Kindergarten must not only learn not only arithmetic words, but also more important items. Many parents are ignored

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Can you imagine to what extent a child can be humbled in order to make friends?

A mother -in -law she knew, when her daughter was wonderful in kindergarten, she began to pay attention to learning, but she didn't pay much attention to other aspects.

Once, the children played the game together, and they were unwilling to bring wonderful fun. However, a person needs a puppy in the game, and no children are willing. So a little boy said to Miao Miao: "If you go to be a puppy, we will take you to play!"

So, in order to play with them, Miao Miao lying on the ground and climbing "Wang Wang". Miao Miao came back and told her mother that my mother only said, "There must always be children as puppies. It doesn't matter, you can study hard."

The mother later learned that since then, those children who love to bully the wonderful children have become even worse.

The clips on the wonderful head are often less, and the braids are often messy. Ask the reason, Miao Miao never speaks. When my mother couldn't ask anything, she gave up, and the child was not injured anyway. Mom feels that as long as the daughter has a good grade in the future, because the grades are good, some children are willing to be friends with wonderfulness.

But that is not the case.

I have become accustomed to the wonderfulness of "being bullied". Even after I went to elementary school, even if my grades were very good, they were still bullied. Students grabbed pencils, nicknames, etc., from time to time. The wonderful performance is also required by several "small bully" in the class to write homework every day. The timidity of the timid can only be done.

It wasn't until the incident of the east window that Miao Miao realized that her daughter was bullied at school, but the child was such a cowardly, timid and flattering personality, but did not know when to correct it.

Some people say that girls are more likely to be bullied;

Some people say that children with poor grades are more vulnerable to bullying;

Some people say that children are not sensible, and they are not very important to play. There are real bullying in elementary school and junior high school.

But the fact is:

Boys and girls may be bullied;

Children with good grades and poor grades may be bullied;

Although the children were young in kindergarten, bullying has begun. By elementary school, junior high school, and even high school universities, bullying is more serious than kindergartens, and they have received more attention.

Not the child is injured, it is bullying, many invisible bullying, the child's mental health is hurt.

This scene appears in the documentary of "Kindergarten". The boy arrogantly let the girl, don't sit with him. The girl was at a loss, she could only lie on the table. The boy's arrogance, the girl's silentness, attracted another boy to learn, and said to the girl, don't sit with me.

No one helps this girl, and the girl does not know what to do, she dare not resist.

Therefore, bullying is really ubiquitous, and the bullying incident on the Internet has no distinction between gender, age, and academic performance. As parents, we can't think that children are not injured. They are more irreversible than physical injuries. They are psychological injuries.

Perhaps some parents will think: What is too glassy!

Yes, in fact, in the process of children's growth, they will encounter such a tough role and will encounter bullying. This is really not a big deal.

However, this is not a big deal for children who are equally tough. Because they will respond to let others no longer dare to bully themselves, or they will seek help from teachers and parents to keep themselves away from bullying.

It is not difficult to find that bullying has nothing to do with gender, age, and learning, but has a lot to do with children's personality and self -protection methods.

There is no strong heart and will not properly handle bullying, so the bullying of these bullying children is 0 and countless times.

After being bullied for the first time, the hearts of these children were buried in negative seeds such as fear, fear, and pleasing;

After being bullied by a child but dare not resist, more people will have to bully the child;

After being bullied again and again, the child's psychology began to move from the balance point to two extremes. One is becoming more and more timid and weak.

Children who are often bullied will not only be affected by learning, life, mental health, and personality, but also may affect their lifetime. After all, not everyone is like "You of You". One who can cure you will accompany you the darkest moment.

Kindergarten must not only learn not only arithmetic words, but also more important items, which are ignored by many parents.

3-6 years old is a critical period for children's personality. At this time, it is not only parents, but also children's social. The small kindergarten actually has a large society. There are also bullying in the kindergarten, but compared to teenagers, this bullying is not so obvious, but it is related to the development of children's personality.

Therefore, kindergarten is the "golden period" for children to learn anti -bullying. During this period, parents mainly did two things.

The first thing: Pay attention to children's kindergarten life

Parents are the backing of children.

If the parents do not pay attention to their children, or ignore the child's demands, then the child's backing is gone. In the bullying piece, you can only "die and destroy".

Kindergarten children have limited expression ability and limited judgment ability, so parents should pay more attention to their children's state than paying attention to their children's learning at this time, and whether they are afraid of kindergarten and physical injuries.

Especially when children actively mention kindergarten life, parents should pay attention to let their children know: Moms and dads care about you, there are problems, parents are always your backing! The second thing: let children know bullying and learn to deal with bullying

In addition to physical injuries, do parents know, what other behaviors are bullying?

Your child, do you know what is bullying?

When encountering bullying, do your children know how to deal with and how to protect yourself?

If these three questions are uncertain, then the parents' answers are uncertain, then they must prepare a set of anti -dominant picture books for their children. Picture book education is always the most economical and efficient.

Gua Ma prepared for this set of "Learn to say" no "". Originally, there was a little boy in the happy fruit class. He always liked to braid her, but after seeing this picture book, Happy Guo himself was in herself. The kindergarten solved this matter. She came back and told us: "XXX dare not braid again, now, we are still good friends!"

"Learn to say" no "" is a set of sound anti -bullying picture books. There are 8 volumes in total. Each volume is a theme, namely ridicule, chaos, calling, rumoring, snatching, pushing, nickname, exclusion, being excluded, and being excluded. Essence These themes include almost all the invisible bullying of children, social bullying, speech bullying, relationship bullying, physical bullying, financial bullying, emotional bullying, and so on.

The most basic, after watching this picture book, the child will know which behaviors are bullies. This will let the child know: the other party is wrong. In this way, at least he can distinguish the behavior, and then seek the help of parents and teachers.

In a sublimation, in the picture book story, use the story close to the child's life, so that the child can understand how to understand the bullying. When the child encounters bullying again after real life, it will not be so frustrated, but to think about what to deal with. This is the beginning of the child's "anti -bullying".

Bullying is ubiquitous. We cannot stop the bullying behavior of other children's children. However, we can teach our children to understand bullying, deal with bullying, and stay away from bullying.

Only when children have a healthy body and mind, a happy campus environment can children really grow up healthy and happy! Therefore, if your family has a kindergarten child, then you must prepare a set of "Learn to say" no "" for him, and the previous lesson about anti -bullying!

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