After resigning, the "post -90s" brought a mothers to travel with gradual freezing ...

He still hopes that his mother can wait until the day when the special effects of gradual freezing disease came out. The mother discussed with him, and if he "failed to support", he donated the remains to the relevant research team.

He still plans to play around with her: when the weather is cold, go to the sea first, and then go to Yunnan to experience the process of picking tea and tea.

On July 3rd, Zhao Tianci and Liu Wenyan took a photo in the Cocoitito Sea Scenic Area. Interviewee confidence

Starting from Shangqiu, Henan, driving along the Lianhuo high -speed, passing through Manas County, Kenas, Kanas Lake, Dushanzi Grand Canyon, Nalati, Salimu Lake, from June to July, 29, 29, 29, 29, 29 The year old Zhao Tianci brought her mother Liu Wenyan with gradual frozen disease to complete a self -driving trip to and from the 15,000 kilometers.

In 2014, 45 -year -old Liu Wenyan suffered from gradual frost, and the entire family has since fallen into a rally with death.

This kind of disease that is not cured has eroded Liu Wenyan's body a little bit: first is the limbs muscles atrophy, unable to stand by themselves, and gradually her neck and tongue began to be weak, and it is difficult to speak and look up normally.

Liu Wenyan was predicted by the doctor to die in three years. To this day, she has fought for eight years with death.

In June of this year, Zhao Tianci resigned and took his mother to complete a 31 -day trip. He recorded the whole journey on the video platform. In addition to being moved, many family members of the felmented patients found Zhao Tianci and expressed amazing: The original freezing patients can also live like the records recorded in his video.

For Zhao Tianci, this trip is like another starting point of life: death may come to the mother at any time, but before the death of death, let the mother be like normal people -travel, shopping, shopping, and continue to have dignity Living.

Set off

On June 10th, Liu Wenyan got up early. On weekdays, she will listen to the news for a while, and then start watching the stock market. On this day, she couldn't care about the news and the stock market, leaning on the wheelchair to direct her son Zhao Tianci to prepare for a walk.

Her tongue has no strength, and she can only slowly vomit words from her throat, making some hoarse, stretching sounds; her head is shakingly leaning against the wheelchair back, her hands on the armrest, a gray loose T -shirt耷 耷 耷. Her whole body was like a shadow man hanging with thin lines, as if the wind blowing, her limbs would swing.

Before leaving, Zhao Tianci first pushed her mother to the door with a wheelchair, holding her armpitly with her hands to hold her from the wheelchair, and put it on the car's co -pilot. Then fell into her legs and put her legs in the door.

A large bag of medicines needed for Liu Wenyan in the car. In addition to the corresponding drugs, there are also colds, heat relief, gastrointestinal medicine, etc. Also prepared the quilt and pillow, which was the soft texture of Liu Wenyan's favorite -after the muscles were gradually eaten by the disease, she was afraid of being "硌" by her bones.

The co -pilot seat was specially transformed by Zhao Tianci. The head of the seat was on both sides to set the bracket to prevent Liu Wenyan from swinging left and right. In addition to the normal seat belt, a hood is hung on the seat to support Liu Wenyan's chin, lest she shaking her head before and after driving.

Worried about the care of the journey, Zhao Tianci called a friend and a nanny who had long -term care of his mother.

The four of them departed and went west.

The itinerary on the road is randomly arranged. Crossing milk, noodles and a small electric cooker. On the road during the day, four people often cook noodles. When they entered the town, they found a restaurant to taste the local characteristics. Choose a hotel nearby at night. After rest, go on the road the next day.

On the way, Liu Wenyan's seats were adjusted every twenty minutes, raising and lowering, and a towel on her back to give her a stiff body. During the brakes, Zhao Tianci wanted to hold her forehead.

Liu Wenyan couldn't sit for a long time, and his hips were "painful", and he was shaken by the hooped head, and he was uncomfortable. To this end, Zhao Tianci went to the service area for more than a hundred kilometers. Sometimes Liu Wenyan was particularly uncomfortable, and every time he went to a service area, he stopped and rest.

On June 30, Zhao Tianci and Liu Wenyan took a group photo in front of Kanas Lake. Interviewee confidence

Diagnosis

At the end of 2014, Liu Wenyan was entangled with felmeal.

One day, when she was making dumplings, a finger on her right hand suddenly could not be capable. Many traditional Chinese medicine conditioning, but no effect. Later, the family took her to seek medical treatment around, but she could not find the cause.

In the process, Liu Wenyan's rest of his fingers lost his strength. In the end, the whole hand was paralyzed.

In the Spring Festival of 2015, Zhao Tianci took his mother for the first time to detect muscle disease electrical diagrams. The results showed that the mothers' motor neuron indicators were abnormal, "neurons are damaged", and the doctor speculated that it was suffering from "motor neuron disease", commonly known as gradient disease -if the judgment was correct, the mother would have "limbs, torso to chest to chest The abdomen's muscles are weak. "In the end, the atrophy will spread to the respiratory system until respiratory failure.

The doctor said that the disease could not be cured, and Liu Wenyan's remaining life may be "only two to three years."

The uncertainty of the disease has covered a layer of haze. Between the hospital, Liu Wenyan's mentality slowly collapsed, crying during the day, crying at night, and crying even more when he arrived at the hospital. Zhao Tianci understood that the mother would check the information of the freezing disease on the Internet.

In the second half of 2015, the doctor finally diagnosed Liu Wenyan suffering from gradual frost. Zhao Tianci still remembers what the doctor said to himself when confirming: "This disease is currently no longer medicine, and other methods don't have to try. In recent years, you can accompany your mother and try to take her more."

"She loves taking pictures, laughs, loves nature"

On the fifth day of the trip, the roads and raisins were dried on the roadside, and the car drove into the Xinjiang area.

The field of vision is getting wider and the scenery has become simple and clean. Fighting is all mountains, all kinds of mountains. Sometimes the mountains are planted with a row of straight pine trees, dark green, sometimes dark gray stone mountains, and then gradually become yellow Tushan. The scenery changed quickly, "changing a scene every ten kilometers." Sometimes I was still walking in the desert, and suddenly I saw an oasis. In the uninhabited area, it is even more colorful.

When the scenery outside the window changed, Zhao Tianci called Liu Wenyan to see quickly. Liu Wenyan would cross his head slightly, his eyes slowly moved out of the window, and the corner of his mouth gradually rose, and his eyes blinked a few times. "This is the meaning of recognizing the scenery." Zhao Tianci said.

Liu Wenyan loved to take pictures when she was young. In these photos, she always kept her black shoulder hair, her hair was straight, and a big wave was hot. Among them, Zhao Tianci's favorite photo was taken on the beach in Hainan. That day, she was wearing a light -colored dress, holding a parasol with one hand, holding a pair of flat shoes in one hand, and the sea was spreading her feet. She smiled brightly at the camera.

Zhao Tianci's memory of his mother was also the same: cheerful, laughed, liked to drink tea and practice yoga with friends, and he could always say the whole night with himself. My mother has always loved nature and especially likes mountains. Every summer, she often goes up the mountain with friends for half a month.

Liu Wenyan, born in 1969, worked in state -owned enterprises and started clothing, restaurants, food wholesale and other business in the 1990s. In the eyes of her husband Zhao Xuejun, the wife is independent and in addition to the business, and it can also take into account the small and small affairs of housework and other homes.

In 2015, Liu Wenyan took a photo on the beach in Hainan. Interviewee confidence

After diagnosis, Liu Wenyan became silent and unwilling to associate with others.

Zhao Tianci persuaded her to go out to play with her friends, and her friends often invited, and she always refused. Perhaps because she wants to be strong -she has to help when she goes out, and she has to feed people. She does not want to be troublesome, and does not want to be seen by her friends who are weakened. Some relatives came to the house to help take care, and she was uncomfortable, and she didn't say anything until she couldn't help it.

After a long time, Liu Wenyan was used to sitting from early in the morning to late. Zhao Tianci felt a kind of torture in his eyes.

In the two or three years after her mother diagnosed the frozen disease, Zhao Tianci still took her to seek medical treatment, and even tried a variety of "soil methods" treatment. The news that occasionally develops new drugs, "the whole family is staring at progress." Without exception, these attempts ended in failure.

Around 2017, Liu Wenyan's feet also had weak symptoms. Seeing that my mother was going to bed for a long time, Zhao Tianci, who was starting a business in Xi'an at the time, returned to Shangqiu and entered a real estate company to work.

The mother's body changes at the speed of visible to the naked eye. "Today, I can't move the normal hands today. I can walk today and I will be on a wheelchair tomorrow." Every time the body changes, Liu Wenyan cries at home and cry at home. field.

"The biggest feeling of this disease is torture, turning a normal person into a disabled person. This kind of pain is very slow, which is also equivalent to being sentenced to more and more death from death." Zhao Tianci said.

Put a way to live

Zhao Tianci couldn't say clearly, the change of life started from which node.

He only remembered that he gradually realized that under the fear of slow death, "if he put his energy on illness, the pain would only be stronger."

Therefore, he decided to help his mother to divert attention and change the way of life.

He first helped Liu Wenyan pick up the hobbies of stock trading again, and bought a smart speaker for her mother, so that she could continue to listen to the news and "watch" TV series. By the weekend, he drove his mother to travel to the attractions near his home.

He was pleasantly surprised to find that with his own company, his mother's mental state changed: no longer sitting quietly as before, the mother re -controlled various family matters, where is the objects at home, whether the oil and salt are lacking oil and salt, She vinegar, or lack of water, she was clear. On the driving road, the mother did not forget to remind himself to replace the oil and freezing liquid.

Before making a decision to travel to Xinjiang, Zhao Tianci hesitated. Long -term travel means that he wants to give up his existing work, which is objected by his mother. His wife encouraged him to find it again. "If you don't do what you want to do in time, there may be a day that is too late."

This time, Zhao Tianci rarely did not listen to his mother's opinion, and made his own determination: he took his mother to travel Xinjiang by self -driving, and did not miss any scenery along the way.

For this trip, Zhao Tianci prepared the drone. When he encountered the canyon or Panshan Highway where the road was difficult, he controlled the other end of the drone to fly to the mountain, and took the scenery to show Liu Wenyan.

On one occasion, the drone was out of control when shooting in the valley. He almost fell into the water. Zhao Tianci wanted to catch up and stepped on the cow dung. The mother in the distance saw it, and couldn't stop laughing. Along the way, they encountered enthusiastic residents and sent their own melon and fruits to their mother. There are also scenic spots that were not allowed to drive by tourists. After hearing about the situation of Zhao Tianci's mother, the management department took the initiative to turn on the green lights. On June 30, Zhao Tianci took his mother into the Kanas Scenic Area. The Kanas River was curved around the window and gradually hidden into the valley. One day, the Kanas Scenic Area changed two kinds of landscapes: the morning is still bright and sunny, and the eyes are full of green slopes. In the afternoon, the white mist on the river gradually rose, and the whole mountain was surrounded by the fog. After that, the heavy rain poured.

At that time, the journey was over half, and Zhao Tianci was afraid that Liu Wenyan would inevitably be a little burnout. Therefore, he was full of expectations for Kanas, known as the "pure land on earth", guessing that it may be the favorite place for mothers on the way.

Sure enough, when the car was driving on the land of Kanas, Liu Wenyan kept looking out the window, and did not move his eyes away for a moment.

Auntie Zheng, a nanny of his peers, obviously felt that Liu Wenyan's state was getting better every day: staying at home, Liu Wenyan would only watch TV or sit still, or he cried because of his body uncomfortable. On the journey in Xinjiang, she slept faster than before, and woke up from a dozen times to four or five times.

Aunt Zheng said that in the three years of taking care of Liu Wenyan, she never saw Liu Wenyan laugh so frequently.

In Xinjiang Scenic Area, Zhao Tianci took a picture of Liu Wenyan look at the scenery. Interviewee confidence

Where you can go, you must take your mother in the future

On July 12, Zhao Tianci took Liu Wenyan back to Shangqiu's home and ended a 31 -day trip.

After returning home, Zhao Tianci's video platform updated more and more videos, recording that he took his mother to visit the supermarket and watch movies. Liu Wenyan fell in love with these videos, watched it repeatedly every day, and the first thing to wake up in the morning is also watching.

However, once a new change in the body, Liu Wenyan was still crying. Zhao Tianci thought of a new countermeasure: the mother began to cry, and he immediately raised the camera to her — the mother loved beauty, and she was ugly. In front of the camera, she had to squeeze out her smile. She also knew that her son was intentional and couldn't help laughing.

Zhao Tianci said that her video platform account is called "Zhao Tianci and the daily life of her mother". This is because after a mother crying, she teased her like Liu Neng in a TV series. The mother laughed and laughed. Since then, he always told his mother to "be able" -one is to please his mother, and the other is to hope that the mother can pass the difficulties.

On July 2nd, Zhao Tianci and Liu Wenyan took a photo in the pit scenic area of ​​the cocoa -cocaid. Interviewee confidence

Today, Liu Wenyan's condition has reached the later stage, and the function of breathing, swallowing and speech is partially damaged. After the food enters her mouth, she has to turn her head and her mouth, so that the food tends to chew between the teeth. Zhao Tianci speculated that if the condition continues to develop, the next step may be used.

He still hopes that his mother can wait until the day when the special effects of gradual freezing disease came out. The mother discussed with him, and if he "failed to support", he donated the remains to the relevant research team.

He still plans to play around with her: when the weather is cold, go to the sea first, and then go to Yunnan to experience the process of picking tea and tea. He also intends to buy a eye controller for his mother, so that she can type with her eyes and interact with netizens.

"Our dream is to travel throughout the country and go abroad." He said, "Some of the places where normal people can go, I can go with my mother."

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Wen 丨 Beijing News reporter Zhou Siya

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School pair 丨 Chen Yanyan

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