Children have to write homework every day without reading extra -curricular books and playing time?Come here and teach you a few tricks

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Sister: "Children have to write homework every day, there is no time to read extra -curricular books and play!"

After the child starts school, this is the most worried issue of my cousin. I also hope that my child is studying carefully and has a good grade, but I also hope that the child has a happy childhood.

It is just that fish and bear's paw cannot be both. After the nephew is out of school every night, grandma always urges him to write homework while cooking, sitting in front of the desk at 6:30, dinner at 7:30, and continuing to do homework at 8 o'clock. To do 9 o'clock. Then wash it, you can sleep at about 10 o'clock every day.

Come back every day, except for doing homework, nothing else can be done.

Now that the nephew is in the fifth grade, his studies are worse, and his homework will only be more, so his cousin has begun to be anxious again.

The anxiety of my cousin, or the current situation of the nephew, actually has many families and children. Children only do homework and study every day. Parents only know that they urge their children to do homework. The end result is that the child is increasingly hate learning, and he is more and more disgusted with parents.

This is not what the child wants, let alone what parents want, but if parents and children do not change, this will eventually happen. It is difficult to make children take the initiative, so parents can only "take the initiative".

A friend of Guo's mother is sweet, and the situation of my cousin's house is almost exactly the same. Once, she blame her mother -in -law without urging her children to write homework quickly, so that the child had no time to read extra -curricular books and entertainment. Later, because of some accidents, sweetness became a full -time mother, and she found that some things were simple.

She took the child for a few months. Now, the child can not only complete the homework efficiently, but also have a lot of time to read extra -curricular books and play. The three tricks used by sweetness for children are actually very simple.

Children have to write homework every day without reading extra -curricular books and playing time? Come here and teach you a few tricks

The sweet daughter had about 3 hours of homework every day. She looked at the child's homework and did have more, so she didn't care about it at the beginning. But then sweetly accompanied the child to write homework, found that the child took the rubber from time to time, looked at the pen box in a daze, and then grinded the pencil again.

Sweet sweetly, so many homework is actually enough for an hour. So she made a bold decision: compressing the child's writing time.

Sweet Ton starts the big flicker mode: I am tired of going to school for a day. We do n’t worry about doing homework when we go home.

Next, the child either help himself picking vegetables for housework, or the two mother goes out outdoors. Then at about 7 o'clock, let the child do homework, sweetly do their own thing, and the child can find himself within his own sight.

But sweetness has a hard requirement, that is, at 8:30, the homework must be ended, and it cannot affect the rest. At 8:45, you must take a bath to go to bed.

Then sweetly discovered that in fact, as long as the child does not write homework, everything is particularly good. Coupled with the compression of the homework time, I started to hurry up and write my homework.

Let the children do homework as soon as they go home, such arrangements are actually inappropriate. Because after a day of study, the child is exhausted whether it is the body or the brain. At this time, if you want your child to complete your homework efficiently, the first thing is to let the child rest and relax first. Therefore, moving the operation time slightly will make the child's work efficiency more efficient.

Maybe after watching the first point, some people wondered: if you let your child write, he can write obediently?

Including reading, you let your child look at it, and the child will obediently read it?

Before the child's good habits and high efficiency of writing homework, you still have to "seduce" the children.

At 7 o'clock to 8:30, for an hour and a half, if the child is efficient, it will only take an hour to complete. After half an hour, I watched the child want to watch cartoons. If you want to see, you must improve the efficiency while ensuring quality.

Including weekends, you can also promise your child to do what he wants to do, such as going to the playground, going to the countryside, and so on. But the premise of going out is naturally to ensure the quality of the quality.

Driven by "temptation", children will feel that writing homework has "hope".

Not only homework, including other children's other interests and hobbies, or other tasks, parents can use this way to "seduce" children.

Parents do not need to worry about this way to make their children "unprofitable" in the future without writing homework, because such "temptation" is actually a more reasonable time and event arrangement for children. Self -discipline is very helpful.

Many children don't like reading because they feel boring. But if parents open this door of interest, then it is too easy for children to fall in love with reading books.

Sweet sweetness with children every day is not toughly asked for children to read, but to read extra -curricular books for children before going to bed, or suddenly ask a question in normal times, which causes children's curiosity. Of course, the problem comes from the book. Or, tell your children halfway to the children.

For children who have no interest in reading, it is the best way to evoke the child's curiosity or use the child's "hunger effect". It can make children take the initiative to read without causing tension of parent -child relationships.

Of course, there is a prerequisite to use this method, that is, parents have a certain understanding of this book.

The sweet mother is to read these extra -curricular books that accompany their children to do homework. In this way, they do not need to disturb the child's learning. When the child sees the mother reading, he can also quietly write his homework and get two birds with one stone.

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The homework and practice are to allow children to consolidate what they have learned.The purpose of homework is not only for testing, but also to allow children to have a good learning habit, and have a good learning mentality and patience.Therefore, as parents, they cannot only pay attention to the homework itself, but ignore the child's homework habits and efficiency.

Children's life is not only homework, but also playing, as well as extra -curricular books, as well as hobbies, etc. It is difficult for children to balance various things. At this time, parents' guidance is particularly important.Therefore, parents, less blame, more ways, children and parents will win a win -win situation.

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