Stay away from those who constantly consume you!(Good depth)

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Time to stop loss is the most advanced wisdom of adults

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Author: Philosophy Jun

Source: Philosophy Life Network (ID: zxrsnet)

Life is like a brigade, I am also a pedestrian. not

We will encounter all kinds of people in our lives. Some people teach you to grow up, some teach you to love, some bring you happiness, some people bring you regret, some people make you feel painful, and some people make you unforgettable.

Writer Su Cen said: "Don't take too many people, please enter your life. If they can't enter your heart, they will only disturb your life crowded."

When people come and go, please stay away from those who constantly consume you, especially these people.

Stay away from those who care

The old words often say that there is nothing to be attentive, and the stealing is not treacherous.

Pay more attention to those who always give concern than those who are attentive.

This kind of person is talking about this kind of person.

Many people today are lonely. When they encounter the other half that they do not understand, the family who do not understand, the heart is depressed, and it has not been released for a long time.

When you encounter oral care, it is easy to have no defense, lose your judgment, and be deceived, and finally regret it.

Obviously I have n’t contacted for a long time, and I have become very unfamiliar. Suddenly I have contact with you. When I come up, I ca n’t get familiar with it. When I call you “family, loved ones, dear ...”, you need to be too intimate. Start twelve points of vigilance.

Such people either draw you or you money.

Sincerely hidden in details and actions, not surface and verbal.

Stay away from the people who obey

Considering, people who never return are very selfish and rarely take into account others. not

This kind of person is profitable, and the profit is forgotten. not

Without a moral bottom line, it can be said that milk is a mother.

Even if you have a good relationship with you, you will betray you under the temptation of interests. And there will be no psychological burden, but you will blame you to not be atmospheric enough.

When you meet such friends, stay away early, and people's hearts may not be able to get people's hearts.

People should not be too soft -hearted, so good face, decisively refuse when refusing.

For those who blindly, your good is like a sugar, and you forget who it gives it after eating.

I have seen a question: What is human? not

A high praise replied: Desire is full.

People who obey them blindly have been.

Being good with others, but always adhere to a boundary: to meet the needs of the other party, not desire.

Desire is endless.

Far from ligamental injustice

Xunzi said: At the beginning of man, sex was evil. not

In human nature, no matter who has a evil side, this may be natural.

To restrain evil is a good person. If you can't restrain it, you will be evil.

People with incorrect minds will not know that their minds are incorrect, and the views of good and evil in their hearts are very different from ordinary people; people with mental illness are first of all a delicate self -interest.

There are generally several characteristics of people with mental absence:

First, the mind is deep, never to be on the right path.

Second, there are knives behind them, saying gossip, fiddling right and wrong, hypocritical.

Third, see the wind to make the rudder, two sides of the two sides, and the children are bad.

Fourth, small belly chicken intestines, false affection, greedy small and cheap.

"The Analects of Confucius · Constitution": "Or said:‘ What is the resentment of virtue?

Zi said: "Why should you report virtue? Report to resentment and virtue with virtue."

Your life is very expensive. You need to be cautious when making friends.

Stay away from those who complain about

Emotions will affect each other. Stay away from people who are always full of negative emotions, especially those who often vent their negative emotions and complain. not

Life is not smooth sailing. When it comes to difficulties, frustrations, and ups and downs, it is inevitable that you will abandon yourself and complain about it.

The most afraid of people who are clear and smooth, and always complain.

As a listener, complaining is too much, it is inevitable that emotional loss and turning are negative. Unconsciously, some negative emotions in your heart will also be enlarged. not

"Zeng Guofan's Family Book": Too much complaints, this will be more suppressed in the future. If you blame the sky for no reason, the sky must not be allowed, especially for no reason. With the people who are happy all day, they will feel comfortable; they have been complaining with love for a long time, and they are easy to become mournful and can't afford the spirit. not

It is a kind of happiness with people who do not complain. You are not an emotional trash can anyone. It is a kind of wisdom to stay away from and refuse to complain about it.

Far away from the moody people

The most angry people are the most hurting people.

It is difficult for people who are moody to control their emotions and are good -looking. It is easy to become emotional puppets, lose rationality, and therefore easy to do things. not

When getting along, you will feel depressed. not

Because you don't know when this kind of person will be, it will suddenly be happy or furious because of a sentence, a certain thing.

When you are happy, you caught it off guard; when you are angry, it is like a gunpowder barrel, hurting others.

In life, I always meet some moody people. When I get angry, I lose my temper; when I am unhappy, they shake their faces. They never care about the feelings of others regardless of the occasion.

Being temper is instinct and can control the temper is the ability.

The circle of friends saw a sentence: "I won't retain anyone who trys to hurt me, it is like I will not chew out what I spit out again."

The best way for people who are moody is to stay away.

Can't afford to avoid it?

I have heard a word very much:

Follow the flies, you will find the stinky ditch;

Follow the bee, you will find the flowers;

Follow the butterfly, you will smell the fragrance.

People who consume you can bring you any benefit except that it can bring you any beneficial things.

There is no connection with a relationship to make each other worse.

Time to stop loss, is the highest wisdom of adults.

Life is not long, you must be comfortable with people who get along.

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