Father in the eyes of the 80s: My father is a "fashionable" architect

My father was born in 1963 and is now almost 60 years old. He is a farmer and an authentic architect. At the age of seventeen or eighteen, his father graduated from Xinwan High School in Qiantang District, Hangzhou, and joined the construction team in the town at that time. His architectural career continued to this day. From the grass -roots work to the chief engineer of the project, in many years, he served the corner of Hangzhou City and witnessed that the high -rise buildings were up to the ground.

Since the memo, his father has been running out and earning money to support his family. Many buildings in Hangzhou have infected his sweat. The project is tightly connected. Often, one project is about to go to another. In addition, the traffic was inconvenient. From the project site to the home, it was necessary to take a few hours of bus. The father often had to return to the day after staying at home. For me, he can only tell me a few sentences, "Listen to your mother's words, study hard." Therefore, in the impression, my father almost did not participate in my studies. Most of my studies and life are taken by my mother. Sometimes my father pointed at the old photos of the past. When I was a kid, I was unpopular when I was a kid, but I was completely impressed. Only these photos witnessed that my father did have something to do.

Because of the work of my father, our father and son rarely communicated. However, what surprised me was that the year when I was going to college, my father wrote a letter to me. He said with me in the letter: "Son, if you compare college life to heaven, then when you go out of society, you will immediately feel its cruel side. Don't waste your college time and hone your skills. I remember this sentence in the letter, and deeply affected myself who was about to enter college at the time.

Different from the dusty servants, long hair and leather boots, sometimes wearing leather gloves, sometimes a pair of sunglasses, and a height of one meter eight. When he was young, his father was fashionable and handsome. My father also liked music. When he got married, he also bought a radio. From Walkman, MP3, to the first generation of Xiaomi mobile phone and the first generation of Apple mobile phones, my father can say that he has always been a "tide".

In the impression, his father would everything, as if he couldn't figure it out. From the renovation of the house, the maintenance of the home appliance, to the table, chair and bench, he will be repaired. In recent years, his father was also obsessed with running the marathon, Hangzhou, Wuhan, Shaoxing, Wuxi ... His "record" on the wall of his family.

A few years ago, my daughter was born, and my father seemed to have poured the time and care that had not been able to spend in my past so many years on my daughter. As long as there is time, my father will take my daughter to the park or the river around the river. Playing with the child has become his greatest fun. At the beginning, he was so soft that he became softened now. In fact, with my daughter, I can also understand my father and understand the responsibilities and helplessness that he needs to assume the pillar of his husband, father, and family. (Reporter Qian Yuan)

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