Painted Civilization Haidian | Haidian carried out the status of youth marriage status research and exploration for the "happiness index"

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Guide the majority of young people to establish the correct view of love, marriage and love, and effectively promote civilized, healthy, and rational marriage views to the youth's heart and help the healthy development of young people. It is important to promote the construction of family civilization and create a good social fashion of mutual assistance and civilization and harmony. One ring. In order to get close to the needs of youth and care about the life of youth, recently, the Joint Communist Party Committee of the Haidian District Statistics Bureau team, through video symposiums, online surveys, telephone interviews, etc. Expand survey.

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During the survey, the survey data of "What are the most important concentrations of your current living pressure or contradiction" shows that 33.5%of the respondents choose "marriage and dating", 30.5%of the respondents choose "childcare children", 12.9%of The respondent chose "supporting the elderly", and 20 % of the respondents believed that pressure was mainly concentrated in other aspects such as career development, daily expenses, and mortgage car loans.

At present, the younger generation is undergoing multiple pressures such as marriage, raising baby, taking care of the elderly, and workplace competition. Due to the fast pace of life and busy work, the social circle has become narrower, which makes some young people in this "marriage" and "" marriage "and" In the balance of not marriage ", the courage to get rid of marriage gradually disappeared.

It is reported that a total of 233 valid questionnaires were collected in this survey. Through analysis, it was found that the difficulties of young people's marriage and dating are mainly concentrated in income, busy work, and narrow social circle. Among them, 27.9%of the respondents believe that "economic pressure is high, it is not easy to find objects", and 24.0%of the respondents believe that "the social circle is narrow and the object cannot be found." There are 9.4%due to the "lack of trust in feelings and not wanting to find objects", "various reasons after marriage," and "various reasons after marriage".

In order to help youth in the jurisdiction of Haidian to broaden dating channels and establish healthy and positive values, Haidian multi -departments are also actively acting. Among them, in the first half of 2022, the Haidian League District Committee rely on community Youthhui to carry out a variety of colorful dating and friendship activities. Including the establishment of a single youth exchange group, promoting the establishment of a youth exchange team, organizing group activities from time to time, driving young people to go out of the house in their spare time, knowing more friends of the opposite sex, enriching hobbies, developing a healthy lifestyle; carrying out "youth emotional emotions "Relations" theme online activities, specially invited emotional experts and teachers through case analysis, psychological knowledge explanation, and personalized issues to help the current urban love youth solve the problems or confusion encountered in the relationship between the city, improve the objectiveness of emotions and marriage and love. Reasonable understanding. As of June 2022, the Youth League Committee served nearly 1,400 young people, affecting more than 2,000 youths.

Not only that, just recently, a group of Haidian youths "fancy" played "Symphony of Love", which means that more youths still believe in "1+1> 2", and their "one house, two, two, two, two, two The longing for the tranquility of people in three seasons and four seasons. For example, Haidian District held a "Romantic Qixi Love Lead of Bayi" youth friendship activities. Nearly 50 young people participated and passed the "test" and a total of 8 pairs of military youth successfully held hands. In addition, Haidian District also held a "book 'sea'. Love, "Ding's Life", "Burning Love in July, Summer Finding Fate", "Frozen and Snow, Clouds and Haidian" and other forms of online and offline youth friendship activities to broaden the single youths Dating channels to help single young people build a dating communication platform.

Slicit choice is the most important thing

Love and marriage life is a two -way relay, a flat life sharing, and the taste of the future and struggle for the future. It is the joy of walking through the red dust years, looking at the bustling life, returning to the bland life, and enjoying the lightness of life.

Nowadays, some young people have shown strong subjectivity on the issue of spouse selection. Compared with actual judgments and in -depth thinking in combination with reality and emotional needs, they are more likely to be affected by subjective factors. Devices of a certain degree. How to ensure the correctness of the direction of the spouse and the details of the spouse selection?

据调研结果显示，其中，75.5%的被访者看重“人品”，49.8%的被访者看重“家庭条件”，47.6%的被访者看重“性格”，选择“相貌”“感情”“ The respondents of the academic qualifications accounted for 32.6%, 22.3%, 15.9%, and 11.6%, respectively. 6.0%of the criteria for choosing a spouse selected by the respondents were "family satisfaction." In terms of gender, when choosing a spouse, the young women pay more attention to "character", "family conditions", "emotion", "occupation" and "academic qualifications" than men. Satisfaction "three items.

It can be seen that most youth groups are most important to choose their mate. First of all, you must talk about feelings first. Love marriage and love are focusing on quality. Compared with the "hard indicators" of mate selection, keep the bottom line of "not accommodation, not to be, not compromise", establish a normal mentality to choose mate, in love and marriage, heavy in love and marriage. Emotional, sincere, good -quality, struggling, and pursuit of common pursuits and ideals can improve the happiness index.

Reporter's note

Pass the values ​​of civilized spouse selection for the society

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