Less, less say, less thought, it is blessing

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Those who have the heart are tired;

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Author: red makeup

Source: 10 o'clock reading (ID: duhaoshu)

A philosopher said such a sentence:

"In this life, we can manage less, say less, and think less, it is blessing."

Take it seriously.

In life, Baiyun Cang dogs, many revenge, more mouthful, more disaster, and more troubles.

And those who are blessed in their lives often have these three characteristics.

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"Wake -ups" says: "No speculation Most Mo Duo Yan, it's not about to rest."

In control, it is not. In order to leave the other party, you can leave the other party and add color to yourself.

The most rare cultivation of a person is to have less nos.

Some time ago, my neighbor Zhang suddenly sent a circle of friends:

"Good intentions are not good, and laborious is not pleasing. In the future, I will never care about other people's nos!"

I asked her what happened.

She told me that she felt very aggrieved, and she was obviously good -hearted, but in the end, they didn't ask for both ends.

When I heard this, I understood a little instantly.

Sister Zhang is a famous "enthusiastic intestine" and "unable to stay" in the community. After retiring in the past few years, she always loves to control some foreign affairs.

Seeing the two husbands and wives quarreling, she would always go forward to persuade; when she heard that someone else won the award, she also came to inquire.

Like to mix and love to manage her, it is the evaluation of her in the community.

I just don't know, what happened to her?

"Some time ago, my second brother married his daughter and was ready to marry my niece. I thought that the nephew had not got married, so I suggested to leave the house with my second brother. After all, the girl married Outsiders ... as a result, my second brother was angry. "

"Later I learned that with this house with this house, it was my nephew's idea. He loved his sister since childhood ..."

"Now, my niece complains that I am a young woman, and my nephew thinks that I have more nosy things.

In the end, she smiled bitterly and said to me, "People in this life are not their own business, less manages!"

someone said:

In the final analysis, there are only three things that we encounter in life -God's things, others' affairs, and our own affairs. And the only thing we are eligible and rights to manage is our own business.

Yes, ox horns, cattle horns, each horn; black dog hair, white dog hair, each hairy.

As French writer Mark Li Wei wrote in his book "Stolen Shadow": "You can't interfere with other people's lives, even for the sake of each other."

It is a kind of happiness with people who do not interfere with others.

Learning to be a person who cares less personnel is a compulsory course for a person's life.

There is a joke on the Internet:

A little boy was sitting in a bench in the park to eat chocolate. A man was sitting opposite him.

When the man watched the little boy eat 6 pieces of chocolate in one breath, he said to the little boy: "Eating more chocolate is not good for his body."

The little boy replied: "My grandpa is 105 years old."

"Does he eat a lot of chocolate?" The man asked.

"No," the little boy said, "He never cares about it."

A blessing person has never been in trouble.

The world is changing, life is like a dream, instead of doing bad things in kindness and hard work, it is better to "hung high" and have less idleness.

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Mr. Lin Yutang said: "To speak coincidentally, to say less; more words must be lost, and more words must be defeated."

Take it seriously.

In this life, he has learned to speak for two years, and he learns to shut up his life.

Out of your own mouth is a lifetime practice.

Some time ago, the actor Zhang Meng apologized again. It turned out that she "said something wrong again."

Perhaps it was because of the chasing the drama too much. However, due to improper speech, Lin Yue, the actor of Lin Yue.

As a result, she had the sixth apology since this year. not

Some netizens have summarized Zhang Meng's day- "speak, speak, speak, apologize".

I appreciate this attitude of saying wrong, but I really doubt that all the harm caused by saying wrong can be flattened in an apology?

After all, "Words hurt people, better than swords and guns; knife injury is easy to heal, and tongue injury is difficult to heal."

Just like the nail that created scars, even if it was removed, it had left scars on the hearts of others.

Therefore, instead of apologizing after talking wrong, it is better to talk less from the beginning.

Just like Zhang Meng warned himself: "Be careful."

Like Zhang Meng, he was scolded because of many words, and Yi Nengjing.

In the variety show "Mother -in -law and Mom", Qin Hao's mother once evaluated Yi Nengjing:

"Actually, you are kind, and you have to be strong. But you have the most fatal weakness, that is too much words."

In a word.

"The Tao Te Ching" has a saying: "There are many words and poor words, it is better to keep in the middle."

It is true. The illness came in from the mouth, and the misfortune came out of the mouth.

Don't let your mouth block your blessing.

There is such a story in the Jewish wisdom fable:

A priest instructed his servant: "Go buy the most expensive things in the market."

The priest thought that the servants would buy some foods such as chickens, ducks, fish, and other foods, but in the end, the servants bought their tongue. After two days, the pastor instructed the servant: "Go buy the cheapest things in the market."

The priest thought that the servant would buy some rough food, but the servant still bought his tongue.

The priest puzzled, asked: "I told you to buy the most expensive thing in the past two days, but you bought your tongue back. Today I want you to buy the cheapest thing, and you buy it back again. ? "

The servant replied: "What kind of tongue is, good is noble, and bad is extremely low."

When I was a kid, I watched "A Dream of Red Mansions" and felt that Xue Baozhen's personality was really hypocritical. But when I stepped into the society, I stumbled all the way, and after walking through thousands of mountains and rivers, I found that this is clearly wisdom!

As Zeng Guofan wrote in a letter from his brother Zeng Guoquan: "There are many words."

Yes, the good words are warm in three winter, and the evil words hurt people in June cold.

Instead of recruiting disasters, it is better to say less.

To say less, it is the root of blessing.

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There is such a proverb:

The disease is eaten, health is coming out, the disaster is spoken, and the troubles are came up with.

Some time ago, my friend came to talk to me: "Recently, everything is not smooth, so annoying ..."

I asked her what happened.

She told me, "I think my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore, he doesn't accompany me now ..."

However, as far as I know, her boyfriend has recently hopped for a house to save money. Recently, she has jumped to an accounting firm and has been too busy to see the figure all day.

Looking at her look full of sorrow, I joked and said to her half -jokingly:

You, you just think too much! Your boyfriend is obviously working hard for your future, but you are looking for troubles in this brain.

Yes, there is nothing in the world, and the mediocre people are disturbed.

Someone once wrote a letter to Mr. Yang Yan and confused why he had no intention.

Mr. Yang Yan said in the reply: Your problem is mainly to read too much, but think too much.

Some people say: Those who are interested are tired; those who have no intention do not matter.

Think of less, it is a top -level life attitude.

And think about it, it will only restrain your happiness.

In the book "The Wish of Hedgehog", a famous Dutch writer Dun Delgen, there is a hedgehog who likes to think about it.

This hedgehog has no good friends because of the thorn on his body.

One day, it suddenly thought: "It is better to invite animals to visit my house." So it immediately wrote a letter, but after the letter was written, it started to restless:

If the elephant comes, you will step on the bad table;

If you are here, you will not find the topic;

If the whale comes, the sprayed water will flood the forest;

Hedgehogs thought, thought, thought, after a while, more than 30 kinds of animals visited during the visit, staged in its mind. not

At this time, the squirrel rang the door of the hedgehog's house -then, they spent a beautiful afternoon together.

Made said:

"Many people have used their powerful imagination on their own. Things that can't be hit by eight poles can be arranged on themselves. There is no wind and crane over there, and there are already Chu songs here."

Indeed, thinking too much is torture yourself.

After all, "Many times, I tossed myself, entangled myself and annoyed myself, and then I couldn't get rid of myself."

So, if you think less, it is the greatest blessing of a person.

There are three treasures in a happy life: less managing, less saying, less thought.

In life, Baiyun Cang dog, in a blink of an eye, is a lifetime.

Rather than holding a lot of surplus life, it is better to go to a happy life.

In the second half of life, less managing, less speaking, and thinking less.

That's fine.

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