Seven words ｜ "30 years old to go to TM, I am looking forward to a climax in life!"

The second half of my life has just begun.

Are you afraid of getting older?

Many people have age anxiety. In fact, this is brought about by the entire social environment, because no matter what we do, we will be labeled on the age.

What's more terrible is that this age anxiety is permeated in all places where life.

In the TV series: "Pink is delicate, how old are you now";

Parents' reminder: "How old are you, not getting married";

The ridicule of others: "What do you talk about your dreams and not dream, don't toss" ......

Picture source: "Zhen Huan Biography"

What to do every age seems to form a conventional framework. If you get out of this framework, there will be countless people around you jump out to blame you.

From this point of view, in fact, we are afraid that we are not old -fashioned, but the various dishwarts brought by the old.

But everyone will grow old, and no one can define how your life should live.

If you are really afraid of getting older, let's take a look at how the readers and friends of Xiaoshi spend 30+ lives.

Photo source: "Frequent Girls"

Reader@读 JOE

By August, I was 38 years old.

Looking back, I found that the decade of 10 to 40 has passed fast.

I am not afraid of getting older, older and worrying, my child grows up, and I never have to worry about him.

The most important thing is that I can also pursue my dream when I was young.

I just came back from the Tibetan border. I stayed there for 10 months. I saw the most beautiful scenery of Tibet, blowing through the coldest wind in Tibet, and over the highest Dazaka, and was also known as the cutest person.

In the beautiful Karakun, my teenagers are round at middle age at the age of 40.

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Readers@读 Occasionally funny

It seems to be 31 years old.

I don't know when I start, I no longer remember my age.

In 2020, I returned to work after being a full -time mother for more than a year. I just joined the job for a month.

In the next two months, there is a rotten axis that has no days to adapt to work and care for surgical chemotherapy and a baby who is more than 1 year old ...

Every day, the body is running overloaded, and finally I am tired of fainting in the office.

After that difficult time survived, everything was finally getting better.

Dad regularly reviewed that my son grew up healthy day by day, and I changed a relaxed job.

After so much, I still think that the world is beautiful. I want to take my son to see the world. I spend more time with my parents in my free time.

I have never seen the future scenery. I look forward to it, why fear!

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Reader@读 读 的's aunt

38 years old, not afraid to grow old.

According to secular, my life is always a little too late. At the age of 29, I started to fall in love; 33 years old, the second love; now 38 years old, I am still single unmarried.

But even if it is a person, life can be rich and fulfilling.

I went to Beijing to see the school I longed for, went to Sanya to see the sea, went to Chiang Mai to be an animal protection volunteer, participated in the voluntary blood donation, and took 20 years.

During the epidemic, I was not idle. I obtained the training certificate and participated in the nucleic acid sampling work in the community.

I only learned to ride a bicycle at the age of 37. Before the age of 40, I planned to take a driver's license and learn to swim.

I want to tell you that the 38 -year -old world is beautiful and has expectations everywhere.

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Reader@liang@

32, fear and not afraid.

What is scared is that parents will slowly grow old, not afraid of one year old and one year old.

Many years ago, I had hyperthyroidism and had been fighting against the disease, because I couldn't see the hope of recovery, and I often cried.

But now it doesn't matter, eating well, just listen to the doctor's words.

This photo was many years ago. After the control of the drug, the whole person was fat and rolled.

Picture source: reader@liang 读

Reader@chocolate Doudou

At the age of 21, I am not afraid of getting old.

Although I haven't reached the age of anxiety, I reminded me around at all times: "I'm old."

For some reasons, I only took the college entrance examination this year, and my peers have graduated from college.

Sometimes I feel anxious, but I think about it, not everyone in this world is the same.

Although it is a little slower than his peers, the experiences that lag behind them are not what they do. The scenery I saw at that time was different from them.

For me, it is a new starting point now, and I am slowly approaching where I want to go.

As long as it is the right direction, everything is not too late.

Picture source: Reader@chocolate Doudou

Reader @Muyu

32 years old and have been married for 6 years.

Perhaps because I didn't have a child, I still felt that I didn't grow up (laughs), and the age of 30+ was the most beautiful time of a woman.

At the age of 18, I dragged two large suitcases to Japan, and it was 14 years.

Because I had to learn language, I went to college at the age of 20 and graduated from a 26 -year -old master's degree.

In his 20s, in addition to facing heavy academic pressure, you have to go back and forth to make several jobs to earn living expenses.

At that time, I was fearless. I firmly believe that these are temporary, and I will get better and better in the future.

Facts have proved that those who have eaten have not been in vain.

Now I do my favorite work and work with my husband to have a house and car.

Those who know me say that I am more and more beautiful. Compared to their twenties, I think I now have a clear goal and life planning, and I am more fascinated. I also prefer myself.

Picture source: reader @Muyu

Reader@安@

I am 33 years old, but I still feel that I only have 20+.

I have experienced a failed marriage. Under the opposition of the people around me, I insisted on divorcing nets to go home. From those years from the age of 20 to 28, I feel like I have experienced a lifetime.

But when I bravely took that step, I discovered the unprecedented scenery in my life.

I learned yoga from zero, until I was admitted to the teaching certificate, and I ate a lot of bitterness in the middle. One of the inverted movements. I dared to do it for two months.

But after overcoming the inner fear, it is enjoyment.

I enjoy the feeling of sports, just like this inverted action. Although I am in the inverted, sometimes I feel that I am running, flying, and swimming the world.

I love myself very much. I don't need to be wronged, and I don't have to feel humble, because I am so precious and unique.

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Reader@李@

37 years old.

My body is not very good. After my age, I came to the door with various diseases. Therefore, I was afraid that my body was getting older and my life was slowly fading.

I decided to change slowly, try to exercise, tried to run without ideal, and started to skip the rope again.

I tried to record three little things that make myself happy every day, and gradually experienced the "butterfly effect" caused by it. The small fan of the wings made me more and more optimistic about life.

One day, I participated in a small event. When I finished my makeup, put on a dress, and saw myself in the mirror, I love myself at that moment!

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Reader@读 读 读

30, why are you afraid of getting older? I can't get old quickly.

Passing through the park every day, you can hear the sound of the old man who dumped the gyro;

The scene of get off work is richer. The aunts on the small square shake happily with brainwashing music;

The "Sunset Red Band" puts a projector on the open space of the street, and then casts the MV of the song on the wall, and becomes KTV in seconds. They sang with a microphone, as if the entire street is their stage;

After returning home, I saw the grandfather downstairs, sitting on a rocking chair in the tree cool, shaking the fan with a fan, and a radio next to the news.

This is the life I dream of. I retire early and it is worth the world.

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Reader@读 20, I am not afraid of getting old.

At seventh or eighty, I was going to be a happy old girl with a pink flower with a pink flower.

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"We always pay attention to things that increase with age, such as physical, flexibility, memory, and not paying attention to things that increase with age, such as freedom, creativity, and wisdom."

Of course, it does not deny that the age growth does bring some irreversible damage, but at the same time, it also brings the beauty that you can't enjoy when you are young.

Picture source: "Clevelland"

Just like Zhang Qiang, who had written not long ago, at the age of 55, she still likes brilliant cards, "Buling Buling" sequins, and the explosive head of Yang Yang. She still lives in the music world she loves; she still lives in the world of music.

Picture source: "Sister who breaks the wind and waves"

There is also Ye Qianwen. On his 60th birthday, she posted a photo that was not modified. In the photo, her wrinkles were clearly visible, but she said:

"I just want to be a real self, I hope you can accept me, white hair and cute wrinkles."

Picture source: Weibo@s 博 Sallyyeh

Friends, age is just a number. When you really love life, when you really fall in love with yourself, this number is really not worth mentioning.

No matter what age you have to do, you should not do it, only you want to do it.

In the end, I want to use Jolin Tsai at the age of 40, a super cool words said at the concert as the end:

"40 years old is a great age. If you are not 40 years old, I will tell you that the 40 -year -old is really Feel Damn Good!"

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Topics for the next period:

Father's Day is coming soon.

I think of a touching story on the Internet:

"The father in the impression is always silent, but I know that his love for me is hiding in his heart, not less than his mother.

The deepest memory is that he sent me to college and helped me carry heavy luggage. His hands were made of red marks, and his tops were soaked by sweat. During the difference, he suddenly became more words. Tell me to take good care of myself.

Later, I heard my mother say that on the way back, he cried all the way. "

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Father's love is silent and everywhere. Whenever you need him, he is like a omnipotent superman to appear, covering the wind and rain for you.

When you turn around, you will find that he hides the deepest love in your eyes.

If you want to ask everyone in this issue, at what moment, do you feel that Dad really loves you?

Click the applet below to talk about your father in your eyes and your father's love, and with the photos related to it. At this moment, let's say the words hidden in the bottom of your heart.

17 / jun / 2022

Produced: Visual Visual

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