If you cross the self -crossed, others can help others who can help

Encountered a problem, solve it by yourself

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I suddenly entered the pit of a game recently, but as a game of the game, many "black words" in the game made me dizzy. Thinking of a friend around her is a senior player of this game, so she sent her a message and asked her to help me science the basic knowledge of the game and take me more to practice.

It was a promising invitation, but she didn't want to be splashed with a pot of cold water. My friend said that she was very busy recently, and she didn't play this game. She couldn't take me.

Looking at the reply, I was angry for a while.

Obviously it is not a difficult thing, but helping me popularize the entry knowledge of some games. It should be a matter of easy and working hard for her, but it has been rejected so, making me very chilling to my friends in the past ten years.

Later, I could only search the Internet by myself, ask netizens, and chat with everyone, and then slowly get familiar with this game.

However, this incident also made me understand one of the truth: Many things, we cannot pin the hope completely on others. If others provide help, it is the love between each other. Blame others.

Because people only rely on themselves to solve their problems can it be a key step in growth.

As in a book, the process of living in society is a process of constantly encountering problems, facing problems, analyzing problems, and solving problems.

The problem and trouble are the seasonings of life. Although it will bring us a lot of troubles and pains, on the other hand, this is also the opportunity to exercise in our lives, and all of them can grasp only ourselves.

Regardless of the big and small questions, don't think about relying on the ability of others, but to think about how to improve your ability. This can give yourself more opportunities for growth.

When life is difficult, learn to save yourself

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In a recent variety show, there is such a story: a girl, her parents divorced, and the broken family made her feel insecure since she was a child. , Accompany yourself.

Later, she met a boy. Even if she encountered the other PUA, she had been reluctant to leave the boy.

Because she feels that rare people can love herself, she urgently needs this love to save unfortunate herself.

However, the love she desired eventually hurt her deeper.

You know, when life is difficult, you can only be your own savior.

If you want another person to pull himself out of the quagmire of life, it is equivalent to handing life to others and passively accepting others.

When you encounter a dilemma of life, you may struggle and hurt, maybe the process is very difficult, but when you stand up by your own strength, you can be truly rescued.

Many times, when you ask others to help each other, you may be counterproductive because of the wrong way. Only you can save you at critical moments in life.

How to save yourself

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If you want to save yourself and change your destiny, you can pry open the mussels from the following small dots:

1. Talk to yourself and face your inner pain.

Many times, it is precisely because we can't look directly at some problems or pains and escape blindly that we keep us hovering in place. Only when you really face your own problems can you find a way to solve it.

2. Find the goal and act for it.

If you have only a dilemma in front of your eyes, then you may be stunned in this dilemma all day long and wrapped in annoying emotions.

If you want to save yourself and get rid of the predicament, what you should do most is to find a goal and then act for it. The clear goal allows you to abandon the thoughts and eventually break away from the predicament.

3. Temk your perseverance.

If people want to save themselves and change their destiny, then you must have enough courage and keep moving forward.

Frozen one foot of a day is cold. Only by tempering your own perseverance and persisting in saving yourself can you get rid of the predicament and welcome the beautiful sunshine.

There must be something in life, what we cannot predict and control. At this time, don't rush to deny yourself, let alone stop in place to be defeated by difficulties. What you need to do is tell yourself: I am my own hero, I will take myself to break out.

About the author: chestnut, a chestnut that loves the moon.

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