People are old, the biggest misfortune is to lose these cards

01

Lost the deposit and lost the confidence of life.

There is a saying: "Those who do not make money by themselves often do not greedy money; those who make money by themselves have one text and two texts."

In life, he has worked hard for "Broken Silver and Two". Those who have tasted "making money" will not only make money desperately, but also know how to save money. In order to get old, she is worrying about her food and clothing.

But it is such a simple idea, and it is often not available to all life.

Some people have been aggrieved all their lives, and they have never been impulsive to spend money for themselves.

When I get old, in the face of various routines, scams, and traps specifically targeted at the elderly, they have lost the ability to "immune". As a result, they trust people. All the deposits were run away by others, leaving only their mess in the wind.

Such examples are common. Some people hollowed out their savings because they bought health products. Some people are willing to give everything because they meet "love".

Regardless of the situation, on the way to hollowing out the family, they can't listen to the persuasion of others, even if they realize that they may be deceived, they still have to "be lonely" and bet their luck.

It wasn't until the mountains and rivers were full of water, and those who welcomed themselves with their faces changed into a cold face in a blink of an eye, and even disappeared from then on, and they realized that what they wanted to grasp tightly was exactly the fatal "weakness".

For the rest of my life, I can only step on the watermelon peel and go where I slip.

02

I lost my lover and lost the company of love.

The old saying: "The young couple is old -fashioned." The realistic significance of marriage is that someone can accompany themselves to grow old slowly. When they can't go anymore, someone can ask for warmth, and some people pour tea. Some people can also treat themselves as treasures in their hands.

However, the road of love, flowers and thorns are present. Some people can only enjoy the fragrant sweetness of flowers, but they do not have enough wisdom, but they should deal with the provocation and suffering of "thorns".

Those who lost their lover, for the rest of their lives, were wandering like a duckweed without root.

I remember that my father had undergone surgery due to serious illness. Our three sisters took turns to accompany him. His father was restless. He didn't calm his mental state until his mother came.

A man in his fifty -year -old in the same ward, a few days before the operation, he went out to eat during the day, like a person, and only returned at night. However, when the family was signed before the operation, it was difficult. He said that the child broke up with him abroad. His parents had been old. He tossed a few times. He finally called a nephew and signed the surgery. Agree, he immediately invited the highest -level caregiver and asked them to take care of them carefully.

At that moment, I saw the fragility and helplessness of a big man. In the face of serious illness, he didn't panic. What really made him feel helpless is loneliness and old age.

Some people say that money and status are not as good as a beloved person next to you. Don't regret it until you lose.

Probably, only those who lose their lover can have such a thorough understanding.

03

If you lose your health, it is hard to do for your family.

Small illness dragging, carrying serious illnesses, can't be moved, and resolutely not to see a doctor. This is the habitual practice of many elderly people.

In order to save a few small money, minor illnesses are dragged into major illnesses, and major illnesses are delayed. Until the huge amount of medical expenses can no longer be paid, they are still annoyed by themselves. Essence

Only when a person truly understands "health is the greatest wealth", can he understand his life and willingly to take time to exercise every day to unknowingly change your eating habits and schedules in order to make yourself better "renewing life" Essence

Everyone said that they are very busy, busy making money, busy "busy", and the days seem to have entered a cycle of strange circles: the more busy, the more you have no time to exercise;

As a result of desperately making money, it is often "spending money for life."

Life should be like a long water to flow for a long time.

Therefore, on the way to get old, you must learn to become your own "doctor", hold your mouth, open your legs, exercise diligently, and entertain less; in addition to your health, you must also understand the affection. , Enrich your hobbies.

Only in this way, even if it is a bland life, can we taste the beauty of "poetry and the distance".

04

I lost my family and became the "orphan".

The older people, the more older people, the more the desire of "leaves to return to roots". When they return to their hometown in the countryside, visit the old relatives and friends, and find childhood memories to find the sense of satisfaction and happiness of their own.

But no one will always wait for you, even a relative, it will not.

Although there are only a few decades in life, some people have no changes in life for decades. They have no changes in life. They have disagreed with their ears, rejected themselves, and reject others penetration.

They always live in their own world, like old antique, although there is a sense of age, they are no longer applicable. Every time they approach them, they will have a short sense of intimacy and find their memories when they are young.

But for a long time, it has become a burden on each other.

Just like the characters in "crossing the drama", when they speak, they are contradictory, and a trip is a disaster.

Many elderly people have lost their affection. It is because they are unwilling to make the slightest change, to conform to the development and trend of the times, and work hard to catch up with the thinking habits of young people.

They looked very hard and worked hard.It is often laborious.But even so, they are willing to endure this non -recognition and understanding, and that they are not respected.I have to say that this is the biggest sadness of life.

05

End words:

On the way to get old, be a person who is diligent and good at learning, a person who is diligent in, and is good at hands -on.

Only when your heart is full of joy and happiness, just like the spring of the garden, and you can't close it, that is the real richness and completeness.

Author: Rufeng is light and cloudy.

Your happiness, my blessing.

The picture comes from the Internet.

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