Establish a good parent -child relationship, adolescent parents start their self -exploration journey

The Yangtze River Daily Da Wuhan Client August 30th. Adolescence was called a rebellious period by many parents. Children at this stage became disobedient, hate learning, and contradictions in parent -child contradictions. Some children also produced depression, anxiety, insomnia, and insomnia. Self -injury and other psychological behaviors. Facing adolescent children, parents are often helpless. In order to explore the psychological and behavioral problems of adolescent children and help parents and their children establish a good parent -child relationship, the Wuhan Mental Health Center launched a mutual help group for public welfare self -growth for young parents in August 2022. The group lasted for 4 weeks. Parents began to see themselves at the event, and they also saw their children and the entire family.

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In the first week, parents knew each other and talked about their children's growth in the group. Many parents couldn't help crying when they talked about their children's growth. Tan Lianhong, a group leader, pointed out that the turning point that parents pay attention to are closely related to their children's further studies and academic performance, ignoring their care of other aspects of their children. In the second week, the family structure and motivation were deeply explored through family sculptures, and the relationship between members of the family was reshaped by reshaping the relationship between family members, bringing new thinking and new exploration directions for group members.

In the third week, the group members experienced the pressure and inefficiency of the one -way communication brought to the child through "you draw me to guess". Through two -way communication, almost all members of the group have successfully completed the complicated geometric pattern drawing. This has also triggered the in -depth thinking of parent -child communication. Many parents said that they must revise the "broken thoughts" of their children to criticize education communication models, and be friends with their children, and carry out equal two -way communication. In the fourth week, members of the group further showed cohesion and centripetal force. Under the guidance of the "Thousands of Hearts" activities, everyone eliminated all difficulties and opened a complicated "heart knot". Everyone gets a sense of security and belonging in the group, facing difficulties together, and solving problems.

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At the end of the group, the group members wrote a letter to their families, some wrote it to their children, some wrote it to their husbands, some wrote it to their mother -in -law, and they were written to themselves. By the "true confession" in the letter, every parent began to really see himself, and he also saw his children and the entire family. They also slowly accepted imperfect themselves, imperfect children, and calmly faced everything that life brought to themselves.

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Through this continuous group tutoring, parents realized that the problem of adolescent children is not just a child's personal problem, but the problem of the entire family system. As parents, they also need to continue to explore, learn, change and progress in order to promote the family system system. Powerful cycle of power.

Family is an interactive system that improves the emotional connection between family members, family communication, establishment of family rules, and the ability to respond to crisis. The Municipal Mental Health Center will also carry out such activities in the future.

(Changjiang Daily reporter Mao Yin correspondent Zhou Yang Yang Li)

[Edit: Yu Lina]

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