Night Reading ｜ alone is an ability

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Single alone is a kind of ability

Text ｜ Zhou Guoping

People often regard communication as a kind of ability, but ignoring alone is also a ability, and in a certain sense, it is a more important ability than interaction. On the other hand, it is a regret to not be good at communication, and it is not a very serious flaw to impatient loneliness.

It is also a ability to be alone, not anyone can have any time. With this ability does not mean that you no longer feel lonely, but in loneliness and make it productive forces. People have three states in loneliness. The first is uneasy, clueless, pneumatic unintentional, and escape from loneliness. The second is to gradually get used to loneliness, settle down, establish the rules of life, and use reading, writing or other affairs to expel loneliness. The third is that loneliness itself has become a poetic soil, an opportunity for creation, inducing deep thinking and experience of existence, life, and self.

It is a beautiful moment and a good experience in life. Although it is lonely, there is a fulfilling in loneliness. Looping is a necessary space for the growth of the soul. When we are alone, we draw out from others and affairs and return to ourselves. At this time, we faced ourselves and God alone, and began a dialogue with our hearts and mysterious power in the universe.

All soul life in the strict sense is began when it is alone. Talking about ancient and present with others, quoting the scriptures, that is a chat and discussion; only when you are immersed in the masterpieces of the masters from ancient times to the present, you will have a true feelings. Traveling with other people to play mountains and water, that is just travel; only when you face the vast mountains and sea alone, will you truly feel communication with nature.

From the perspective of psychology, people's need to be alone is to carry out inherent integration. The so -called integration is to put new experience in a proper position in the inner memory. Only after this integration process can foreign impression be digested by self, and self -growing systems that are both independent and growing. Therefore, with the ability of uniqueness, whether a person can truly form a relatively self -sufficient inner world, which will affect his relationship with the outside world.

How to judge whether a person has his "self"? There is a reliable test method to see if he can be alone. When you stay alone, you feel boring and unbearable, or do you feel a kind of peace, fulfillment and satisfaction?

The hobbies that are alone have nothing to do with a person's personality. Those who love alone may also be a lively person with a lively personality and a friend, but no matter how he is willing to associate with others, it is always necessary for his life. In his opinion, a lack of interaction life is of course a flaw, and a life that lacks alone is a disaster.

No one in the world can endure absolute loneliness. However, people who must not endure lonely are a person with empty souls.

There are such people in the world. What they are most afraid of is to be alone and let them stay with them for a while, which is a torture for them. As long as they are idle, they must find a place to recreate. Their lives were very lively on the surface, and in fact their hearts were extremely empty. Everything they do is to try to avoid seeing themselves face to face.

In this regard, I can only have one explanation, that is, even they feel their poverty. It is not interesting to stay with such poor self. It is much more interesting than this boring pastime. As a result of this, they became more and more poor, and they lost their own, forming a vicious circle.

About the Author:

Zhou Guoping, a well -known Chinese contemporary scholar, writer, and philosophy, is one of the famous scholars of Chinese research philosopher Nietzsche. He is the author of "Nietzsche: At the Turn Point of the Century", the essay collection of "The distance of Watch", the casual collection of "People and Eternal", "Paper Deduct in the Wind", "Scrolls and Short Chapters", poem collection "Sad Love", and "Life Philosophy Records", "Zhou Guoping Human Human Terlia" and so on.

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