This summer, parents may need a summer camp more than their children

Parent -child relationship, like an open problem

Parents are always looking for better solutions

Breeding, raising, and education are the "three big mountains" in front of most contemporary parents. Among them, the highest mountain is education.

Of course, with the development of the economic level and the changes in fertility policies, parents' parenting methods are trying to innovate. The "Tiger Mom Cat Dad", which was prevailing in the post -80s parents, became the old set of the post -90s parents. APP parenting and so on.

However, parents born in different ages still have common parenting anxiety. When parents thought they had an effective methodology, they found that the children seemed to understand more about Cartesian -when they encountered something they didn't know, they doubted everything.

Rebellion is a must -have stage for children to grow. In the past, "empiricalism" and "scientific parenting" seemed to have come to death, and the educational concept was repeatedly switched between "bitterness and deepness" and "relaxed and freedom".

"Double reduction" has been on the ground for more than a year. Education is no longer the single wooden bridge, and parents have more time to accompany their children. How to accompany it for a long time will not make "mother -in -law filial piety" into a "chicken flying dog jump", which has become a new problem. In the first summer vacation after "double reduction", parents began to make up for parent -child relationships.

The little dragon family in the summer camp

When parent -child relationship meets the summer camp

Every summer vacation, parents will always be popular on the Internet. The moment the collapse of the love of the joy often triggers parents to resonate. In a survey report of Peking University, half of the parents show anxiety due to educational issues. Among them, 40 % of parents will even have symptoms such as insomnia, chest tightness, and headache.

In the past year, anxiety has not been significantly reduced as the parent -child time increases, and parents are trying to find more channels to share and explore parent -child relationships. For example, in the book of Xiaohong, there have been more than 5.7 million notes about "parent -child". In the past two years, it has only been loved by young people's favorite camping, beauty and other categories of notes.

In traditional Chinese -style families, the absolute authority of parents and the rebellion and repeated games in the growth of their children, parent -child relationships often go through a period of pain. Although under the same roof, many times, parents do not understand the children's minds. Those most authentic ideas are often hidden in the diary with locks, as well as pinyin abbreviations such as DDDD and KSWL.

Facing the relationship between parents and children, the parent -child summer camp of a company accidentally brought about the problem.

Since 2018, Hangzhou's little girl Xinyan has participated in the same summer camp for five consecutive years. The name of the summer camp is very interesting- "Little Dragon Man Program". According to Xinyan's mother, at the beginning, she did not dare to appear on the stage in the kindergarten class. The mother planned a show for Xinyan and accompanied her to the stage, like a passerby holding a torch, holding her little hand to remind her to avoid her feet under her feet. The pit.

Xinyan on the stage is generous

Unexpectedly, Xinyan, a "little dragon man", did it for 5 years as soon as he did it. What makes her mother happy is that when Xin Yan participated in the "Little Dragon Man Plan", she no longer needed her mother to design her activities. In Xinyan's mother's view, Xinyan is now the director and will bring a lot of ideas to discuss with her "military division" or seek support.

Behind this is the growth of children's own growth and the re -positioning of parent -child relationships. After witnessing growth and transformation, "our relationship is not just mother and daughter now, we are still good girlfriends and good sisters."

In a more gentle way, it has developed an equal relationship with the children, and the mother of Xinyan and many little dragon people are verified as it can be realized.

"So she loves me so much"

Different from the summer camp organized by educational institutions and training institutions, the parent -child activity IP created by enterprises generally has public welfare attributes. Although there are some restrictions on participating groups, they will not charge fees, and they will also emphasize the concept of parent -child relationships. Longhu is the earliest enterprise to launch parent -child summer camps in the industry. Its "Little Dragon Man Program" has also been launched to the fifth session.

Xiaolong people lift their own works confidently

Relevant person in charge of Longhu said that Longhu hopes that children can inspire creativity in the process of learning and playing. In addition, they can also enhance family emotional exchanges through some parent -child interaction experience.

Ye Ye, who was engaged in media work, was deeply touched by this. In the past, the busy work made him miss the night after school after school, and education was basically packed by his mother.

What impressed Ye Ye was that in a small dragon offline event, facing the production of bamboo edits, the daughter was not compiled, so he supported a bamboo stick with his hands and helped his daughter solve the "troublesome". Essence Soon, a light bamboo basket was born.

Dad Ye did not expect that a small hand -raised work could make her daughter shout, "Dad, you are too good!"

Xiaolong people and parents experience the golden stone seal carving together

Effective interaction is undoubtedly a way to promote emotional expression, and with some specific forms, it may allow the two parties to open the depths of the emotion.

The children from Changsha from Changsha wrote a letter in the tone of the parent's interchange. In the letter, "Do you usually hate someone watching you during writing, but this is for you for you "Okay", it is what the children think in their hearts, and it also makes many parents feel that "after 10 people understand everything." What really surprised Hongye's mother was the emotional release of Hongye. The strong and independent Hongye in life, after reading the letter at the event, choked for a minute, and finally ran straight to her mother's arms and cried.

The little dragons of the Changsha Starry Sky Concert

Behind Xiaolong's family bravely expressing love is when the staff designed the entire activity plan, more "thoughts": "In the first year, what we think is to give back to the owner and make the family happy to play happily . After five years of continuous improvement and optimization, we also hope that the entire event will participate. Parents and children can go closer and spend a summer that will be remembered together. "

The good recipe for solving the problem allowed more and more parents to drive the parents around them to actively participate. According to a set of data provided by Longhu, a total of more than 500,000 people participated in the event in the five years planned by the Xiaolong people.

How many steps do you need to do a parent -child summer camp?

In the summer camp, all kinds of activities broke the inertia of daily life, just like a small stone in the middle of the road, which changed the direction of the wheel scroll.

Because of participating in the parent -child summer camp, Xinyan's singing talent was discovered by her mother, and she also boarded the children's Spring Festival Gala of Hangzhou TV station that year; she harvested the confident Xinyan and became more brave. Get more diverse.

Yucheng from Fuzhou was a slow -heating child, but in the event, he gradually adapted to expressing himself in front of outsiders, and he was more willing to participate in other games such as chess and poetry.

Yucheng participated in the event in the Xiaolong people plan

In the face of the current parent -child problem, the parent -child summer camp may be an effective way. In the entertainment in the music, let the members of the family grow and perceive.

Of course, it is not easy to do a parent -child summer camp.

First, it is the excavation of children's interests and creativity. Don't underestimate the doorway. A simple example. Children who grew up in Hangzhou may lose their curiosity because of the West Lake's light car. Therefore, the selection of destinations must satisfy the children's search for new things.

According to reports, Longhu has been committed to finding the intersection between research and fun. In the past four years, Xiaolong people and parents across the country have gone to the brilliant Forbidden City, and have also come to the Yantian Taipei China Sea Park on the Sunshine Beach. Zijin Mountain Observatory, Anji Lingfeng near Hangzhou, Qinghui Garden, one of the four gardens in the south of Shunde, follows the above rules.

Xiaolong people on the Zijin Mountain Observatory in Nanjing

Second, the design of parent -child interaction. During the event, the Xiaolong people planned to integrate more parent -child activities, set up a tent and barbecue together, let parents and children read a personal letter, and so on. The experience together is undoubtedly more advanced emotions than together.

The third is the inheritance of love. "In this year, it is very gratifying that we see that many families are brothers and sisters, and they take their brothers and sisters to participate in the competition."

Touring back to 6 years was the year when the second child policy landed. A Qingdao father said, "This year, my sister was just 6 years old. She had been anxious to see her brother's plan to participate in several sessions before, so she was very happy when she and her brother participated in the offline race this year."

"We see a lot of" old -aged "brothers and sisters who will refuel and guide their younger brothers and sisters outside the scene. This feeling of inheritance is what we want to see, and it can be understood as a kind of activity for us activities Recognition. "

Of course, for enterprises, the parent -child summer camp activities are always not a necessity, and it is more for corporate genes and feelings.

"Regardless of how the external environment changes, Longhu always insists on letting the Xiaolong people plan to arrive at each summer vacation. We also think this matter is more social. "

When parent -child relationships are valued by more families, various forms of parent -child activities may gradually become a necessity. For Longhu, "we hope to bring more interesting to the Xiaolong people and Longmin families in the future. ,Meaningful activities."

Author: Little Deer

Edit: Ma Min

Operation editor: Wang Lin

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