One person is transparent, there are three characteristics

The ancients said: "The spoils are not shocked, and the flowers in front of the court bloom; go to leave unintentional, and follow the clouds of clouds and clouds."

Those who can live to such a realm have experienced the big and wrong. From then on, look at light and prosperous, humiliate, and just cherish every day of the present.

01

Do not follow others, follow your own rhythm, and take your own way.

I have a female colleague who is a bit uncomfortable, but she lives transparently.

In the early years of female colleagues, she was "desperate". She worked hard and was very serious and responsible. Even if she was not good at entertainment, she still forced her to make a lot of changes in order to improve the salary increase.

I thought that she had performance and good reputation, and should be promoted and reused, but in this small county in the eighteenth line, all the "hard power" could not fight the tape.

After the leader took the "outstanding performance" several times, she began to understand.

The work is no longer active, but she does not push the blame. She still completes the work on hand in accordance with her rigorous and serious style.

The only obvious difference is that you understand "rejection", things within the division, without urging; extraordinary things should not be inherited.

At first, the leaders and colleagues were unaccustomed. After all, she often did a job of several people and could do everything well. Today, she never troubles others to take care of others, and never accept others' fingers.

Faced with her disappointment, not humble, those who originally thought that she had taken the "life door" who was eager to promote the promotion.

Female colleagues are going to get off work on time. On weekends and other holidays, they are in a state of "loss". The mental state is getting better and better, and the temperament of the whole person is getting quiet and elegant.

The experience of female colleagues is actually a true portrayal of many people in the workplace. For most of my life, I was eager to "fame and profit", but there was something, and things were in the sky.

When I do my best to do my best, I do not need to sigh. The more frustrated and brave heart, the grieving pattern, and the sober cognition of self, the most valuable wealth left by heaven.

With these, life starts to turn: never follow the footsteps of others, and just walk according to your own rhythm. In this way, life can be wonderful.

02

Do not chase vanity, the highest aesthetics is to return to the truth.

Peking opera master Wang Yunyu once introduced his life: wearing dozens of yuan clothes, eating coarse tea and rice, he never feels panicked because he has his own career and people he loves.

The real "wealth" of a person is not a luxury car and a Chinese suit, but a sending and relying on it.

When people are young, they always do not forget a magnificent dream and make money desperately, just in exchange for greater houses, better cars, and better lives.

But life does not need so much.

The ancients had long said: Liangtian is thousands of hectares, one liter of eclipse. There are thousands of buildings, seven feet night sleep.

According to Maslow's demand theory, when people's bottom needs are met, the longest -term need is the need for self -worth.

Therefore, it is not Jinyi and jade that supports a person who has been living warmly, but ideals and goals.

What is the difference between a person? What is the difference from salted fish? And if the "salted fish" has ideals, then it is no longer just a salted fish.

Because of making a fantasy dream, the creator of "Big Fish Begonia" began to work hard to turn his dream into reality. They did not know that in order to realize this fantasy animation dream, they used a full 12 years. During the period, they almost gave up because of insufficient funds.

Because of the love in his heart, the "dumplings" who studied medical majors began to study again. After the reborn and grinding, his main creative "Nezha Demon Children's World" became popular.

These cases tell people that when a person lives and transparent, those problems that trouble themselves will become "easy" because of their love of career and pursuit of ideals: they will not learn everything, and they will be done.

Following the inner guidance, love what you love, and do what you do. This kind of "return to the truth" is the choice of transparent life.

03

Don't be anxious, beautiful, everything will eventually be beautiful.

Liu Yuxi, a poet of the Tang Dynasty, was a "Lotte". Because of the different politics of the dynasty, he was repeatedly degraded.

Among them, two of them were derogatory, and because of writing poems, they were caught by the ministers, and used this as an excuse to drive him out of the capital.

One of them was "Xuandu Viewing Peach Blossoms": "Zimo Hongchen comes, and no one looks at the flowers. The Xuandu Guanli Tao Qianshu is all planted later." He was degraded for twelve years.

Twelve years later, Liu Yuxi swim in the old place and wrote another "View of the Metropolitan Capital": Half of the hundred acres of court is moss, and peach blossoms are full of cauliflower. He returned to the peach priest, and Liu Lang came again before. Soon after, because of this poem, he was degraded for the third time.

But no matter where he was degraded, he was able to live with it, faced actively, and enjoyed it. Therefore, even if he was "abandoned" in Bashan Chushui for twenty -three years, he could also send out the emotion of "the sideline side of the sideline side by side, and the forehead in front of the sick tree", giving people inspiration and shock.

The more people who live, the more transparent, they will understand, not anxious, impatient, no fight, good heart, everything will eventually be beautiful.

Therefore, you don't have to envy the happiness of others at all, don't think about how to copy the success path of others.Do what you should do, step by step, cherish every minute and every second of the moment, and the days will have a difficult time, and you will eventually reach the other side of happiness.04

End words:

Life is just a century. The most important thing is to live your own wonderful.

The older the age, the more you understand that the noise and prosperity of the outer outer are actually nothing to do with yourself.You do n’t have to say good or bad yourself.

To persist, we can see the beauty of our lives.

Author: Rufeng is light and cloudy.

Your happiness, my blessing.

The picture comes from the Internet.

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