Reading in the evening | People are at a certain age, and they are fighting for these four abilities.

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The ability to carry things

At a certain age, the responsibilities on the shoulders are getting heavier, and there are more and more things encountered, as if problems are stacked and never stop.

In the end, the ability to fight often is the ability to carry things.

Who can carry the difficulties of life, who can still bloom a flower inside in the days of a feathers, who is the winner of life.

Being a person who can carry things, first of all, is not chaotic and do not lose his temper.

Emotional out of control and losing temper, not only couldn't solve the problem, but made himself messy, thereby judging errors, making wrong decisions, making things worse and worse.

Being a person who can carry things needs courage and tenacity on the wind.

Those difficult roads are upward. Be a person with more and more toughness and remember good things.

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Capable

Always living in the past will only make us heavy and we cannot meet a better future.

When people reach a certain age, face the regrets and injuries in the past, they do not have to regret it, and they must gradually learn to release and turn it.

The old account of the old age repeatedly turned, but it was getting deeper and deeper.

Those who regret us and embarrass us, let them stay behind the door behind them.

We just need to remove the heavy burden, close the door behind us, and continue to move forward.

There are no irreversible pains, no sinks that cannot be ended, and all those who lose will return in another way.

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Corresponding ability

After reading a word: "There are many moments, you are thrilling, and the world knows nothing; you turn the mountains and the mountains, and the earth is silent."

The more mature people, the more unwilling to care about trivial matters, just want to look at the flowers and flowers in a normal heart.

Those meaningless meals can refuse; there is no necessary social, when it is broken.

The circle seems to be getting smaller and smaller, but all the most precious people are left; the days seem to be more and more bland, but the heart will be full.

When you learn to get along with yourself, the tranquility when you are alone will not make you feel lonely, but you will bring you a steady stream of energy and help you move towards deeper freedom.

When people reach a certain age, after seeing the hustle and bustle of the world, they should calm down, stay away from disturbance, and clear their inner garbage.

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Power inward

When people reach a certain age, we must put more attention on themselves.

Only when you look inward and recognize yourself can you transform past experience into experience.

In order to look at yourself, you can realize the method of success from failure and transform the deficiencies into an advantage.

To recognize the strength, do everything you can, and do your best to do it.

To recognize the bottom line, something to do is to keep your life and settle down.

Acknowledge your heart, keep focusing, and work hard to live your own life is the greatest happiness.

Seeing that others are wisdom, and recognizing yourself is the real Gaoming.

Photography 丨 West Mountain Watch

Source 丨 Xinhua News Agency, the article is deleted and modified

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