"Of course you deserve unconditionally being favored"

I saw such a cute picture on the Internet two days.

It was taken by netizens @hakit. In the lively vegetable market, a mother -in -law who sells vegetables is seriously arranging millet pepper.

It can be seen that the other vegetables next to them are also neatly placed.

Attentive netizens also found that even the colors of ginger are gradually placed, and the shape of each piece is like coral.

Many people pass by the mother -in -law's booth, but few people buy it, but she always bowed her head and busy.

I think people who treat vegetables so seriously must also treat every day of life seriously.

Seeing these tidy and orderly vegetables, I believe that my mother -in -law must also be very orderly people.

It is difficult to find your own sense of order and maintain it in a lot of uncertain life.

Perhaps others are not able to understand, but they can be happy and find irreplaceable significance.

Today, I have collected some stories about the unique order of ordinary people's lives.

Behind the sense of order that looks difficult to be understood, there is a significance of hiding a person's self -consistent life.

When a big family video called, the cats walking on the table as usual accidentally entered the mirror, and the family exclaimed:

"Why do cats run on the table, it's too unhygienic."

If they know that I have to sleep with a cat every day, and the way to get up in the morning is to be woken up by a pair of soft and powerful paws and regularly and quantitatively feed these creatures that are always hairy. The style of painting will definitely become a serious "ideological education class".

But my response to them is accustomed to it, and I can understand why they have such an attitude.

From an early age in the countryside, everyone's concept of raising kittens and puppies is to provide them with a bite. When raising them, they can help catch mice and housekeeping.

Mutual benefit of each other, not too deep emotional value.

And this emotional value is particularly needed in the city.

I can't imagine that every day when I go home from get off work to open the door, I can't see a furry figure squatting there and looking at me.

It is also impossible to imagine that meow with different meanings disappears from the ears, and the room can hear his breathing quietly.

It is even more unimaginable that there are no more push in my life. I have a smart reminder.

These things to be troublesome and affordable in my family are important ways to build my life meaning and order after I live independently.

What is the relationship between cat hair that keeps falling every day?

They are a lot of loneliness at night to warm me in my arms.

When he graduated from the third year of high school, the old house near the field was demolished, and the family moved to the town closer to the market.

Everyone thought that grandma could pull out from the fields that she had been busy with her life and started to enjoy life without so tired.

Unexpectedly, even if it is no longer so convenient to work in the field, it is necessary to walk for more than half an hour. Grandma is still very diligent.

Every time she goes home, she is either busy handling crops or work in the field. She rarely sees that she doesn't do anything just sitting.

According to the season, sowing, maintenance, harvesting, and making into various foods are stored and waited for the children to come back to load the car. Grandma is so busy in four seasons.

The family did not understand why grandma had to rush in the field at an age.

In the New Year last year, my aunt suggested that she would plan the ground at home. The grandmother did not say a word on the table, and got up to put rice and oil after eating.

After a long time, the food, oil, pickles, and fruits and vegetables needed for each house were packed.

When I got on the car, my grandma said with a stunned bag and said, "No place, where can I get you this?"

At that moment, I understood why she couldn't let go of the field and was willing to work hard.

Because after the age of people, it is actually easy to fall into the frustration of "I feel that I can't do anything".

Following the work at any time, seeing your hard work in exchange for a good harvest and can be given to the children, it is the way grandma feels the way to be satisfied with the need and value.

"In what season, what should be sown and what to harvest" is an important sense of order in the life of grandma.

"As long as I can prepare these food for you, then I still need to be needed."

I think this sentence should be a subtext that Grandma did not say that day.

Written at the end.

Douban has a topic called#to maintain a small habit of living or psychological order#. In this topic, you can see many different experiences summarized experience and methods.

If you also try to build your own sense of order in a disorderly life, you may wish to see those specific suggestions that can be referred to.

I believe you will definitely gain something.

In my opinion, the process of building a sense of life order is actually to find the process of "what" and "what are needed".

Whether you are lined up with peppers or combing the kitten, or regular fertilization and weeding,

As long as we find the meaning of self -consistent, then life must always live.

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