In 19 years, the Yao "good daughter -in -law" in the mountains stayed out of a well -off home

"Don't look at Xiao Wei from the country, but the local daughter -in -law can't eat it. She has eaten it. In these 19 years, she has worked and cooks her family. The solid well -off people are really not easy. "Yesterday morning, the villagers evaluated the" good daughter -in -law "in the Wei Dongmei family of Changtang Village, Changtang Street, Ganchun Street, Ganjiang District, Yangzhou City.

Knowing in the depths of the mountains, starting a unforgettable "rural love"

The 45 -year -old Wei Dongmei, his hometown is the local Yaomin in the mountains of Hechi City, Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region. In the spring of 2000, she met with her husband Shi Jiukang. Shi Jiu Kang was installed in a equipment installation engineering team at the Ganquan resident. Wei Dongmei went to the construction site to cook and laundry, and had the opportunity to get along with him alone. "He is tall, handsome, more talkative, and good at others.

When she told her mother about this relationship, she was opposed by the elderly. Because the mother listened to the people on the construction site, the young man was good, but the family conditions were too poor. Wei Dongmei thinks that Jiangsu is a developed region, where can no longer be worse? In August of that year, when she returned to Ganquan with her boyfriend, she discovered that the conditions of his family were really not general. "There are three tile houses in his family, there are no yards, no floor, and the room is full of muddy ground. It can slip under heavy rain. The bed where his dad sleeps is connected to the pot ... I look at it, and it will be half cold." Without a long time, she returned to Guangxi again.

Perhaps life is destined to be really fate. In 2003, Shi Jiukang actually found there again. This true feelings moved Wei Dongmei. Although her mother still opposed the marriage, Wei Dongmei was heartbroken to go home with him. At that time, they got married.

After taking care of the elderly for many years, she is a "good daughter -in -law" recognized by the villagers

The father's father usually lives in zero work. He is older, and gradually picks bricks to fight concrete and other physical strength. At the age of 57, the old man found a heart disease. After conservative treatment for a period of time, cancer was found in 2018.

"As soon as the biopsy results came out, the doctor said that it was late and could not be cured. I asked me to go home to prepare for the aftermath. My husband had eaten a lot of hardships in his life. He didn't enjoy it all day old. He just let him go and sorry for the elderly. I transferred him to another hospital, and finally persuaded the doctor to agree with chemotherapy. "Wei Dongmei said that it was really difficult during that time. For a week of chemotherapy, the elderly lost their hair and had a bad appetite. The husband works at the construction site outside. He is the pillar of the family. If he goes home, although the family is not rich, but the income that is still stable will be broken; but if you don't come back, the old man is paralyzed on the bed, and she is weak. She is weak. Woman, how to do it, what should I do? But Wei Dongmei gritted her teeth.

In the hospital, Wei Dongmei helped her husband to buy supplements and make delicious meals. The old man lay for a long time, and she raised the bed to help the old man turn over. When the old man's clothes were broken, she went to Ganquan Town to buy it. In the days when the elderly were sick and bed, she did everything to work. When the old man died, urinating incontinence. "I can't afford the caregiver, his son is not around, and I have to change the underwear for him. The patient thought I was the daughter of the old man." Wei Dongmei said.

On the morning of October 3, 2021, the old man died peacefully.

She works in private enterprises, covering a fashionable little Yanglou with her hands

While taking care of the old man, you have to live a good life. Many people in Zhuang have covered the two -storey building. Wei Dongmei told her husband: "We are not worse than others. Others can build new houses, and our family can." Why didn't you think so? However, he was just a electric welder at the construction site. With his a little salary, which year would he afford the two -story building?

Wei Dongmei is a technical secondary school degree. When she first came, she could not speak Yangzhou dialect, and worked in private enterprises in the town. She has worked in the instrument, worked as a computer, and also worked as a quality inspector in the workshop product. I was busy for several years before and after. In the second half of 2008, they accumulated a little money and borrowed a little money with the maid's family. With more than 40,000 yuan, they built the building. "Cover the building first, and the decoration can be slowed down," she said.

Today, the Wei Dongmei family has already carried out indoor and outdoor decoration, built a magnificent gate building, and made a ceiling. The flat -screen TV, air conditioning, and fashion furniture at home are all available. The broken tile house was pushed, and the Xinyanglou was not inferior to the local villagers' houses.

Wei Dongmei said, while wiping the frame containing the statue of the elderly, said comfortably: "Everyone is old. Sometimes, we need to do a generation to a generation. When we are old, if my son can have such filial piety, I definitely feel very happy. "

Correspondent Xu Haosheng Zhen Zhenqin Zhu Jie Yangzhou published a reporter Gao Bao Liang text/picture

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