If you marry a silly wife, please cherish

Author: Insight · Jinshan Moon

The beauty is not in the clothes, and the family is full of wife.

Luo Yonghao, who has been in debt of 600 million, staged "Really Biography", has publicly sprinkled dog food in an interview program:

"Everything I have now, a lot of reason is because I have a silly wife.

As long as I say what I want to do at home, no matter how ridiculous, she will always say, you must do this, you must do it.

It seems that every time I said, just what she thinks I should do. "

At the beginning, Luo Yonghao was poor, and there was no room or a car. Luo Yan married without saying a word. Later, Luo Yonghao did all the absurd things in his career, and Luo Yan also supported it with joy.

He gave up the high salary of New Oriental, resigned to the sea, and Luo Yan decisively transferred to accompany him; he went bankrupt three times and owed huge debts. Luo Yan didn't want to pay a guarantee.

Luo Yonghao lamented: "If it wasn't for this silly wife who said I would do, I wouldn't be able to stand up."

As the saying goes: people are not in clothes, and family beauty depends on his wife.

The wife is honest and upright, the luck of the husband, and the blessing of the family.

If you can marry a "silly wife" that care about everything, you must cherish it.

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"The Analects of Confucius · Learning" has a saying: Qiao Yan makes the color, freshness.

People who are accustomed to speaking, people who are always sharp, often extremely selfish and eventually harm others.

On the contrary, the stupid wife seems to be unprepared, but sincere and practical, and does not play with the means of mind.

Cao Dewang's wife Chen Fengying is a silly wife who can't speak, but is Cao Dewang's most reliable person.

She doesn't know a few words, and occasionally goes out to entertain with her husband. I always support what I say;

She can't speak Mandarin. When she is at home, she dare not answer the phone;

Whenever Cao Dewang asked her to have any plans, she always said, "I marry you, where are you going?"

When the husband was going through for more than ten years, when the husband was interested in others to divorce her, Chen Fengying only said, "I agree to divorce, but leave the house and the child to me."

Unexpectedly, this sentence poked directly into Cao Dewang's heart nest. He looked at the honest wife, remembered the hard work and grievances of her years, and could not help but feel guilty.

He regretted not only cutting off the evil fate, but also putting hundreds of millions of houses under his wife's name.

Chen Fengying's stupid mouth was clumsy, and she would not complain about sympathy everywhere, and she would not cry, but it was precisely this "stupid", which became her marriage.

Many years later, Cao Dewang and Luo Yonghao sincerely expressed their gratitude to his wife in the interview.

He said: "Wife is very generous, never argue with me, she sets up home, so that I can do my career at ease."

In life, the stupid wife is often ignored and misunderstood, but the grievances and loss have never changed their concerns about their family's bone marrow.

They can't tell any great truth, but they have never stopped the job in their hands, cooking rice, laundry, and taking care of their young children.

They rarely talk about it, but they know how to be a wife, and they must treat each other sincerely and intersect with their hearts.

For family harmony, they do not want to live as aggressive bullets, they only want to be kind with others and be kind.

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Lin Yutang wrote in "The Feast of Life":

"Women are water, men are mud, water seep into the mud, shapes the mud, and the water has been pinned."

In his opinion, husband and wife getting along are as simple as water and mud, and this consciousness is mostly from his wife Liao Cuifeng.

When the two met at first sight, they fell in love at first sight, but did not want Liao's mother to stop, and said to her daughter, "Lin Yutang is too poor, you marry him, are you stupid?"

Liao Cuifeng didn't think so much, just said: "What is the relationship between poor, marrying is not married."

Regardless of her family's opposition to marry, she sells dowry to support Lin Yutang to study abroad.

She gave up the life of Jinyi's jade food and was willing to live with her husband.

In the poorest, Liao Cuifeng was hungry and hungry, and he did not go to the hospital when he was sick. He had to carry it.

Lin Yutang was deeply moved by his wife. Not only did he vow "not separate for a lifetime" when he got married, but later he put his wife on his heart.

In his later years, they settled in Taipei, and Lin Yutang built a beautiful courtyard for his wife.

At the golden wedding celebration, he gave his wife a "golden jade" brooch, which was engraved with James Lee Lai's love poem.

They used the love myth of "a lifetime of a lifetime" in their lives and became an enviable puppet.

I really like the words of the writer Seven Years:

"In this world, if you really meet one of you, you will have one less. Don't lose a person who is good to you, don't live up to a sincere heart for you."

In the marriage, the wife does not make gains and losses, not so cheating, but she is willing to make a profit and willingness to be with you.

They are simple inside and identify a person. Whether you are poor or rich, you will never give up.

Such a "stupid wife" is difficult to carry, keep heart, can be with you, and can work with you more.

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When the crosstalk master Shengjie was a guest, when he was a guest, he talked about his wife and choked.

At that time, his road was very difficult, but no matter what decision was made, his wife was very supportive.

In 1982, his wife was about to be on the basin, and Shi Shengjie suddenly received a notice that he would perform in 13 cities in the southwest and southwest.

I thought his wife would be unhappy, and did not expect his wife to say nothing and prepare him for a long way to travel.

This walk is 3 months. When he goes home, it is a cold winter.

On this day, Shi Shengjie came out of the train and saw that his wife who had just produced a long time ago was holding a large cotton coat to wait for him in the snow. He hurried over and said angrily, "Are you stupid, such a cold day ..."

Unexpectedly, his wife didn't wait for him to finish, so he put on his clothes and pulled him home.

As soon as he arrived at home, Shi Shengjie looked at his daughter lying on the bed and burst into tears.

He lamented in the show: "This is all true, I can't forget it all my life."

Those who really care about you have already turned "I" into "us". Your choice is her choice. If you want to go, she will go down with you.

These "silly wives" are not without self, but have a understanding and respect for their families.

Andersen has told a fairy tale- "The Old Man will not be wrong".

In the past, there were old couples who wanted to go to the market to change something good with horses.

Before going out, the old man asked his wife: "What should I change?"

The wife said with a smile: "Old man, you know the best."

The old man went all the way all the way, first changed the cattle, changed the sheep with a cow, and then changed the goose with a sheep ...

Tour around and go around, the things that are changed are getting worthless, and finally change back a bag of rotten apples.

Someone jokes him: "Go home and be beaten by the old lady!"

But the old man proudly said, "My wife will say that the old man will never be wrong."

This person didn't believe it, betting with the old man with a gold coin, but after returning home with the old man, he heard the first sentence that the old lady said was:

"Thank you, my good husband, what you do will never be wrong."

At the end of the story, Andersen wrote: This happiness is far more valuable than gold currency.

Karl Rogers once said: "Love is a deep understanding and acceptance."

When people reach middle age, who is not carrying the burden of shoulders and is difficult.

We often deny ourselves in frustration, but as long as someone understands our hardships and stands side by side with us, we will never be defeated.

In the vast years, the vicissitudes of the sea.

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Someone asked: What exactly do you want to marry your wife?

Tu Lei replied in "Love Defense": "Wife is not used to have children, but to be old together."

The greatest luck in life is to meet a good wife who knows cold and hot.

She may not speak well, but can understand what you think; he may not know how to calculate, but is willing to accompany you for life.

The sea of ​​people is vast. When encountering such a wife, it is the greatest blessing of a man.

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