Ask sincerely: What is the experience of spending thousands of and "male star"?

Many people are no stranger to killing piglets, but have you heard of "blind date killing piglets"?

This is a new type of pig disk variant.

Most of them are the "wedding websites" we are familiar with.

Aiming at the girls who are willing to get married, register on the marriage website, look forward to getting a good marriage.

The bureau seemed to be settled from the beginning.

First, let women pay high membership fees, and then seduce women to buy more services.

But the high amount is also the high amount of "Xue Dingzhang" -some women spend more than 100,000, but they have not yet touched the threshold of the highest level members.

Paying enough fees, the next step is to prepare a blind date.

But don't think too much.

The other party may not want to enter the marriage through a blind date, but a "actor" who looks impeccable -was hired by a blind date website to earn a pay for you to pay for you.

When the woman really hooks, either a blind date man suddenly lost contact, or it is to start to recommend the financial product that the woman can get through the "inside" ...

In the following things, I believe that I don't need to say that everyone knows it.

According to news reports, some girls invested over one million in this scam, and finally did not return.

What makes Mrs. feel terrible is that these wedding websites are mostly regular websites in the eyes of the public. What is more terrible is that this is a scam specifically for women.

The lady found a lot of men who registered on this blind date. Many people said that they had not encountered similar situations, and the average paid fees were also about 5,000 yuan lower than women.

I am curious, how did the girl in it get deeper and deeper? And how do men who are "supported" have become grasshoppers on a rope with a blind date?

The lady found a girl who had experienced a blind date scam, and a boy who was "entrusted" in a blind date scam Cao Yan.

Let's listen to them today, the details in this hunting game.

(The following are a pseudonym)

I am 34 years old, and it is reasonable to say that people are not bigger.

Before 34 years old, you experienced 33 years old. But I still wake up and feel fear and puzzle. Why are I 34 years old?

The last time I was in love, I was 28 years old.

This means that I have been nearly 6 years without walking into a real relationship.

My mother reminded me that since I separated from my 28 -year -old boyfriend, she has been urging me to take her personality home.

But where can I think of this?

To ensure your living expenses, return the loan of Beijing's house, pay insurance for yourself and the whole family, you have to earn enough money for your parents.

These pressures make me very "wolf". After all, if the epidemic does not catch the last reins during the epidemic, it will be eliminated.

But unfortunately, these traits are placed in the field of love, which is enough to let the boys run after watching it.

After a period of time, I was completely Buddha, and I did not put love in my life plan at all.

After all, if you pretend to be a little girl, will anyone help me take my economic pressure? No.

But my parents don't do it.

In persuading marriage, they have used various words:

Whoever often mentioned a certain family was married again, and who had children again;

The bitterness of the bitterness, saying that a woman does not have a family, it is a failure;

Grasp all the opportunities of the disease, say that you can't hold it, you can't hold your grandson and you can't close your eyes;

Even if the relationship is forced to force the relationship, it will not be contacted for a few months.

I couldn't stand their trouble, and indeed, as I got older, I realized that I was alone in a foreign country, so I decided to try a blind date.

But compared to going to blind dates and waiting for relatives and friends, the blind date website can better meet my requirements. I hope that the blind date can be systematically completed and efficiently. I can't move.

So I found a well -known blind date website and felt that this one should be reliable.

But I never expected that this decision made me fall into a lie with lies.

I thought back later-

In fact, at the moment I stepped into the door of a blind date, the scam had been revealed.

Speaking of which, I did not face marriage, at most my mother murmured occasionally.

No harm, it can't make my pressure.

But my buddy is a pity for my decision. Because they think my conditions are good and not to be on a blind date.

These conditions include:

People in Beijing, there are cars and houses, and civil servants are decently worn with iron rice bowls. They are 185cm tall, and they pass the level. Graduate graduate ...

Those who are familiar with me know that I am more boring. Usually, in addition to reading dramas and reading historical and social science books, there are no other hobbies. Do not play games or go to nightclubs ...

Facing the girl is even more dumb.

I always think that as an ordinary people, I have to end when I am going to get married.

A blind date is the most conservative means.

I happened to have a college classmate working on a famous blind date website, and I found her.

The first time I went, it was actually a little embarrassed. Because I found that the whole building was almost invisible.

But people are already sitting there, a little bit difficult to ride a tiger.

And the staff attitude is really good-

They poured me water for a while, and asked me if I wanted to eat snacks, and there was a higher -level staff who looked at me a one -on -one.

The first conference fee was completely within my acceptance range, more than 3,000.

Regarding the frequency of blind dates, the blind date website also gives their "professional advice":

At least once a week, they are fully responsible for docking. All processes are smooth, and I don't seem to refuse.

I just did not expect that I later became their "living signboards" unconsciously.

The instead of being enthusiastically entertained as Cao Yan's entrance.

People in the hall come and go, but no one cares about me.

I sat there alone and waited for about twenty minutes.

Someone came to receive me, but asked my personal information casually and left.

I fell into a long wait.

Waiting for more than me, a girl with various kinds of color.

Thinking of so many women could not find a suitable man, I felt sad in my heart.

But this mood was quickly pressed down -because the girl sitting next to him had a cup of coffee in front of him.

I am angry, all customers, why are I treated like this?

The answer was announced not long after, and a manager came to tell me: Sorry, she is our VIP member.

The manager also told me:

Members are divided into several levels, the lowest level of the lowest level is more than 8,000 for the first time, and then the price is upward.

Corresponding to the level is the service quality, including matching the quality of men, recommending the frequency of high -quality men for you ...

To put it plainly, spend more, it may be Jin Yuliang's fate; spend less, the matching may be the divorced man with a big belly.

Girls who came to such a place, hearing this kind of speech, it is difficult to get hot.

As far as I know, many girls will pay at least 10,000 for the first time.

I paid 12,000 yuan on the spot with an inexplicable desire to win and want to find the desire to find the right object.

After the delivery, I finally felt the enthusiasm of the service staff.

The peach blossom brought to me by "money ability" was quickly fulfilled ——

They arranged for me to have a blind date with a return financial male.

36 years old, 181cm tall, weighing 150 catties, and an annual salary of nearly one million. In addition to his job, he is still starting a business. There was a short marriage, but divorced.

I was very satisfied after listening to this condition, and I was unforgettable at that meeting.

He wore a light gray suit and glasses. He looked very gentle, his figure, and his face was good.

The most important thing is that when I speak, I can feel his respect for me.

But strange things happened.

At the end of a date, I wanted to add his WeChat, but it was decisively rejected.

He said, "I want to find me, just contact the website."

I didn't think too much at the time, and I felt it was reasonable, or this was a way of rejection.

But it wasn't until I contacted the website again before realizing that there may be fraud.

The work efficiency is high, they are the same to men and women.

In a few days in the meeting, I also received news from the website--

They arranged me for a month and a half of the date.

Once a week, a total of six times.

I was shocked by their efficiency, but after seeing three girls in a row, I felt a bit unable to eat such high -frequency dating arrangements.

Some people may be puzzled, what are the tiredness of date?

In fact, it is a huge challenge for a boy like me.

Every time you say, what to wear, and what to eat. Especially when choosing a restaurant, the restaurant cannot be too low.

A whole set of processes came down without exaggeration: the labor and wealth hurt.

So after three times, I contacted the blind date website and wanted to pause it.

As soon as the docking staff had to suspend the date, it was immediately fired.

"All dating is appointment in advance. Since the previous active saying to arrange for dating, if it is not a breach of contract, you need to pay a certain amount."

This rhetoric is somewhat wrong. I can't accept it but can't pick it for a while.

In desperation, I contacted the friend who worked in this company -she helped me postpone the next three dates on the system.

Say it sounds, this is "help"; if it is ugly, my friend casts a "bait" to me.

Soon after, "Hunter" closed the net.

My friend took the initiative to ask me to have a meal, and dumped another seductive condition:

Dating can also help me arrange, and I won't continue to charge me in the next, and I can even refund the money I paid before.

But I need to help her a busy -disguised as a different identity and date with girls.

She promised that as long as I refused to add a girl's contact information during the date, the platform would definitely "protect" me.

My friend said this as this, and I also have a demand for a date, so I accepted it.

At that time, every one or two weeks, I will go out for dating with various people to help the blind date website. The expenses during the date are reimbursed uniformly.

My "person" includes but not limited to:

Professor of Wenqi University, financial elite men, new entrepreneurial entrepreneurial industrialists, unruly artists, sad writers .........

Of course, my own identity, honesty.

I was surprised to find that in the process, my ability to communicate with girls has improved.

But for a long time, I started to realize that this is not just a question of "acting "--

The woman who came to the blind date spent money in the "High -quality Male blind date" promoted by the blind date website.

After being aware of the wrong and improperness of the matter, I rejected this "bad issue."

Of course, I no longer expect to find the other half through a blind date website.

The water inside is too deep. They can make me who pretend to be a man with various identities to meet with women, and they can treat me with the same tricks and be invincible.

Soon after the first date, I realized that it was a scam.

Because I contacted the blind date website and said that I wanted to see the boy at first sight, but I was rejected unsurprisingly.

Strictly speaking, it is not completely rejected -because if renewal, you can specify dating.

But a "renewal" made me completely smell an unusual atmosphere.

I suddenly realized that I didn't even do my homework, so I chose this well -known blind date website. In the past, the overwhelming advertisements endorsed the reputation of this website.

After calming down, I started to do my homework for this blind date.

After the search engine made its name, the two words that followed the two words made me take a breath:

"scam".

The news on the Internet made me a little bit stunned for a while, but I still didn't give up.

I went to the company again and made an excuse to talk to the woman who hoped on the blind date website like me.

One of the entrepreneurial women, 36 years old.

A strong woman who is busy with work, has no money and has no idleness, and pays attention to efficiency, so the first payment is very big -50,000.

But even so, her experience behind me is similar to me.

From the beginning of last year to now, she has seen many high -quality men. It was just that some dating refused to add the connection method, and some added contact information for a while.

But it is different from me that I have made a money. As of now, she has spent more than 100,000 on a blind date website.

What surprised me was that she knew the true and false mixing of men on the blind date website.

But she hopes to get married before the age of 40, so as long as there is a line that she wants to find the right object, she is unwilling to give up. Moreover, there is no chance to know new friends except the blind date website.

After listening to this woman's story, I was speechless.

Her choice is for the time being, but it is obvious that women who are eager to walk into marriage and form a family have become a cash cow of the blind date website.

Whether it was the woman who spent more than 100,000 in front of me, or I ran the way after paying the money, without exception.

And at this time, I really started thinking: Do I really need to form a family so?

the answer is negative.

I just need someone to appear in the position of my partner, and I think this may avoid a lot of trouble.

But as a result, in order to avoid the trouble of the beginning of trouble, I created more trouble for me.

And this may be just the beginning of trouble.

Now, I am no longer a blind date.

Because I found that although I am 34 years old, I still haven't learned how to put my eyes on myself, and this is the problem I should solve the most now.

Write behind:

After chatting with Tong Xin and Cao Yan, the wife took a breath.

The same blind date platform, treating male and female customers is a very different face.

They accurately capture people of different gender, different needs on marriage and love, and use it.

For example, under the action of multiple problems such as gender, age, and fertility, women are more likely to be left or right by time pears in the secular sense, and then fall into marriage anxiety.

As a result, the shackles of the abduction of women in the secular sense further became a weapon for profitable websites.

This is a carefully arranged hunting game.

High -quality men, or actively or passively became bait.

Women are the "High -quality Male blind date bureau" carefully arranged by the blind date website, waiting for the fish to be hooked.

Many women surrounded by anxiety, once they step into them, they are losing their wealth.

Such a "blind date scam" is not uncommon.

In addition to these well -known wedding websites, some unconventional small websites are also moss, full of every corner of the Internet.

They have a lot of personnel information and formed a kind of information monopoly. They need to charge for information, but the single payment is obviously not the end.

The service providers holding the money of both parties are also the makers of the rules of the game, as well as the controller and decision maker of the matter.

When multiple identities are collected, there are destined to leave too many operations that can be operated, for the gray zone. The behavior of the marriage website to "care" to deceive girls is one of the rings breeding by this gray area.

From this point of view, the website that helps the marriage between men and women to help marriage, and the PUA team that we have seen in the collective "crime" is no different- ———

Let men build high -end people, this is hardware.

Use women's emotional vulnerabilities to make her step by step, this is software.

But I don't want to blame those women who are in a routine.

All the anxiety about women's marriage and some behaviors caused by this comes from a social education that we don't realize--

Because he was educated as a good wife and mother since he was a child, he was forcibly put in the shell of "only marriage is successful in marriage."

When the mainstream narrative and the path of life are the case, how can we ask for the perfect scam created by the female embankment?

Fortunately, whether it is a narrative that "women divorce to be congratulated" in recent years, or recent hot search, Zhang Tian'ai and Gulina Zha two women teamed up with the scum men, which made people see it. Another possibility-

Yearning for love does not mean that the CCP sinks in the wrong relationship.

Regaining the control of love may also avoid ridiculous deception in love.

Don't gently walk into that good night.

Instead, it is necessary to judge yourself, self -choice, and self -firmness.

Entering the path that belongs to it, even if it is full of thorns.

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