The Henan female college student chat records on the entire network, I dare not watch the story behind it!

Two days ago, I brushed such a tearful video on the Internet.

A 22 -year -old female college student in Henan shared a set of chat records with parents during graduation:

My parents, I found a job, a little tired, but slowly.

I still have a holiday home for about ten days, and then go to see you.

My parents, I might not be married in the future. I am afraid that I can be aggrieved and there is no mother to return.

I thought that this was just ordinary daily sharing.

Until I saw such a sentence, everyone couldn't help but sour:

Mom, I dreamed of you and suddenly woke up.

Sorry, forget what you look like.

It turned out that the parents of the girl left the world in the past 9 years.

In 2013, the girl's mother died.

Nighty luck did not stop there. In 2017, the girl's father also left her forever because of accidents.

Only she was leaving her, and she bumped in a long time and walked for a long time.

No one accompanied when he was afraid, no one coaxed when he cried, and no one hurt when he was tired.

So, after her father died, she began to try to send a message to her parents and talk about her daily life, even if it was just trivial and bland daily life.

Although you know the news you send, there will never be a response.

But as always, she just hoped that her parents would go to the dream to see her.

Because she was afraid that she would pass the passage of time and slowly forget their appearance.

"Historical Records" said:

People are poor, so they are very tired, and they do n’t have to call the sky; the pain is miserable, and it ’s too much to call their parents.

This is the case. If you have grievances outside, if you have difficulties, you will unconsciously seek the blessing of his parents.

In front of our parents, we can be coquettish and weak, because parents are our eternal harbor.

When our parents were still there, we hated them endlessly, and they were too lazy to talk to them.

But when we lost them, we knew:

How precious can I sit down and talk about two sentences.

Thinking of Sabenin in a program, talking about a matter of regretting himself for life.

After his mother died, he opened his mother's WeChat.

After seeing himself and his mother's few chat records, he suddenly had a kind of sadness that could not be said.

Every day I have so many words to say with my friends, but facing his mother, he "lost his voice".

The biggest regret in life is "the child wants to raise it but does not wait."

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Some people say that the farthest distance in the world is that children and parents are getting away.

I have seen such a set of data online:

More than 52%of young people have blocked their parents. In contrast, 40%of parents will browse every circle of friends of their children.

In other words, of the 174 million young people in China, nearly 100 million young people have shielded their parents.

Once, our world was very small, so that parents were all of us.

Every time I go home from school, we will share their daily life enthusiastically.

They know what you love to eat, who knows who your best friend is, and knowing that you are grievances and rushed to their arms for the first time.

But when did we get farther and farther from our parents?

"It's cold, remember to add more clothes" is a nagging;

"Don't play your phone all day long, your eyes will be broken."

"How to use this? I don't know" is ignorance.

After a phone call, they eagerly asked you when you had time to go home.

Which time is the next time? What day is it?

They are no longer young and no longer versatile. In your eyes, they seem to become increasingly irrelevant.

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The actor Jin Chen had complained in the show, saying that his relationship with his father was like "the most familiar stranger."

Because her father always liked to call her and inquired about her work and life, it made her feel very troublesome.

Over time, she will deliberately not answer her father's phone, not back to her father's information, and she will block her father's circle of friends.

In desperation, her father had to inquire about her recent situation to her friends, but what was exchanged was the increasing disgust of her daughter.

The daughter's rustic, so that the father did not forget to find a supplement to the child while being sad:

I didn't give her a distance. She gave me a distance. Many times I didn't return to me.

But asked, she saw it, and I was comforting.

This may be the voice of many parents.

Yes, you grow up and mature.

There is a career, a living, a friend who can drink drunk, and some confidantes and lovers who can talk about it all night.

You no longer think of your parents, and even take the initiative to close the door that communicates with them.

But what you don't know is that in the day after day, parents are almost only you.

Many times, their hands can not reach, but their hearts have been on you.

Even if you are across the time, distance.

They choose to stay behind you silently in a clumsy, stubborn, or even way you hate.

Just look forward to one day, you can see them as soon as possible, support you, protect you.

I have read a word:

There is only one fate for loved ones. No matter how long I will get along with you in this life, you must cherish the time of gathering together.

In the next life, no matter whether we love or not, we will not meet again.

It is a pity that we often ignore the existence of relatives because we are accustomed to the existence of relatives. But no matter how much misses, they are not as good as they are, to accompany and care in time.

Remember the girl named Qianqian in the "Earth" column?

On the first day of the New Year, in this family's reunion, she always lost her mother:

I didn't think my mother was in the past, but when I couldn't get it anymore, it felt like in the dark night.

Suddenly was removed from the wrapped quilt, exposed to endless storm.

She would secretly listen to her mother's previous voice. In front of the supermarket shelves, she suddenly cried when she saw her mother's favorite hot and sour powder during her lifetime.

She also kept a note she left after her mother helped her clean up the house:

The flour for your cake has expired, and I took it away, and the food had a shelf life.

After you live alone, buy small packages, and everything must be returned to good categories, so as not to remember.

A lot of things are heavy, and it is a waste to use it.

Don’t think of my mother, the day is to live carefully ...

True heartache has never been destroyed and dense, but a dense regret.

It is hidden in the water cups they have used, the clothes they wear, and the novels in front of the bed.

Especially when the night is quiet, this regret will suddenly shot towards your heart.

Jia Ling was interviewed after "Hello, Li Huanying" burst into fire.

She always loves to laugh, but when she refers to her mother, she is full of regret:

My mother is gone, I will not be happy in my life, and my happiness will always lack a corner.

Sometimes you think your achievements want that person most, but she can't see it.

Fei Yuqing, who was closed for fame and fortune, chose to withdraw from the entertainment industry after successful names:

Over the years, in order to achieve a higher level, I have been walking forward quickly, but I also ignored the scenery of appreciation along the way.

When my parents died, I lost my life. Without their attention and sharing, the gorgeous stage made me feel more lonely.

I couldn't fill my lost applause. When I went to any place to perform, I touched the scene and hurt.

This belated debate overwhelmed him and hit the hearts of every child.

Today, we always think that the head of the Japanese side can make up for the lack of companionship in the future.

But I forgot that when I came to Japan, the enemy was impermanent.

Haruki Murakami said in the novel "1Q84":

The so -called life is nothing more than a process of constant loss.

Very precious things, one by one, like a comb, slipping from your hand.

The person you love, one person followed by one, disappeared from you.

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Therefore, while they are still alive, more companionships, more communication, and more concern.

Even if it's just a phone call, a few words of home, take a walk together after meals ...

Don't let your companion become regrets, don't let them wait too long, don't let us want to hug them, but can only stop in the wind.

Pay attention to the "reader", and I hope that all parents can be gently treated by years. May every child not leave regrets, calmly filial piety, accompany their parents, and slowly grow old.

Author: There is a book Joe, there is a book, so that reading is no longer alone. 20 million reading enthusiasts are paying attention to the public account. Source: You (ID: Youshucc).

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