8 details, understand a person

In every detail of life, you are hidden in your good cultivation.

You can deceive some people at all times, or you can deceive everyone at some time, but you cannot deceive everyone at all times.

Seeing a person, you can know from the details.

01 clean clothes

There is a saying: "Cleaning is the Kui Li from the depths of the soul. It does not ask for silt without dyeing, but I have a clear conscience when I look back."

In the beginning, we can understand that a person can start with clothing, not looking at the brand and style, but whether it is clean and tidy.

Washing clothes, cutting your nails frequently, and clean appearance, hidden is love for life, cherish yourself, and respect for others.

02 timely reply

This society is changing rapidly. How can I judge whether a person is reliable? In fact, it is reliable to be able to reply in time.

There are responses, and people with this quality. People with this quality can make us feel solid and reliable and willing to deliver trust.

We receive the news from others every day. For the help of others, even if we cannot help, we can express their concern; for the blessings of others, even if we are busy with work, express gratitude.

If you can't reply at that time, set a reminder, and the reason is explained when responding again.

03 Do not take advantage of small cheap

Zeng Guofan proposed to the younger generation "Nine Nothing." One of them was: "Those who take advantage of cheap." Do not occupy a little cheaper at all, and do not give people wealth.

In this world, no one owes anyone. Friends, relatives, and family members are not resources that can be obtained and used freely.

I only know that it is obtained and not rewarded, and a relationship will not last long.

Don't take the giving of others for granted. Don't take up for it, don't take a penny. For a person, savvy can only benefit for a while, and can enjoy it for a while.

04 Do not spy on others' privacy

Everyone has their own dilemma and choice, and there is no helplessness and grievances that cannot be said to others.

What others are willing to talk to you will naturally speak; what others are unwilling, don't ask.

Don't be too curious in everything, learn to respect the privacy of others. Knowing how to shut up in time, do not reveal the embarrassment of others, and do not hurt others' faces. Such a person's bones bring a kind of kindness.

05 words and deeds

When Zeng Guofan was in charge of the military, a fellow came over to meet, saying that he was hardworking and could not look at the salary.

Zeng Guofan intentionally helped the fellow, but only a meal made him dispel the idea.

Asked the reason, Zeng Guofan said that the population said that he was hardworking, but threw away the bran skin mixed in the porridge.

Those who have different words and deeds should not be deeply intertwined. If a person always says a set, a set of sets, the surface of the sanctuary, and the stones behind the well, it will bring unexpected losses and disasters.

Being a person must be consistent, keep the promise, and say that even if you encounter 100 difficulties, you must think of the 101st method to solve it.

06 The bottom line and the principle of the bottom line

If you want to see the essence of a person, it depends on where his bottom line is.

Those who do not have the bottom line may do everything for their own selfishness, and make friends with such people one day, they will be harmed.

People with a bottom line will definitely adhere to their own principles, and they will never be ambiguous in front of the right and wrong. With such a person, you can always feel safe.

Being a man should be based on integrity and sincerity. Only by keeping the bottom line of life can we do something and have a good attention.

07 Being good at strangers

A person's attitude towards strangers often represents his real character. Because strangers have no interest in our interests.

The attitude towards stakeholders depends on IQ and emotional intelligence; attitudes to those who are not related to interests depends on quality and cultivation.

Don't rush to close the door when riding the elevator, wait for the person behind; slow down when driving through the puddle, don't let the mud splash on the pedestrian; Essence

A person can treat strangers well, and his heart is often kind and warm.

08 Management of emotions

The old saying: Being temper is instinct, and it is the ability to control the temper.

In this rapidly changing society, emotional stability, representing a person's heart stability, rigorous self -discipline, can bring peace and comfort.

Those who can manage their emotions are always worried, not to be afraid, and are particularly worthy of interaction, because they can inject positive energy into the surroundings and lead everyone to embrace growth.

If you control your emotions, your popularity will get better and better, and life will become smoother.

Source | Rufeng everyone, read ten o'clock; the picture comes from the Internet

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