These people in the circle of friends, the earlier delete, shows that the more self -discipline you are, the more self -discipline

Those who make the potential, the momentum is absolutely absolute;

For those who make benefits, the prosperity is scattered.

Author: insight yy

The writer Su Yi said, "Don't need too many people, please enter your life."

The number of people in the circle of friends is not as much as possible.

If you do not screen and be with negative friends, you will only disturb your life crowded.

The sooner away from those who consume you, the more you live the more sober and the more self -discipline.

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Wine and meat friend: consumption of life

"Zeng Guangxianwen" has a saying: "There are tea and wine brothers.

Friends of alcohol and meat, gathering with wine and meat, and because of lack of alcohol and less meat, do not return to your head, abandon you.

The singer Tengger, who especially liked to drink, had a few drinks with friends everywhere.

Later, because of the song "Mongolians", the appearance fee once reached hundreds of thousands of appearances, and the wallets in the pocket were drumming up.

So the wine friends around him began to encourage Tengger to set up the "Beer Association" and hold him to the high position of the association's chairman.

Then they suggested that Tengger invested in the restaurant to make it easier for everyone to meet.

Once, he went home until he was drunk in the restaurant.

When his wife saw him alcohol, he couldn't help complaining that he ignored his family and mixed it all day.

Tengger refuted her, and drinking with a drink is the only happiness in his life.

When his wife saw him repent, he divorced him in a cold heart.

Just when he felt free and happy, he was not afraid of being scolded overnight, and a crisis was quietly brewing.

It didn't take long for the restaurants to eat and drink because those people were eating and drinking all year round.

The so -called: "The sound of the dog is drunk for a while, and the Qingshi case is destroyed for ten years."

In this way, Tengger's marriage was broken, and his years of savings were also squandered.

The original Mongolian man was going downhill, and the blood pressure and blood glucose all turned on the red light.

Mix with friends of wine and meat, every bite of wine you drink is a poison to destroy life.

While bringing you pleasure, you are also quietly paralyzing you, and even consume your health and destroy your family.

When you ask them out of the circle of friends in time, you can pursue the true happiness of life in a healthy life.

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Sobble friend:

Nan Huaijin, a master of Chinese studies, has met a lot of people in his life, and has a friend of liver and gallbladder.

After the world, he sighed in the article:

When people are interacting with people, snobbish is the norm. Those who make the potential, the momentum is absolutely necessary, to benefit the people, and the poor are scattered.

"Su Dongpo Biography" has a period of experience of Su Shi, which is sighing.

When Su Shi was in Beijing, many people came to settle him.

Every time he goes in and out of the restaurant poetry club, there are a lot of people who follow.

Among them, there is a man named Zhang Ye, who is a jinteller in the same year as Su Shi.

At that time, Su Shi won the appreciation and emphasis on Ouyang Xiu, and Zhang Ye was always unknown, and he was hopeless, so he began to deliberately make Su Shi.

When Su Shi worked in Feng Xiang, he was disagreed with his boss Chen Xiliang, and the situation was very stiff.

Zhang Ye learned the news and took the initiative to help him resolve the conflict.

Su Shi was quite moved. When he returned to Beijing, he also gave him a "Jiayan".

Unexpectedly, then the Wutai poem case broke out and Su Shi was imprisoned.

Seeing this, Zhang Ye was worried about his implication. He immediately returned home and burned "The Gee", and he first clarified his relationship with Su Shi.

In order to keep the official position, he also provoked from it to fabricate Su Shizi's virtual crimes.

When Su Shi was locked in the prison, he successfully appeared on the high position of Zhongshu's servant.

"Cai Gen Tan" said: "Hunger is attached, full is full, and it is tending to be, and cold is abandoned.

The human heart is repeated, and people's hearts are unpredictable.

When your scenery, friends of power will praise you, praise you, get close to you;

When you are down, they expose their nature.

To understand, those who come to profit will be broken.

When you meet such a person, you must stay away early and be careful that they fall down.

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Friends without virtue: hurt the world

In a program, the host Venus once asked Guo Degang: What are the standards for recruiting disciples?

Guo Degang replied: At the beginning, it mainly depends on talent capacity, and now it mainly depends on character.

In fact, making friends is even more so.

Friends who are poor in virtue, if there is no root wood, shakes, I don't know when it will hit you.

There is such a story in "Late Mind":

Qiusheng and the poet Kim Hepu are young playmates, and they are also very friends.

One year of the Spring Festival, Kim Heipu, who has been drifting for many years, came to Qiusheng's house.

He said that he is now a big poet, and he has made a lot of noble officials.

Qiu Sheng's father was worried about his son's work, and he commissioned him to help him in the county.

Jin Xipu patted his chest and said it was okay, but he lacked activity funds.

Qiu Sheng's father's heart was sideways, and the 20,000 dollars he had worked hard for most of his life gave him all.

But half a year passed, Kim Heipu seemed to be sinking to the sea.

Qiu Sheng's father went out and inquired.

Yesterday was a poet, today is a star, and he changes his identity to deceive the countryside and do some harmfulness.

20,000 yuan was drifting, Qiu Sheng's father was anxious, and his heart disease died.

Seeing this, I can't help but sigh.

The book "Zhenhun" said:

Some people are born with five lines of virtue, and every pore on their bodies penetrates aggressive and vicious. There is no fatal place, but none of them do not bite.

The non -virtue of people open the mouth is a nonsense lie, and the shot is a bad behavior for people. They are a large chimney with poisonous smoke. When they intersect, we will naturally be stretched and blackened.

Rather than wake up until you suffer, it is better to brighten your eyes and sieve them out of the circle early.

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Negative friends: pull you down

The famous psychological professor David Hawking had done an experiment on energy. After analyzing millions of data data, he concluded:

The magnetic field of a positive energy person can run in an orderly manner, which will make the people around them feel happy and comfortable;

The magnetic field of negative energy people is disorderly and disorderly, which is irritable.

If you stay with friends for a long time, you will also lose confidence in life.

Cartakki, a master of psychology, once talked about his friend Carrier's experience in the book.

On one occasion, Karier went out to install the newly developed machines of the company.

Unexpectedly, after the assembly of the machine, it can only be barely operated, far from the expected results.

Seeing this, friends with their peers sighed, complaining that the new machine technology was immature.

The other party returned to the hotel and fell to the door to kick the table.

Corrier, who has always been optimistic, also complained, unable to raise interest in work, and even wanted to resign.

In those days, he was unable to sleep and eat, and he also committed gastrointestinal disease and was admitted to the hospital.

But when he arrived at the hospital, he was lying on the bed alone, and no friend was beside him, and his mood quickly improved.

Karier found out that it was a friend's bad emotions that affected him.

Later, he took over the mission, and would rather choose to bring newcomers and not partner with friends.

Some scientific research shows that man is the only animal that can accept hints.

We will always be dyed in the subtlety of the emotions of the people around us.

With cheerful friends, positive and optimistic emotions are easily driven, and everything is willing to look at everything.

And those who have negative thinking are not pleasing to the eye, always complaining when they speak, and affected by them, we often become anxious and pessimistic.

Hiding those who consume you, more with those who nourish you, and make every day of the present day.

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Jia Pingwa wrote in "Game World":

Your circle is actually the world of your life, representing your aesthetics and levels of life.

If your friends around you have been consuming you, you must stop loss in time.

Really comfortable relationships allow you to grow up and appreciate together, rather than letting you grow into a face bullied by life.

Like a praise, delete these fake friends, and free up the position to gain the most sincere feelings.

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