Don't give up!Grandma Ningbo Zhang took care of the bedroom wife for ten years

Zhang Yao'e is wiping for Yan Youyi. Photo by Wang Bo Lu Yan

"Old man, come, make a big mouth, drink tea."

"Uh, uh ..."

"This tea was sent by his son. What is the taste?"

"Uh, uh ..."

This is a daily daily dialogue between Zhang Yao'e and Grandpa Yan Yiyi, who lives in Zhonggong Temple Street, Lingjiang Community, Lingjiang Community, Lingjiang Community, Ningbo City.

Zhang Yao'e is 75 years old, and Yan Youyi is 5 years older than Zhang Yao'e. The fate of grandparents began in 1968. At that time, the two elderly people introduced their understanding, and the following year became husband and wife, and had a son and a daughter. Grandma is gentle and virtuous.

However, unexpectedly, Grandpa was tortured by a disease. On December 1, 2012, the old couple went to dance the square together after dinner. After dancing, Yan Youyi went to the toilet's barrel as usual as usual. After soaking for a long time, Zhang Yao'e saw that there was no movement. He went in and found that Yan Youyi fainted in the barrel. Zhang Yao'e hurriedly called the children and sent Yan Youyi to the hospital together. After diagnosis, Yan Youyi had 120 ml of cerebral hemorrhage, and he woke up for 45 days. In the later period, Yan Youyi lived intermittently in the hospital for 13 months and received a series of rehabilitation treatment.

After leaving the hospital, Zhang Yao'e rejected his family and sent Yan Youyi to the elderly home. Instead, he picked up his wife home and took care of it. After getting up every morning, Zhang Yao'e will make a cup of tea for himself and Yan Youyi. After drinking, he will massage Yan Youyi. Turn over, pinch your neck, rub your arms, press your back, pat your thighs ... Persist in massage 3 to 4 times a day, and talk about your family while pressing the family, recalling the experience of the two of them in love and working together.

Because of the sequelae of cerebral hemorrhage, Yan Youyi almost lost the chewing function. Zhang Yao'e was worried that Yan Youyi was uncomfortable to eat, so he massaged and kneading his face, inside of the mouth, chin and throat every day to help his wife restore the chewing function.

Long -term illness in bed, Yan Youyi's immunity is very low. Every time I go home, Zhang Yao'e has to wash his hands and disinfect clothes, and he pays special attention in all aspects. Yan Youyi has a stool every three or four days. Zhang Yao'e never disliked him. He would help him use Kaisalu and even pull it out with his hands. Not only that, Zhang Yao'e also replaced Yan Youyi once a month to change the gastric tube and urethra, and regularly took Yan Youyi to see the traditional Chinese medicine conditioning body.

Today, although Yan Youyi was sick in bed for ten years, she did not have a bedsores and no obvious muscle atrophy, but she was fatter than when she got sick. Zhang Yao'e often joked that Yan Youyi was fat. Yan Youyi seemed to understand his wife's words. He opened his eyes, "Uh, Uh," a few times, as if responding to his wife.

For a long time, the people around you always persuade Zhang Yao'e to say that Yan Youyi is the disease, and you put yourself in. But Zhang Yao'e always smiled slightly, saying that her wife was a good person, and she would always accompany him.

Wang Bo, a client reporter Wang Bo correspondent Lu Yan Zhang Kening intern Sun Gujiang

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