The logic of amazing weak: 4 signs of a person began to abolish

The well -known Festineg ruledan tells us:

"10%of life consists of things that happened to you, and another 90%is determined by how you react to what you happened."

Most of the things in destiny can be mastered by ourselves.

And in this, the decisive role is your thinking logic.

99%of the world's failure was lost on the "weak thinking".

People immersed in this kind of thinking logic are difficult to come to them.

When you stay away from these four signs, you can have a life.

Trust the cost of sinking

Ax and Brumer did a "ticket purchase experiment" in 1985.

They let the experimental object, assuming that they spent $ 5,000 and bought a ticket for Michigan skiing.

After that, they told the experiment again, and there was a more affordable package -as long as it took $ 3,000 to enjoy the Wisconsin ski travel.

At the same time, they asked the experimental objects to suppose they bought the ticket.

Soon, the researchers told those people that the time of these two trips conflicted with each other, and both tickets could not be retreated or transferred.

At this time, the researchers asked them to make a choice between the two.

Surprisingly, half of them chose to participate in the former, that's more expensive and not as interesting to the latter.

They gave such a reason: if they spent $ 5,000 without participating, they would lose more.

After this experiment, Ax and Brumer discovered that for many people, it has influenced the money spent in the past, not the joy of gaining in the future.

And this is the typical sinking cost effect.

Yakos, a well -known psychology professor, said:

"90%of the misfortunes in life are because they are not reconciled. This is why many people do not know how to stop loss in time."

The biggest trap in human nature is the strange circle of "sinking costs".

Many people are in the swamp of "sinking costs", getting deeper and deeper.

They are unwilling to pay in the past, and they are stubbornly looking forward to the unknown beautiful outlook.

As everyone knows, this will only waste more time and energy.

Only by jumping out of the "sinking cost" black hole can you make a more wise choice and find the way that suits you best.

Falling into emotional internal consumption

I really like this sentence:

"The attitude of mentality is opened, it is a bit bigger."

Sometimes, we feel anxious, panic, and confused, which is caused by a lot of emotional internal consumption.

Only by relaxing your mind can your troubles farther and farther away from you.

There is a netizen on Zhihu who shared his personal experience.

One of the manager Yang of his company is a calm and capable person.

One day, Manager Yang vomited in the office and even fainted.

The colleagues quickly took him to the hospital, and originally thought he was just overwhelming.

Unexpectedly, the condition became more and more serious.

Later, I learned that because Manager Yang's friends asked him to make a loan guarantee, he had to agree because of the friendship between friends.

But so far, he spent every day regret and worry.

Because the number of loans is too large, he is always worried that his friends will not be on.

Manager Yang was trapped in an uneasy emotion and was frightened.

He was afraid that once his friend's business failed, his house and loan could only be taken away.

It was because of his daily thoughts that he didn't hold his body and fainted in the office.

When his friend went to see him the next day and accidentally revealed that the investment was successful, Manager Yang's heart opened.

The next day, he went to work with cheese.

Shakespeare said:

"If you think too much, you will lose the joy of being a person."

Thinking about it, it will only increase your troubles.

In trivial life, people who really live comfortably are rejecting "emotional internal consumption".

Life is short, and it is better to be as weak as everything.

Low -level happiness

German philosopher Kant believes:

"Happiness is our needs."

Indeed, everyone wants to have the happiness that they wish to get.

But the real happiness should be the sense of accomplishment that comes through its own efforts.

The low -level happiness that blindly addicted to enjoyment will only stir off you and make you nothing.

In the past few years I just worked, I still had the remaining temperature of the study during the student period. I plan to list myself every day.

But with the increase of age, I became more and more lazy and gradually lost the motivation to learn.

In the past few years, I go home from get off work every day and spend the video.

Originally stipulated by yourself, watching only half an hour of videos.

As a result, it was brushed and in the middle of the night.

When I get up in the morning, I will always be determined not to stay up late.

But the next night, it was still the same.

In the long run, the dark circles and acne problems on my face continued, even if the foundation was thick, it couldn't cover it.

Not only that, staying up late also made me promoted to the "Sleeping God" of the unit.

I was lethargic all day, and the leaders explained to me, and I forgot to turn my head, which caused a lot of mistakes in my work.

I have always been anxious, so I hope to comfort myself through short happiness, so I will fall into the dead cycle of "low -level happiness".

After the pain and pain, I started trying to change.

I get watched 1 hour every day and read 1 hour before going to bed.

I even reported writing classes to improve myself after get off work.

In my studies, I came into contact with better companions and gained rich knowledge. Today, when I talk to others, I can obviously feel the clear thinking.

In the work, the monthly plan and summary of each time are also well organized, and they have been unanimously appreciated by the leaders.

The change brought by this process is unprecedented.

It is not money and fortune, nor is it satisfied.

Instead, after hard work, you can reach the joy of freedom.

I remember that Luo Xiang said that happiness is also different.

Low -level happiness comes from indulgence, and high -level happiness comes from restraint.

Droming in low -level happiness is disrespect for your life. Except for annoyance and suffering, you will eventually gain nothing.

When you know how to restrain your desire and learn to discipline yourself, you can cross the level and enjoy true advanced happiness.

Formation of fixed thinking

In the 1990s in the 1990s, it was the most glorious and dazzling era of Kodak.

The annual sales exceeded 10 billion US dollars, with 10,000 patented technology, and even exceeded the car giant Ford.

In China, all 7 companies in China's film industry at that time established a joint venture with Kodak.

At that time, Kodak Company was unlimited.

However, with the rapid development of the global digital market, Kodak has stagnated and does not accept any changes.

Since 2000, Kodak's film business has fallen rapidly. In 2007, the company entered a loss state and officially declared bankruptcy in 2013.

As a world -renowned brand, Kodak is silent, making people sigh.

When the digital era arrived, Kodak did not seize the opportunity.

It is still immersed in the achievements of the monopoly giant and cannot extricate itself.

This result became the lock in Kodak, locked creativity and thinking, and stifled all possible turns in the cradle.

The suspension of the wealthy bird is also because of this lock.

The brand that once won the honor of "Chinese Leather Shoes" four times, the brand that was tied with Li Ning and 361, but failed to get on the express train of e -commerce, and eventually disappeared into the torrent of the times.

In 2013, Ma Yun's Taobao developed crazy, constantly impacting the traditional business model.

That year was the most beautiful year for the wealthy bird.

It failed to find the value of e -commerce, and it was still trapped in its traditional model and was unwilling to change.

In just two years, the wealthy bird was thrown off by e -commerce, falling into the "altar", and even paying liabilities of 3 billion.

The same destiny of the rich bird and Kodak also tells us the truth: sticking to the old customs, it will only restrict the development of development.

As Xuefeng said in the Collection of Zen Temple:

"Everything is convenient method, timely law, not a long -lasting law. Once any cognition is fixed, it is bound to take care of it and become a obstacle."

Therefore, do not let fixed thinking fix yourself.

Those who use the rules of Mo Shou as a winning book will be eliminated by the times sooner or later.

When you push down the wall of your mind, you will find that a willow is dark in front.

someone said:

"A person's habitual thinking logic can reflect its basic life trajectory."

In this world, the logic of the weak is always strange, and the strong thinking of the strong is similar.

To reduce the cost of sinking, you can stop the loss in time and go forward;

To reduce emotional internal consumption, you can say goodbye to anxiety and gain happiness;

Getting rid of low -level happiness can achieve self -discipline and live free;

Breaking the fixed thinking can it be flexible and create new opportunities.

Source: Fu Shu (ID: kolfrc)

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