A high -priced color gift changed the township regulations and the people's contract

Guozhai Village, Xingbao Town, Taixing City, Jiangsu Province is a well -known civilized village. The first "township regulations and people's treaty" in Jiangsu Province came from the village. The village has always been a fine tradition of implementing villagers' autonomy through the township regulations.

"Our township rules and people have recently amended one, and the promotion of Zhang Zhan, the president of the Xiangbao People's Court." Recently, I went to Guozhai Village and just arrived at the village conference room. Regulate the people.

The reason why Guozhai Village's Township Regulations and the People ’s Consumer Consigencies were amended for a lot of costumes. Xiao Zhang and Xiao Wang had no guessing from the young plum bamboo horse and two small schools. By the time of the legal marriage age, when the two were preparing to get a marriage certificate, Xiao Wang's parents proposed to be 18,8800 yuan. Xiao Wang's parents said that it is a good picture to receive such a colorful gift; the other is that the girl is so much to raise it, and it cannot be given to others. If you do n’t accept your own house, is n’t your daughter too much? Where does my face go?

The Xiao Zhang family is not very wealthy. There are a lot of expenses for marriage. In addition, they have to come up with so colorful gifts. Xiao Zhang said that he couldn't get that money, but he could get it, and he didn't get it. The marriage was based on emotions. What age is this, and the old one in the past?

Xiao Wang listened to Xiao Zhang's complaints, and her heart was full of grievances. She knew that her parents were good for their children, but they didn't want to hurt their parents' hearts. She said that her parents asked these gifts not to be greedy for those money, but to test Xiao Zhang's heart to her. Besides, no matter how high the gift is, her family also has a dowry and "pressing money", which will not be lower than the amount of gifts from Xiao Zhang's family. She hopes that even if Xiao Zhang is a loan, she must meet her parents' requirements.

loan? Liabilities for marriage? That's better. Xiao Zhang's anger made Xiao Wang feel painful, but she couldn't give up Xiao Zhang again. Her parents still refused to give up. She could only wash her face with tears.

"How did the court know this?" The author interjected.

"The court has thousands of miles and smooth ears." Liu Zhongsheng laughed.

"What's going on with thousands of miles and Shunfeng Ears?" The author didn't understand for a while.

Liu Zhongsheng said, "You have to ask Zhang Zhan."

Zhang Zhan, who was sitting aside, talked about the relevant situation--

After Zhang Zhan went to the post of the president of the Xuanbao court earlier this year, he actively organized the grid staff in the area to enter the court for training. Through training, the grid staff learned a lot of knowledge and skills of dispute mediation, which not only became a good helper for resolving resolution, but also became the "eyes" of the court. If he could not mediate the dispute, he would report to the court. Guozhai Village's grid staff Xiao Li and the neighbor of Xiao Zhang's family went to Xiao Wang's family to persuade peace, but Xiao Wang's parents still did not relax. Xiao Li immediately "learned" to the judges to see if the court could help Xiao Zhang and Xiao Wang. Zhang Zhan knew Xiao Wang and Xiao Zhang in the first time.

The staff of the relevant departments in Zhang Zhan United Town visited Xiao Wang's house, and Xiao Wang's parents refused to meet. He visited Xiao Wang's uncle, and the uncle of Xiao Wang said that if you give up the colorful ceremony, he will be joked by the neighbors. This face can't be lost. No money can be divided.

In recent years, the Xuanbao Court has accepted many marriage and family disputes caused by the issue of color gifts. When trialing such cases, family members and relatives and friends of both parties often participate in listening. fight. Improper treatment of this type of case can easily cause the contradiction between two families and even two families, which seriously affects the harmony and stability of society.

"The judge is highly sensitive to such events, and also has endogenous motivation to resolve such contradictions from the source." Liu Zhongsheng said.

"That's it. After listening to Xiao Zhang and Xiao Wang, I think about the embarrassment in the visit. I feel a little heavy. After analyzing similar disputes in the trial in recent years, the root cause of the existence of high -priced gifts is . The most fundamental thing to solve the dispute of high -priced gifts is to solve the "spiritual shackles" of the villagers. The best way is to achieve a unified behavior specification in the process of villagers to help villagers implement self -correction. This requires an appropriate intervention of external forces. I think of the township regulations. "Zhang Zhan said.

"The problem is that the current township rules and people in our village have not involved colorful gifts." Liu Zhongsheng took Zhang Zhan's words, he agreed with Zhang Zhan's idea, borrowed the opportunity of the matter, and wrote the content of the regulatory gifts into the rural rules with a point of view. The people's treaty uses the convention of writing to guide and standardize the new fashion of villagers in the new era, and break the rules and bad habits.

Liu Zhongsheng continued to introduce that the Xuanbao Court and the relevant departments in the town jointly entered the villagers' homes to solicit opinions on the appointments of township regulations. Most of the villagers said that: high -priced colorful gifts are not only lovers in love, but also a crackdown on young people, but also destroyed the social atmosphere, aggravated the burden of the villagers, and supported the writing of Cai Li to the township regulations. At the same time, some villagers said that receiving appropriate gifts in accordance with folk customs, but also showing the man's attitude, which can be retained moderately, but high -priced gifts are not advisable.

In conjunction with the village committee, representatives of the people's congress, members of the CPPCC, villagers, etc., they discussed the new customs of the marriage into the township and the people's appointments, let the new customs replace the old customs, and let more families put down their psychological and economic burdens. At the villagers' congress, everyone listened to the court's suggestions, modified the township regulations, and clearly opposed the sky -high prices.

With the rules, it is easy to do.After the judge, the village cadres, and the grid staff explained the new village regulations, Xiao Wang's parents removed the burden and agreed that they would not receive a lot of gifts of 18,8800 yuan., Golden Ring, a lover finally becomes a dependent.The dean of the Taixing Court, Meiling, talked about the "Township Regulations on the Civil Regulations" of the "Civil Regulations" of the sky -high prices. The people's court is on the front line of resolving contradictions and disputes and serving the people.With the responsibility of conducting business guidance of the People's Mediation Commission, the people's court must take the initiative to implement the mechanism requirements of "big data+network staff+iron foot board", and use the villagers' councils, "Internet discussion" and other platforms such as the "Internet discussion" and other platformsIt must be a big difference.

(Correspondent: Zheng Weiping Chang Zhifei)

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