Reading | What others chase may not be suitable for you

Author:Banyue talk about new media Time:2022.08.15

When you get up early every day, you usually go to the morning market to buy vegetables and fruits. In the morning market, you need to pass through a very narrow hutong. Too many people buy food, come and go in and out. Looking at the crowded people's head and countless heels, I was panicked: This road is too difficult to go!

Is there no other way to go? I think. The work buildings around the residential communities and units around the market were looking for. I saw that except for this north exit, there were also alley -style imports and exports on both sides of the east and south, but there were still many people in and out, and they were also crowded.

I tirelessly wandered around, and finally found a narrow alley that could enter and exit the market between the buildings. This narrow alley that no one noticed, quiet and relaxed, can walk around calmly, very comfortable.

It's strange that although this narrow alley is a bit biased, it is not difficult to find. Why is no one left? Looking at the crowded crowd in the hutong, I thought of it and couldn't understand it.

Suddenly I realized that this was just an inertia. Everyone was squeezed in the hutong, followed, and no one thought about why. Don't think about -since everyone is doing, it must make sense, "existence is reasonable".

For example, in the market, if some people are competing for the persimmons of a booth, then the people next to them will go up and buy them. As for the cheap or quality of persimmons, almost no one explores.

This reminds me of one thing I experienced when working at the grassroots level. It was a literary creation conference, a author from the town, and the prose was well written, and there was some reputation in the local area.

After he was cooked, he quietly told me that after the pen will be dispersed, when he returns to the town, he will be promoted to the deputy mayor. I asked him how he knew it? sure? He said that their town lacks a deputy mayor, and it should be him on qualifications and abilities.

What I said to him is suspicious -prose well, so I promoted the deputy mayor? Administrative work and literary creation are not the same thing. Besides, it is impossible to tell him even if it is promoted.

Shortly after that pen, I heard that he was sick, and he was very sick, and died after half a year. After inquiring, it was directly related to that time he had not been promoted to the deputy mayor.

I asked them a few familiar friends in the town, should it be promoted and not improved? But friends said that he had never heard of what he wanted to improve, and he thought so much.

The friend walked into a misunderstanding, thinking that the promotion of position is the only way out in life. In his opinion, people who do administrative work are to boil their positions, the size, level of ability, level of level, and interpersonal relationships ... all of them are measured.

If you have reached a certain age, you still have not been respected by others. Many people walk on this road and walk very crowded, but it is difficult to stop thinking about other ways. When others walked over, and when he walked over, he became desperate.

Therefore, if you want to be the extreme, you will often fall into a certain deadlock. In a hutong, people are crowded next to others. They can pass by. They do n’t have to get into trouble without walking.

If the friend walked enthusiastically on the way to write prose, maybe one day will become a popular author, and he will also be respected.

The world is so big, the content of life is so wide, there are actually many ways to choose from. What others chase may not be suitable for you, but no one asks for the way, maybe it is just for you.