The most amazing ability of a person: the story is overwhelming

Zhuangzi said, "Knowing right and wrong, the heart is suitable."

Many times, the reason why we have a heavy trouble is that we are filled with all kinds of right and wrong and unwilling to let go.

The mobile phone has been used for a long time, and the garbage needs to be cleaned to not stuck;

Similarly, people need to clean up "garbage in the heart" in time to let themselves get rid of the fetters and move forward lightly.

01 Put down the success or failure of the past

As the saying goes: "Good guys don't mention the courage of the year."

Once a person starts to mention "bravery of the year" frequently, it often shows that he has lost the driving force of "pioneering and innovation" at the moment.

An aggressive person will not be too nostalgic for the past, let alone sit in the past "achievement" to eat old books.

For them, the best achievements will always be in the future.

Therefore, they can always continue to break through themselves and become increasingly refined.

"If you don't forget a lot, you can't continue your life if you don't forget a lot."

Some people are always immersed in the failure of the past, arrogant, and abandoning themselves.

This practice will only waste a good time.

There are objective reasons and subjective reasons for a person's failure.

Failure is not terrible. What is terrible is the cause of the failure and not analyzing the cause of the failure.

Through analysis, if it is found that it is an objective reason, why bother to be self -evident and stop?

If it is found to be subjective, then "correct your own deficiencies". After the deficiencies have been corrected, things are naturally easy to do.

It is not advisable to indulge in the success of the past, failure, or slackness, or decay.

Only by letting go of the past success or failure and action can we step into a new state of life.

02 Put down the damage of the past

Some people say, "You want to thank those who have hurt you, they make you strong."

Can't agree.

Some people will indeed become stronger after experiencing damage.

Some people will become sensitive and fragile after experiencing the unbearable past.

Damage is damage, and it is not worthy to be grateful at all.

However, we need to let go of the past damage.

Choosing to let go is not to tolerate the person who once hurt us, but to let yourself go.

A person, if he always holds the pain of the past, then it is to continue the injury of the past and immerse yourself in it, which is painful.

Some people say, "If I choose to let go, isn't it cheaper, is it a person who has hurt me?"

In fact, choosing "tightly stinging" may not "retaliate" those who have hurt themselves, but they will not be able to extricate themselves in past injuries.

The logo of a person's mature is to learn to love himself.

Putting down the pain in the past, no longer "self -harm", can love your own performance.

03 Put down the mistakes in the past

The ancients said: "People are not sages.

We often use this sentence to tolerate the fault of others, but we are worried about ourselves.

A person, criticizing himself appropriately, can inspire yourself to improve.

However, excessive self -blame will make yourself feel a lot of guilt and lose the power of moving forward.

In the face of past errors, what we need to do is not constant self -blame, but to analyze the reasons why we make mistakes.

The reason for making mistakes is found that you will no longer fall in the same place in the future.

Tao Yuanming said: "I am not in the past, and the person who knows can be chased."

The past has passed, no matter how we attack ourselves, it will not help, but it will let ourselves miss the "moon" again.

People, learn to look forward.

Only by unloading the heavy "psychological burden" in the past, can we see the opportunity to throw God in heaven to make up for past mistakes.

Conclusion:

"Four Trainings" said: "Yesterday, for example, yesterday died; all kinds of today, such as born today."

Only by learning to do subtraction, letting the past and passing the wind can make themselves a new life.

The so -called "willingness" can be won.

Abandoning expired and useless things can get brand new and valuable things.

May you and me be able to have the ability to "turn over".

Source: Philosophy (ID: zhexue867)

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