On the first day of the child entering the garden, I admit that I was anxious!

Author:Smile Reading Time:2022.08.24

Today is the first day of the child to go to kindergarten. I did not expect that as a tiger mother's mother, I was a little anxious!

The child's teacher's home visited the day before yesterday.

Seeing that my mother was quite calm, and asked me, "The child is going to kindergarten, are you anxious?"

I responded with full confidence, "Don't worry, why should I be anxious?"

You have to eat when you are hungry. This is human instinct. Not eating well at home is because there is a reliance. After going to school, you have to start to learn independence without independence. Of course, these have a process, less than three or two months, as many as half a year. This is my previous idea.

At 7:30 in the morning, after I was busy with work, I was busy with my grandmother and prepared to go to school for the children.

Put on new clothes, new shoes, new socks, and carry new schoolbags. I am happy, ask her if she wants to go to kindergarten?

Every time I "think" loudly and without hesitation! That look forward to happiness is like going to the playground.

Yesterday, I accompanied her at home to read the kindergarten cognitive picture book, and took her to familiarize the environment and life of the kindergarten in advance. Seeing her interesting look, she thought that she should be acceptable to the kindergarten.

As a result, it turned out that I was still a bit optimistic.

As soon as I entered the door of the kindergarten, the principals and teachers all came out to greet them. A small welcome ceremony was arranged at the entrance. There were some fruits and vegetables in a few baskets, and there were drums next to them. , Pingping, smart, and getting better.

Seeing these, I was very excited and jumped happily. The principal rewarded her lollipop and took the lollipop. The child followed the principal to enter the classroom. I originally wanted to go in together. The long "mother please stop" stopped the door.

After all, the first day of entering the park, I don't know if the child can adapt to himself alone in a strange environment. So I didn't dare to leave, and stood outside the fence for a while.

Who knew that less than 5 minutes, I saw a little girl with two small braids and a white shirt blue dress and ran out of crying!

Take a closer look, isn't that my family? Intersection

After seeing me, Xun Xi hugged me desperately, crying in his mouth, "Don't be here", coaxing for a while, and accompanied by the teacher, he entered the classroom again.

The old mother was hiding by the window to observe, and saw that she entered from the front door, turned around, less than three minutes, and slipped out of the back door again! After seeing me, I didn't hold my mother this time. Instead, I rushed out of the door and rushed to the door!

That thrilling is nothing more than the fleeing of life!

At the young age, in the face of a group of enemies, the decisiveness, rapidness, and cunning of them are really unambiguous!

What makes me "admire" this old mother is that her reconnaissance ability is particularly strong.

Originally, she regarded her mother as a life -saving straw, but after running out for the first time, she found that her mother did not take her away. Instead, she sent her to the classroom with her teacher. A camp "!

When she ran away for the second time, even if she saw me, she quickly bypassed her mother, and she didn't call it. She ran out quickly, running faster and firm than the first time!

I have to say that children are really smart sometimes!

In the end, the teachers and I finally caught her back. The teacher hugged her, crying and crying. I really wanted to hold it and coax, but the principal was directly persuaded by the principal.

The garden has soothed me, don't worry too much. Children have a process of adaptation. Parents should not be soft -hearted at this time.

I naturally understand the truth. I ’m more cruel. Maybe I’ m crying for a while, but thinking in other places, for adults, it ’s really not a big deal, but in children, it is likely to be a big deal.

In the past, mother, grandma, and dad were accompanied by every day. Now they are suddenly thrown into a strange environment. There are a group of people who do not know about it. The fear can be imagined.

For children, the first day of entering the park is not only a day full of expectations and longing, but also the "most terrible and desperate day" in life.

After being persuaded by the principal, I still didn't worry about going home, thinking that I found a place to sit down next to the kindergarten, deal with some jobs, and then prevent children from emerging.

While looking for a place, I started to worry about it. I wonder if I was still crying?

I always felt that I didn't coax the child at the time, so I was "rushed" by the teachers a bit simple and rude. How sad this child should be! But the children have come here, what else can I do? You can only listen to the teacher's.

The position of the kindergarten is a bit biased. I walked outside for half an hour outside to find a place that could be settled --- a porridge shop. It was not bad to see the environment, and my stomach was a bit hungry. I was ready to eat something. Continue to work.

I ordered a bowl of small dishes and a bowl of porridge. The taste was a little dare not compliment. When I filled my stomach, I started to work.

Originally, I was ready to meet the online team, but the music in the store was a bit too noisy. It is estimated that everyone could not hear the meeting, so I discussed with my friends to move the time until the evening.

Open PAD and start recording the feelings of sending children to school today. After writing less than 1,000 words, I murmured again, "Oh, it's almost 11 o'clock, I don’t know if I have breakfast?" I sent a message to the teacher , I did n’t see the reply. Later, I dialed the voice call and did not answer the bus.

I want to come to it, I am also busy. On the first day, the teachers had to take care of so many children, and they might not have time to watch their mobile phones.

I decided to go to kindergarten to see again.

The porridge shop has only had a 5 -minute journey from the kindergarten in the past. After 500 meters, you can see it after passing the traffic lights. I saw that a group of children were playing games on the playground. It looks pretty harmonious.

And I was hiding behind the grass quietly, excitedly and anxiously looking for my baby, and looking at the goal from time to time.

That way, from the perspective of others, it is estimated to live like a personal trafficker!

A little far away, a large group of children are playing, and they can't see which one is.

Finally, I saw it! Seeing!

I saw a white shirt on the right side of the playground, and I saw a white shirt and a blue dress. The little girl with two small braids was playing with a tire -shaped toy in the shape of a tire!

What can be certain is that I didn't cry! But I can't see it if I laugh! Unhappy!

But if you don't cry, you can participate in the game with your teacher and friends! It feels like I can finally let go.

It turns out that this is separation of anxiety. Experience.

Many times, only when you are really in it can you experience it yourself.

Of course, it is not so serious, but for children and mothers, it is not only a psychological game, but also a test of parenting wisdom.

For children, maybe they feel more painful and anxious than adults.

However, after all, children have to grow up, independence, and go out of the family. My mother, who is responsible and obliged to bring her to a larger and more possible world.

How to help children relieve separation anxiety and adapt to kindergarten life as soon as possible?

As a mother at this stage, I naturally have no experience, but next I think, at least I should work hard to achieve the following 3 points:

1. Persist in picking up the previous week, unless the child proposes to take a school bus by himself.

Children can originally choose to take a school bus, or they can choose not to take a school bus.

When registering, it is a bit of a journey from home to school. In addition, I will not drive. The child's father did not have a little bit, so he decisively chose to take a school bus.

But in the first week, you still have to pick up and drop off by yourself. When you leave the school gate, you can see your mother. The child's heart must be happy and excited! And can also have some expectations for school.

There is a process of independence training. For young children, they still have to step by step.

2. Read the parent -child every night to guide the reading of kindergarten cognitive picture books.

When I bought school supplies for my children, I also bought a lot of kindergarten cognitive picture books. I hope to bring her familiar with the kindergarten life as soon as possible through parent -child reading.

I just got the picture book yesterday, and I read 3 books with my child. Although it also inspired the child's longing for kindergartens, and helping the child to build a preliminary awareness of the kindergarten life, but obviously, this is a slow penetration process. When you come down, you need to continue to be influenced and guided.

To deal with children's separation anxiety, adults need to consciously do something instead of letting children face it by themselves.

I hope that the time will be on, and I can enter the state as soon as possible and like kindergartens.

3. Communicate with children every day to guide children to share the learning and life of kindergartens.

The child stayed in kindergarten for a day, and there must be a lot of happiness or unhappy things that guided the child to share. Not only can the child feel that the mother is very concerned about her, it is also easy to understand the child's situation in time. Communicate with the teacher.

The baby around 3 years old basically has a good language expression ability. My family's current normal communication has almost no obstacles, and the ability to identify emotions is also very strong.

Keeping frequently communicate with children, letting children know that although they have attended kindergartens, their parents care about what they happened in school and care about their feelings. Give love and security.

Well, today's sharing is that, it's almost the child's point! The old mother had to leave ~