Why is emotional when breastfeeding during pregnancy is prone to problems?

Why is a woman easily disappointed with her husband during breastfeeding?

As a psychological counselor, I think the main reason is: the crushing of the husband and wife community.

Two people establish an intimate relationship and treat each other as their own "other half" to form a psychological concept of the community.

During pregnancy and lactation, her wife's physiological discomfort and psychological depression, she would feel that she was suffering alone, and the concept of the community was destroyed.

So it caused a phenomenon: as long as the husband does something that makes himself uncomfortable, his wife is often easy to get out of control.

Moreover, the conflict between mother -in -law and mother -in -law at this stage is easy to occur. The mother -in -law does not take care of it. The wife will easily remember hate. The reason is that after the psychological concept of the community is destroyed, the wife has a sense of isolation and feels that her husband and mother -in -law are a community and feel aggrieved.

Husbands often do not understand, and feel that their wives have changed their mood during pregnancy, and their awareness of his wife also becomes negative, and frequent quarrels or cold war.

Other people seem to be taking care of their wives and playing the role of "good husband", but looking for other women in the back, a large part of derailment happened during this period.

During pregnancy and breastfeeding, the contradictions are frequent, and the internal model that can best test the relationship between husband and wife.

How to judge whether a relationship will last long? In fact, it is not good to see when the two people are good, but to see the emotional stability of the two people cannot carry the wind and rain.

I have seen too much feelings. It is very sweet when I good, but I ca n’t stand it, I ca n’t resolve contradictions, I ca n’t carry pressure. Feelings crushed.

The factors that really make their feelings have a long -term communication mode, getting along, and interactive mode of two people. Can negotiate and understand conflicts and mature each other can truly make the marriage go in the long run.

To put it plainly, the internal system is unstable, and the marriage is simply attributed to the character, and the character does not carry this pot.

Good love and marriage, it is the last word to operate.

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