[Family style and family training] Family style passed on to Qin Guanhua

Author:Fang Zhi Sichuan Time:2022.08.14

Family style

Qin Guanhua

Write in front: My grandpa and grandfather are honest and honest, and they know what they are. Their rumors have greatly affected my parents. Therefore, my parents have never dared to slack off in educating me. They taught me to respect the elderly, love the young, religious teachers, and understand the courtesy, and to be upright. This is my family style, and my most precious wealth in my life.

Mo Yan, the winner of the Nobel Prize in Literature, said that his family style is "paying attention to learning and being kind with others." Then my family style is "preaching and educational."

My grandfather, at the age of 95, still insists on paying party fees on time on time. After joining the party for more than 50 years, he has never occupied units and a country, and he has never taken the masses one by one. In the National Day in 2021, I went home with my husband to visit the old man. He proudly took out the medals such as "Fifty Years of the Party" and "Anti -US Aid DPRK" and other medals to show us, and specially came up with a "Party Constitution" to give me and said: "This is worth your learning. My life is not very rich in my life, but my spiritual world is sufficient. Those medals are the country's recognition of me!"

My grandfather has served as the captain of the village for several years and the director of the village committee for more than 20 years. When he was working, he led the villagers to plant trees, breeding silkworms, and noodles. Due to outstanding performance, he was selected as "the representative of the Fourth Sichuan Provincial People's Congress". He worked hard for Bafang Village in his life, but he did not use his rights to seek a little benefit for himself. When the local party secretary visited the house, he only said: "I don't have any difficulties in my family. Please rest assured, please rest assured!"

It is such an old man, with two sleeves and breeze, selfless dedication, and teaching to the children. This greatly affects my parents, and my parents affect me again.

I'm not afraid of everyone's jokes, I have been beaten up since I was a child. Because there are any places that are not appropriate, parents will "teach" me.

When his father joined the army when he was young, he was serious and a little irritable, but he never became angry with his mother -in -law. Even if he was big, he would treat it patiently. I remember the Spring Festival at the age of 7, and our family had dinner around the table. Adults say and laugh, and my sister and I eat themselves. Seeing that the rice in the mother -in -law bowl was almost finished, my father said, "Fangfang, go to add meals to your mother -in -law." I heard it, but didn't move. Dad saw that I did not respond, and spoke again: "Tell you to add food to my mother -in -law." I was afraid of his voice, stood up reluctantly, and said to my mother -in -law, "Bring the bowl." Who knows this I annoyed my father in one fell swoop, and immediately ushered in his irritability. The belly was in the middle of this foot, and the rice bowl in his hand was instantly overturned to the ground. I was frightened and sat on the ground and cried. But the more we cried, the more angry, the more angry. He scolded: "Crying and crying, he knew crying. My mother -in -law is an old man at home, an elder, and the minimum respect for the elderly does not understand? I see that you are crying here today and no one cares about you." I then There are 10,000 grievances and dissatisfaction, but this matter will always be remembered in my heart. Later, I grew up to understand that my father wanted me to respect the elderly and love the young.

My mother is a party member and teacher, and my predecessor. She attaches great importance to education and teaches me to respect the teacher. Remember a fourth grade flag -raising ceremony, everyone went to the playground to gather. I came out of the classroom very slowly and ranked the last one of the team. When the head of the class teacher, Mr. Xie, asked me to stand in the first row, because I was the shortest, I was afraid that I could not see it. Teacher Xie said three or four times, and even pulled me, I stood still because I was annoyed. My mother knew the matter and called me to the office to ask. She said, "Teacher Xie told you to stand in front of you today, did you move?" I replied, "I moved." This is obviously deceiving. My mother picked up the water bamboo strip in her hand, dragged my arm and hit my leg. Teacher Xie quickly persuaded that her mother did not listen. When he couldn't see it, he went out of the office. This is the intention of her mother. She walked over the door two steps and had to come to teach me again. I was beaten and hurt. I ran around my desk, and my mother chased me. The classmates crowded the joke in front of the window, but she chased and shook everything I did not say recently. I said that I do n’t respect the teacher, do n’t study hard, do n’t do my homework. I ’m sorry for her teachings while doing farmers and living two sisters, and I am sorry for her future. I know that this meal is settled, and I do n’t complain. Although I was beaten up, I was more respectful to the teacher afterwards.

I know that my parents hope that their children can be the people who respect the elderly, the pride, and the truth, and the ritual, and the integrity. Even today, my grandfather is no longer there. Grandpa and parents often give me "class" to educate me as a teacher to respect my parents and treat each family's child equally. Education should be done as a career, not just occupation. While teaching their children's cultural knowledge, they can plant the friendship of home country into their hearts, because "the family is the smallest country, and the country is ten million."

This kind of silent education has now internalized in my heart, always spurring me for forge to forge.

This is my home style, my permanent wealth!