urinate, remember to go to the toilet, remember to tell your mother!"

One day she had a fever to 39 degrees, her bed was urinated, and she cried very sadly at night. I couldn't comfort it.

I thought she was sick and uncomfortable. As a result, she sobbed and said, "I'm sorry, my mother, I wet your bed."

At that moment, I wanted to cry a little. It turned out that in her eyes, this was promise.

@小 taro

Some households complained that a group of children smashed the glass.

The little girl said it was not her. Parents asked why others said it was you?

Facing the questioning, the little girl was not timid, and she said loudly that she was not smashed again, and she was willing to go to the right.

At that moment I believed her, I really saw her glowing, so I hope she will always be brave in the future-

Men's PUA she won't believe it.

She will not compromise with her colleagues.

At the end

Children are simple and sincere, romantic, full of enthusiasm, staying away from anxiety, daring to express ... You can find too much on them, we have the ability to lose when we grow up.

But sometimes, adults always try to use experience to train children, how to grow.

We filmed the interview show "Hello, Child", one of which recorded the interaction between Lao Liu and his daughter, and talked about what he found from the child. There is a saying that I am particularly impressed by it--

He said that his daughter made him realize for the first time, "The incredible life cannot be experienced by how many books you read."

Life itself is full of energy. This energy prompts you to love, explore, challenge or resist, no matter how old you live, I hope you don't lose this ability.

Many contemporary parents choose to project their anxiety on children, involve "elite education" from programming to musical equestrian, and early -maturity personality education-

One of the consequences is that they are trying their best to make children ordinary and homogeneous.

Perhaps the innocent instinct that adults have been emotional are the places that are really worthy of our protection.

Those places that really make children look like children.

Xin Shi Xiang and Anga and Mango TV filmed the first children's growth observation interview program "Hello, Children", inviting Lao Liu, Zhou Yijun, and Fu Shouer to explore the standard boundary of growth. Published a declaration of growth through the short film "Naive Self -self -self", which really belongs to the future, is a child who cannot hold the standard.

At the innocent ceremony last night, Zhou Yijun, Zhang Wei, founder of the New Shi Xiang, talked together to talk about them together Understanding To Be A Child at different stages. In the new show, the children on the stage no longer take the standard platform to interpret innocence with action. To be a child, naive to be children.

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Maybe we don't need to urge our children to grow up, and we don't have to learn smart and smooth. It is a great thing to do a good job for a while.

Writing: Chen Xiao sleeps

Design: Kuizi

Responsible editor: quite stiff

Late prayer time:

Come and listen to a song that allows you to return to children for a second.

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At least you can grow up slowly

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