The story that Teacher Fan Deng tells makes me understand this truth. Don't you want to see it?
Author:Xiao Erni said childcare Time:2022.08.27
This is the 101st day/200 days I continued to write
Hello everyone, I am Daming.
In the past two days, I was listening to Teacher Fan Deng's "The Third Selection", and some of his stories impressed me:
He took the train and passed the security inspection, because his movement was a little slower, and was angry by a girl's rude behavior.
Make him very angry, almost soaring.
Afterwards, he reflected, why was he angry?
Because he was proud, he said that the reason why people would be angry is from pride and told me to enhance.
He felt that he was five people and six, and he was called a teacher everywhere. Why did others treat me like this?
When you have such an idea, your anger comes out.
The fundamental reason is that we are not practicing ourselves enough and proud of pride.
I feel deeply about the story of Teacher Fan Deng.
Because it reminds me of the anger I have appeared before, it is estimated that most of them are also proud.
For example, when I went to the supermarket to buy things, when I was going to checkout, the machine suddenly had problems.
At this time, my emotions got up, and I felt very angry. When others checked out, they were all good, so I couldn't do it.
Why am I so unlucky, why is it me?
Think about it now, that is, my pride is getting up.
Because I think others can meet, but I can't encounter it.
What others can bear, but I can't bear it, I am different from others.
What happened to others was the story, and the accident happened to himself.
I don't want to accept this from my heart.
But in fact, each of us is one of the sentient beings. Don't make you think about how special and luck.
There is no difference between you and others, and anyone may encounter similar things.
What can we do in this situation?
In fact, many things we have encountered, we have options, not there is no way.
Just like my encounter in the supermarket, I only care about anger and forget to think, I have choices.
Otherwise, other teams are lined up, or wait for maintenance personnel to repair it.
I have emotions, I just make my troubles in trouble, and it has no effect on things itself.
Therefore, when we encounter trouble, we can think more about what choices can I make instead of letting ourselves fall into the vortex of emotions.
Of course, we must also reflect on ourselves often. When we have bad emotions, we have appeared again.
After the full text, it is another day of growth. I hope this article can also bring you some thinking and help.
If your friends have the same problem, please forward it to him!
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