A person's greatest ruth

I have seen such a paragraph: "The people who are always crying and having leave are not people who will really leave. The person who really wants to leave, pick a wind and sunshine afternoon, put on a coat out, go out, and go out. Disappearing in the autumn sun, never returned. "

The older the age, the more you will find that some interpersonal relationships, from knowing each other, to gradually drifting away, just like the four seasons reincarnation, experience the germination of spring, summer crazy, the coolness of the autumn, and the 冽 of the winter, and the 冽 of the winter, and the 冽 of the winter, and the 冽 of the winter, and the 冽 of the winter, and the 冽 of the winter, and the 冽 of the winter, and the 冽 of the winter. After a reincarnation, the dust returned to dust and the soil.

Finally, I finally understand that the greatest affection of a person is not to break the couple or black, but these two words.

01

Ignore is the best punishment.

Only if you care, will you be hurt.

Whether it is lovers, friends, or colleagues, the deepest injury is often the deepest person.

Many young people want to escape from the small county of the eighteenth line, not only because the infrastructure cannot keep up, but the salary is low. What makes them unbearable is the working environment of the grinding people.

A small unit, no matter how old colleagues, almost all have strong argumentation of seniority. As long as you have a little power in your own hands, you will not forget to put on a attitude of "qi", which fully shows that "the official large -scale high -level presumption of death is killed, "Doing.

The most common approach is to receive the task of work, and then hand it over to the subordinates. From time to time, a "supervision" is made, and a suggestion that can't be hit for eight poles, and then "picking bones in the eggs". Finally In order to suppress the affiliate, he does not forget to "blackened" in front of the main leaders.

So, the more the people who work hard and the more they can do some performance, they have become the object of collective exclusion of the "small leaders". The more they do, the more bullied; The more ruthlessly suppress it.

For this kind of superior who "specifically find faults" and "sincere stabbing", many people either dare to be angry or not speak, or go straight to "do a face in person", but no matter what kind of method, the opponent can "persevere" in the leadership and Other colleagues "blackened" you.

In this regard, after weighing the advantages and disadvantages, the first thing that is not the first thing that is not blindly "leaving", but a thorough "reborn". The method is really "blinded and disappeared", just be the best self.

Over time, those cold words, those rumors, can no longer become a "sharp sword" that hurts themselves, but just falling silently like a fluttering leaves.

When a person learns to ignore the existence of others, especially in the bright fighting of the workplace, knowing how to use all your attention and energy to improve himself, then it is not only the ability to improve the work, but also a strong heart Essence

02

Beyond is the most powerful revenge.

There is a song of a song singing like this: "Thank you for watching me lightly, let me not bow my head, and live more excitingly."

Similarly, some people say: "Successfully rely on friends and grow up."

On the road of life, there are always people who see us lightly, embarrass us, and even set up heavy obstacles, and want to completely "defeat us".

In the face of such a stress of survival, crying and tears of crying noses are tantamount to surrender, sitting on the same; blindly hitting, "touching stones with eggs" when ability is not enough, it is tantamount to a moment of breath, making itself more embarrassing to fall into embarrassment. The situation.

People who are really amazing will work quietly, and they will be stunning everyone later.

Just like the plot in many idol dramas, when the male and female protagonists appeared, they had a sad childhood, either to rely on relatives and friends, or to be employees at the bottom of the company, but the people around them were disliked and disdainful attitudes. It is fun to see each other jokes and ugliness.

In this regard, in addition to the inability to endure, the male and female protagonists have more time and energy, that is, constantly holding themselves, piercing into the business research, the more frustrated the more brave, until the results of the wall, the fragrance of the wall outside the wall, the reputation far away, the reputation is far away, and the reputation is far away. broadcast.

When a person surpasses his former himself and repeats such success, it is actually re -reshuffle the interpersonal relationship around him again and again.

The more you approach the excellent crowd, the more you will find that maintaining excellent and conservation quality is a basic skill. When the people around you are committed to pursuing excellence, not only pay attention to yourself, but also care for others, the spiritual freedom of freedom is The free and easy is the best gift from God.

03

Silence is the most silent counterattack.

Silence is an attitude, a force, a wisdom.

If the relationship between people needs to be "explained clearly", it needs to "evidence" in many parties.

At this time, instead of facing each other, it is better to make up for it. It is better to be silent. From then on, it has gradually drifted away until there is no more intersection.

Remember to participate in business training at a time, business elites from different regions gathered together. Although everyone is comparable at the professional level, there are regional differences after all. Scorn and disdain.

Whether it is a dinner or after a meal activity, there are always a few people who formed a "small circle", joking deliberately, deliberately keeping a distance from others.

In this regard, a younger sister said, don't take it to your heart, just ignore it.

Indeed, the remaining training time, for those who think they are "superior", whether in class or group building activities, for the topic they thrown out, they will not be overwhelmed. Response. When the closing ceremony, everyone said and laughed and was reluctant; the only people in the "small circle" were only a single shadow.

When we do our best, we can't integrate a "circle", it is better to turn around and retire.

Just like Gu Jia in "Thirty Thirty", after recognizing the truth of the "wife circle", she realized that she was just a foil and tool person, so she retired, leaned out of tea, and broke out a little bit by little. Come.

04

End words:

When a period of emotion is going to shatter, the most ruthless approach is not a disconnection or a black, but a "follow the trend"::

With silence, it shows that no attitude that no longer travels with it; use ignoring the dialect, showing that he no longer cares about the determination; with unremitting efforts, you can realize from scratch, from weak to strong transcendence. Since then, gorgeous, gorgeous, gorgeous Turn around and say "goodbye" to the past.

The ruthlessness and ruthlessness of others, in fact, from another perspective, is affectionate to yourself.

Don't be afraid to make a decision, let alone make changes.

Only by tossing yourself fiercely can we meet that better self and a more beautiful future.

Author: Rufeng is light and cloudy.

Your happiness, my blessing.

The picture comes from the Internet.

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