Rapid comment | Men's derailment of girlfriends during pregnancy wants to recover 160,000 colorful gifts. Why are netizens angry?

Polar News commentator Wu Shuangjian

On August 29, the topic of "men who derailed their girlfriend during pregnancy and wanted to return to 160,000 Caicoli", which made the hot search, which caused heated discussion among netizens. According to reports, in Longyan, Fujian, Xiao Zhang and Xiaoyu lived together after the wedding in 2020, but the two have not registered to get married. In June 2021, Xiao Zhang discovered that Xiao Yan was derailed during pregnancy. The two had disagreement, and the two sides separated after Xiao Zhang had a daughter Xiaohua. In 2022, Xiaoyu sued the court to ask Xiao Zhang to return Cai Li and related expenses. After trial, the Yongding District People's Court believed that when the two were engaged, Xiaoyu Fang gave Xiao Zhang 130,000 yuan and more than 30,000 heads of state jewelry. Xiao Yan's derailment caused the two sides to break up, causing serious damage to Xiao Zhang. After the breakup, Xiao Zhang raised her daughter alone and returned the colorful gift of 30,000 yuan as appropriate. Xiaoyu paid the child's support for 1,000 yuan per month until the child was adult. (According to Jiupai News on August 29)

"The man's derailment during his girlfriend wants to recover 160,000 colorful gifts." It caused a very warm discussion. Some netizens were angry and discussed Xiaoyu: derailed during the pregnancy of his girlfriend, and wanted to recover the gift? Some netizens are staring at the court's judgment: 30,000 yuan should be returned as appropriate? The man only pays only 1,000 yuan to support each month?

The two of them lived together in order to get married. The man was unfaithful to the woman, and of course he had to bear the condemnation of public opinion. Whether Cai Li returns is very complicated from judicial practice. It is necessary to judge according to whether the two register for marriage, whether they have children, and whether they are used for common life.

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In recent years, there have been more and more cases for men and women to compete for colorful gifts. In fact, this also reminds us that marriage should still be based on feelings. Because the sky -high gifts are fundamentally meaningful to the two people, but it will cause the two sides to ignore the emotional factors, and finally increase the trouble.

What I have to mention is that in reality, especially in some remote areas and a small number of rural areas, there is a family -arranged marriage in order to ask for a lot of money. Men and women are forcibly combined with money as a link. In fact, this is an illegal act. Article 1042 of the Civil Code stipulates that it is prohibited to include, buy and sell marriage, and other interference in freedom of marriage. It is forbidden to use marriage to ask for property.

In other words, more than the necessary limit can affect the choice made by both men and women.

I don't know if the men and women are free to fall in love, or they come together purely because of the gift of 160,000 yuan. But no matter what, the information content of this case is really a lot.

First, after the parents of both parties handled them the wedding, they lived together. In other words, how can they protect the rights and interests of both parties? The second is that the woman is pregnant or even has a child before, and this choice almost gives the woman no retreat.

Netizens have discussing, and they are not worthless for the woman. Even if you didn't get a marriage certificate, he had a daughter, not only to bear the heavy responsibility of raising alone, but the man paid 1,000 yuan per month.

So, is the woman making these choices because of this 160,000 yuan gift, which makes her think that the man has sincerity and will not derail or abandon herself? It's really hard to say. In reality, when some people ask for sky -high gifts, they are under the such as "reflecting the sincerity of the man" and "guaranteeing the woman." In fact, these are all mirrors.

In any case, we really remind that marriage must be legally registered for marriage based on the feelings of both parties. As for the sky -high gift, hurry up to abandon!

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