Evaluation of Extraordinary | Combining men in one year to break up for 888,000 yuan gifts, love is not you can buy if you want to buy

Polar News commentator Wu Shuangjian

Recently, the Fuqing Court of Fujian concluded a dispute over the marriage contract. Lin Moumou and Chen Moumou met after being introduced by the matchmaker. In May 2020, the two negotiated decided to determine the amount of gifts of 888,000 yuan. A few days later, the two sides held an engagement ceremony. From the end of the acquaintance to the end of the engagement ceremony, Lin Moumou cost 180,000 yuan, 40,000 cigarette candy, 120,000 yuan to give the woman a gold, 73,000 yuan to the woman, and the media introduction fee 30,000 yuan, Cai Cai Li spent a total of 1.331 million yuan. The two lived together after their engagement. Because of her personality, Lin Moumou prosecuted to the Fuqing court to lift the marriage contract and return the gift.

Looking at this set of numbers, people are staggering. Cai Li is 888,000 yuan, not to mention, what other meetings, changes, banquets, etc. are all units of 10,000, and they also have nearly 450,000 yuan. Before the certificate is received, the house and the car did not mention anything, and the real gold and silver of 1.33 million yuan were spent.

For the sake of the son's marriage, it is said that the family's family conditions are not bad. The two sons live together. They don't worry about eating and wear. The life should not be worse, but the two still reached the step of breaking up. What does this mean? Men and women still have to have feelings as a basis. The price of sky -high prices can not be replaced with a happy life, and only one feathers will be lost.

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In fact, the dispute was buried early. From the high expenditure of this stroke, it can be seen that the man and the woman are more like a transaction, reminiscent of the lyrics of the song "Love Sale": Love is not you want to buy, you can buy it. Because the two sides are not free love, but the matchmaker introduces it, it is very direct when talking about the cost. I don't know how many rounds of negotiation and communication between the two parties and the matchmaker. For example, the colorful gift of 888,000 yuan is not only a good meaning, but it can be guessing that it has also been bargained with many bargains.

In any case, the sky -high gifts, changes, and meeting gifts are all bad habits. The lives of the two are shrouded in the shadow of this money. Especially the man spent so much money, the two sides lived together, and the mentality would definitely be different. It is an imaginary ending on the grounds of "discordant personality". Because there is no emotion, there is no "emotional rupture" It's right.

In the end, after trial of the court, the woman returned to the Cai Li 800,000 yuan. For a year, the man lost more than 500,000 yuan, and the woman also consumed the youth of one year. Both sides went to the court to flip their faces and are losers. In the end, only the matchmaker who won 30,000 yuan.

In recent years, the sky -high -priced gifts have been painful to the social nerves, and some love men and women have stopped their feelings in front of the sky -high gifts. In some places, Cai Li starts with 100,000 yuan, and also wants houses without loans in the city and more than 100,000 mobility vehicles, making some families overwhelmed. Some men and women who have no emotional foundation have been tied together because of the sky -high gifts. The two sides lack tolerance, and life will inevitably jump chickens. Some places have introduced governance measures for sky -high prices to promote new social customs and have also received general support from society.

Undoubtedly, the warning of this incident is very profound. The man hopes to lock the woman through the high color gift, and the two will live together. The woman also hopes to see the man's attention and sincerity about the woman. Facts show that both of them are unreliable. Live the feelings of both parties as the foundation, the tolerance and responsibility of both parties, and the two people have a common goal to work hard for their own lives, instead of sitting in it. Otherwise, only the feelings and time of both parties will be wasted.

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