Those who understand you can be worthy of your rest of your life

Everything is because of the combination of fate. From the time of origin, the fate is not the same.

From knowing each other to each other, people and people are both "fate".

No matter what you look like, there are always people who will like you inexplicably, and there will always be people who don't like you. This is a fate.

A person lives in this world, to live for those who understand you, and don't lose happiness from those who don't understand you.

Take a walk in your crowd, everything is followed, comfortable.

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Understand you, you don't have to explain; why not explain if you don't understand you.

Those who missed you are destined to be not all the way. Love is useless, be useless, hate useless!

If you have no chance, it is nonsense to talk to him anymore; if you have fate, your existence can wake up all his feelings.

Fate cannot be forced, and life cannot be. Understand you, don't explain; don't understand you, you don't need to explain.

There is such a fable story.

There was a loach in the past, and it poked out from the mud and wanted to swim in the water.

The carp played in the water and saw the little loach, one of which said:

"Your ugly guy, he stretched himself in the mud all day, and his body was dirty, and he lost our fish's face."

Little loach was about to answer, and another carp said:

"What kind of fish is it, live in the dark silt all day, eats mud, drinks mud, more like a bug!"

Little loach returned home in frustration and told her mother about the words of the little carp during the day.

Mom said lovingly:

"How can others be angry with you?

Those fish that laughs at you can only live in the water and cannot breathe in the mud, but you can live freely in the water and silt.

They don't understand your life, why do they need to be angry? "

Haruki Murakami said: "Not all fish will live in the same sea."

One life, life once.

Those who can know me is that I am worried; if I don't know me, I want me.

Why not care about others' comments and don't live in the eyes of others.

Do your best, everything, any relationship, and people who understand you do not need to say more, otherwise how much explanation is useless.

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Life is short, walking in the crowd.

The Buddhist scriptures have clouds: Everything is born, all of which are fate.

On the way of life, who you meet and see you again, it is already doomed.

It is not that you can change if you are obsessed, and there will be results if you entangle.

Fate, not pushing, no fate, not asking; come, cherish, go, let go.

The rest of my life is not long, walk in the crowd, everything will follow, let it go.

I still remember that in the "Hometown", Lu Xun and the precious friendship of Ji Tu were moved by many people.

They spent the best childhood together, and they thought that such friendship could be lifelong.

Twenty years later, Lu Xun returned to his homeland, looking forward to the goodness of his childhood when he was young.

But when he saw Lu Xun's first side and shouted "Master", this sentence made Lu Xun deeply understand that he and Li Tu could no longer return to the good.

The two growth trajectories of their growth have undergone tremendous changes over time.

I can't get into each other's life, parted ways, and I will never return to the original.

In any relationship, only if you are with someone who understands you can you go further.

Not only friendship, but also love.

Yang Yan and Qian Zhongshu are such a pair of lovers. They fell in love at first sight, understood each other, appreciated each other, and decades for decades.

Yang Yan once wrote a letter to Qian Zhong, with only one word "counseling".

Everyone thinks that Qian Zhongshu will have a long time to understand the meaning of it.

But Qian Zhongshu immediately wrote back a "you", which made Yang Yan moved to tears.

It turns out that "counseling" means that how many people are asking Qian Zhongshu?

Qian Zhongshu's "you" means that there is only Yang Yan in his heart.

Although there is only one word once, it is the most moving love letter.

Yang Yan is the person who knows Qian Zhongshu the most, and Qian Zhongshu is also the person who knows Yang Yan the most.

Their understanding is the warmth of porridge and a meal, which is relatively silent.

Those who understand you, understand the hardships behind your success, and clear the unyielding behind you.

Those who understand you may not be around, but they must be in their hearts and life.

Those who love you may not understand you, but those who understand you will definitely feel bad for you. Life is so short, walking in your crowd.

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Those who understand you are worthy of your rest.

Zhang Ailing said: Because of love, compassion; because of understanding, so tolerance.

In the world, in the vast sea of ​​people, when I meet someone who knows you, it is difficult to find a lifetime.

A couple have been married for 20 years, but they have never had contradictions. Some people asked how they made love keep fresh.

The wife answered that her husband picks up her get off work every night. When she got downstairs, she went upstairs to cook.

The husband listened to music in the car, or rest for a while.

When her meals were done, her husband came back just for dinner. After dinner, the husband took the initiative to go to the kitchen to wash the dishes.

After the two were busy, they would go downstairs and walk downstairs.

His wife always gives her husband some free space, allowing him to relax, rest, or calm his emotions.

This is probably the best tacit understanding in the world. You understand my hard work, and I understand that it is not easy.

The famous female writer San Mao once wrote in "Sahara's Story":

Holly had a long time to know Sanmao and asked her what kind of person wanted to marry.San Mao said: "As long as you look at it, whether it is a millionaire or a billionaire!"

Jose replied, "Isn't that just want to marry a rich person?"

Sanmao shakes his head: "There is also a special case, if it is you, as long as you eat enough money."

After the two laughed, a few words of ridiculous words, the other party led the mind, this is the tacit understanding of each other.

There will always be a key that matches it.The phrase "I understand you" is better than thousands of words.

Drink at the confidant, the poem chants the people, know the world, how many people can I know?

Ye understands the hard work of the tree, so he is willing to fall; Yun understands the tolerance of the sky, so he walks around because he understands each other, so he doesn't say anything and feels good.

The greatest happiness in life is to meet someone who understands you.

Life is very short, such as the white horse passed the gap, looking for a person who understands you for the rest of his life, with him, this life is complete.

Source: National Student Live (ID: gxsh789)

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