Which moment makes you have the courage to marry TA?It's 22 times

We recently collected the story of "the moment of decision to get married" to everyone, and received a reply from many married readers. There are also many unmarried readers who say they want to know the experience of coming.

Friends who are still confused about entering marriage, come and see what everyone decides to get married because of what everyone is because of what they are because of what they are. I hope to give you some inspiration ~

01.

I decided to decide with him for a lifetime, probably the dinner he made every night, the daily socks I washed, effortlessly communicated, and he was panicked when I was angry.

02.

One morning, we quarreled and confronted, but after half an hour calm, the two sat down and analyzed it carefully, chatted frankly, and finally decided to continue. At that time, I firmly had my own heart and no longer afraid of marriage. I saw our ability to solve the problem together, and I believe that there are no difficulties that two people cannot overcome in the future. As long as we are together, we are a Team, which is invincible.

03.

The moment when I jumped out of my mind many times when I wanted to marry him immediately, it was always a small thing: I don't like to cook, he has a good cooking skills, and I especially like to cook for me. I feel that I am in the kitchen. Want me to accompany it; the first bite of the first sip of me, as if a little boy who showed off; with colleagues and friends, I always remembered my preferences subconsciously; "Hey, this is life." In the process, I suddenly realized that happiness was like this, simple and bland.

04.

He said when he was willing to ligation after marriage.

05.

He was playing games, and I fell asleep next to him. He heard him told his teammates, "My daughter -in -law fell asleep", and then covered me the quilt. At that moment, I felt that marrying him would not be wrong.

06.

During the epidemic, there were nearly three months, and there were no big differences, but they were happy.

07.

Two weeks ago, I came to her city because of work changes, and she helped me see the house in a hurry. Later, I was optimistic about the house to be transferred to rent, and I found that I had to pay the booking fee for another month in addition to the payment of one payment, but my card was not so much money. I urgently called at home and asked for money before I got it. At that time, it was particularly embarrassing and felt very faceless, afraid she would dislike me.

When we took the car home, she said, today I have worked hard for my baby. I just felt embarrassing. This way, I took you to eat some of them tonight to comfort you. If you have such a thing in the future, you will tell me directly, I borrow you. When I looked at her, she laughed at me, and at that moment I felt that she was in this life.

08.

When suppressing their sexual orientation, and finding a man who really likes each other, the two continue to linger and torture until the two who meet me can not finish talking for a month. Don’t harmonious or awkward places. Take a bath together at night, I washed his hair, he rubbed my feet, went to bed to sleep, and the two could be crazy together. When returning the car last Saturday, when the waiting time for charging the tram, the seat was turned down. The two lying in the car were pulled, and suddenly I wanted to get married.

09.

When I think marriage is not the end.

10.

Probably I was uncomfortable in my physiological period. I planned to get up in the inside in the basin. I woke up the next day and found that he had been washed and dried. I got up earlier than me, and my face did not wash my teeth or brushed out to help me buy intestinal powder. I poured a cup of warm water when I went upstairs.

11.,

Seeing his parents back to his hometown. Parents are simple and busy cooking chickens and killing fish. I observed that there were a lot of wild cats near his house, and when I smelled the fishy smell, the team was waiting in his yard. His father killed the fish carefully to install the fish's internal organs and eat it for those kittens. When eating, his father clamped a piece of chicken, bit his chicken skin and handed it to his mother. Seeing me a little puzzled, he smiled and said, "My mother doesn't like chicken skin, so my dad eats it." It was probably moved by this moment.

12.

"Even if you really lose your fertility in the future, I will not leave you because of this." I heard this sentence at the time and decided to marry the person in front of me.

After half a year together, I found out that the lumbar disc herniation was prominent in the center, and then when various pathological and treatment methods were checked, I learned that the central type may affect fertility, and even half of my body. I was anxiously insomnia all night. In this sentence, my girlfriend was warm to me and successfully resolved the crisis.

On Valentine's Day two months after lumbar surgery, I kneeled on one knee on the Ferris wheel, took out the rings that secretly ordered, and successfully proposed to her.

13.

Kicking the quilt was frozen in the middle of the night, and turned around and turned to find him to warm. He stumbled and said, "Why is it so cool." I felt like this at that time.

14.

Once he quarreled with his boyfriend, he quarreled very much. I cried hard. I cried until I had a headache. At nine o'clock in the evening, he called me up and said to sleep, and there was a bowl of hot noodles he cooked on the table, and there was even a poached egg in it. When I ate, my breath disappeared. At that time, I was thinking that this man who did not forget to cook for me even if he was still angry, he must marry! It's been almost two years since I am in love, and I am as sweet as when I was in love.

15.

I want to wake up at first glance every day. In this way, I think I can only marry him. Although the marriage is not happy now, this cannot be changed at the time I wanted to be with him so much. 16.

It's not a moment, it is countless moments slowly overlap.

17.

At one or two in the morning of that night, my acute gastroenteritis kept vomiting and called him, and he immediately rushed over. I was sick for three days and three nights. He took care of me for three days and three nights. He felt that he helped me do except to the toilet and bathing. I took a regular schedule for me. I ran around at 11 o'clock in the evening to buy white porridge. I coaxed me to sleep. I dared to close my eyes when I fell asleep, and I looked at him to see my distressed look ... He was more than I thought. Love me, his love for me does not stop staying on my mouth. That time I strengthened my inner thoughts.

18.

Since we have spent so much energy and emotion adapting to each other, why should we let this painful process come again?

19.

Although ... I don't know why. It didn't take long for a long time, I forgot anywhere together. When I walked halfway, I asked him why he didn't leave. He didn't hesitate to answer directly: I just farted out of shit ... I can't help laughing now At that moment, I wanted to marry him hahahahahaha. I have been together for 8 years, and I will give birth in October.

20.

A bit tacky, when he got all the crickets before getting married.

twenty one.

After the fierce love with her predecessor, the feathers on the ground, the tattoos engraved with the former name engraved on my body made me feel inexplicably inferior. After washing for a long time, I didn't wash it. For a long time, I couldn't accept new people. I met him later, and the scar was hidden in the early days of the relationship to not let him see it. One time he saw it accidentally. He looked at me with panic, and came to hold me and said, this is just your past. Feel sorry. It was because of the tenderness of this moment, I decided to marry him.

twenty two.

After waking up in the morning, my husband saw this topic. After reading it, I asked him where you had the courage?

At this time, there was an answer in my heart- "moment moment", and his voice sounded at the same time- "every moment".

KY author said:

In the face of this problem, some readers quoted Li Daren's words in "I May Not Love You": "Many, often, endless."

很多读者的留言也都验证了这一点：和这个人走下去的勇气，并不是突然砸下来的，而是很多很多看起来不值一提的小事堆积起来，让我慢慢确定，嗯，就是This person.

Because life is not just a performance on the stage, but the dull daily life that slowly spend a minute at a time. We will be excited about the characteristic characteristics of the glittering character on the stage, but what we need is a complete, specific, real, imperfect, and can watch countless performances with us. People.

We often use many labels and conditions to determine whether a person is suitable for marriage and call this behavior "rational." But why is it a rational kind of love and care that really feels love and care? When we face our heart, sometimes the answer will come naturally.

I hope everyone can meet the courage to make you have the courage to stay with TA.

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